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I hate the way my family treat me. They constantly rag on me for no reason. All i do is walk in the room and they will say something about me to hurt my feelings. For instance, my dad yelled at me for eating one time, telling me id get fat. (At the time i was 115 lbs.) I wouldnt even eat for days, and one meal..i would get yelled at. For a while, I used to starve myself because I was sick of getting yelled at and sneaking food at midnight. Now, i eat less and my dad will laugh and joke about how Im anorexic, which isnt true. My younger sister also calls me fat, when im only 125. (Im 16). She even calls me a dyke (not true) because ive never had a boyfriend. She, on the other hand, goes out and sleeps with every guy that says hello to her. My dad knows it, but he still laughs and calls me that too and tells me im never going to get a boyfriend. My dad thinks i should drop out of high school because my grades werent as good as last years. (Im still on honor roll.) I dont make straight A's like my sis, and Im not outgoing as my sis. And because of that, they call me a failure and doubt my intelligence. Im sick of them treating me like im nothing. They say they are "joking" but they know how much it hurts and continue to do it all the time. They enjoy seeing me down and thats why they keep bringing me down. I used to ask them to stop, but they dont listen. Now i just ignore them because i know words cannot kill me. But honestly, they are. I never thought words could be so powerful and have such an influence on me, but the consistancy of it has ruined my self esteem and has caused me to stop talking. Im starting to believe i am nothing, because thats how im always treated. Any advice? Dont tell me to talk to them or anyone. I have tried it so many times in the past, they ARENT going to listen. (link)
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Hun for you to be going through this is a tough situation indeed. Counseling might help but beyond that you need to have confidence in yourself. You may find it handy to escape the house once in a while and find a group you clique with. Escapism is extremely normal weather it be spirituality like myself, sports, music, or anything else. Do something productive and do not give one iota what they say. If they are joking truly then you need to make a joke back and roll with it. Be proud of yourself and who you are hun.
You can overcome it but it will take some work, but do you truly want the problem to go away i cant guarantee that's possible but the problem can be nullified, but you have to want it and want to fix what is damaged.
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How old do you have to be to work at a night club or strip club? (No, i dont want to be a stripper.) (link)
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Well most strip clubs, dance clubs, night +clubs...beer is a custom...you just look odd not having a drink in your hand sometimes(if your only attending) so probably 21+
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Im 17 and i know ill be losing my virginity this summer. But apart of me still thinks HE is too good for me. And that im not that beautiful and skinny enough to have sex. Has anyone ever felt this way? How should i get over these feelings? (link)
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Hun its called fear of inadequacy. The thing is we are all equal and we all have important things and interesting characteristics about us. How do you KNOW he is too good for you? How do you KNOW that's what he thinks? Unless he told you, you don't. Obviously if you were inadequate, you would have been told so strait off. Hun, you need to have confidence in yourself that we are simply human beings living in this crazy place called earth.
What leads you to your fear? Is it previous rejection? Lack of attention? Well honey, i bet he has felt the same way before. Is it a skill you have had? Verbal communication? Sports? Try practicing. Be bold but be genuine is all i have to say.
Take care and goodluck :)
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I need to find newspaper articles from 8 weeks ago. But since I recycled all of them, where would I go to get them? I believe libraries have them, but I need to cut out and use the actual article. Help? (link)
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you can probably find an online edition of the newspaper and print the page out.
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