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Well Hey hey howdy ho! My name is Bryndon. Yes, I know its spelled weird but its pronounced like Brendan. I like Basketball, Soccer, Football, Baseball and I'm a die hard Oklahoma State fan. I'm not really popular but I'm not really unpopular either. I'm just one of those people in the middle with a bunch of friends. Trust me, when your in the middle, you have more friends then ANYBODY! I like to be in productions. Musicals, Plays, Whatever it is, I'll be in it. I just got done in Once on This Island and hope to do like 100 more plays and musicals in my life. Ask for any type of advice and I'll try my best to answer them. Hosta la bye bye
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Age: 13
AIM: Cdefense15
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can someone please tell me a good brand of shoes that i can get for basketball.. that are not too expensive (the highest i can pay is 50) thanls. i rate for good answers. (link)
Yeah I have some AND 1 shoes and I got them for under $50. They are like these Men's Triple Double II things. Yeah they look pretty cool, they arent expensive, and they are comfortable. Hope my advice helps.


Okay i need the answer to this riddle please!!

You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. how do you escape?

It really got me thinking and i can't seem to find out the answer. If i think you got it right then i`ll give you a 5. but if you try i`ll give you a 5 also!! =D thank you (link)
Yeah, for some reason I have seen this riddle in things like 5 different times this week. Ok, you look n the mirror and you see what you saw. You use the saw to saw the table in half and then two halves make a whole which you can climb through to get out.


i know this is long but please, HELP!!
okay here goes..
im 13 and a girl. i really like almost in love with this one guy at my school. last year i had every single class with him, it was like heaven. this year i have no classes with him, at all. the only time i get to see him is at nutrition and lunch, if hes in the same place i am. last year i could kind of tell he liked me but this year its hard to tell. if i pay a lot of attention to him, he becomes interested, ill try to move where he is and stare at him in a very "im into you" kind of way. but sometimes its kinda of hard to tell. i really dont feel comfortable confronting him face to face, and i havent even told my friends that i like him. how can i tell if he likes me??? I nees some other solutions then ask him straight forward, please!!!! (link)
Hmm... Well yes just like falconsfire said you could get another guy friend to do some under cover work. Trust me, boys don't care if other girls or other guys tell them that a girl likes them unlike how girls hate it if someone else asks them out for them. Yeah, if you tell him you like him yourself you might e embarrased, but stand strong. Act like even if he says no it'll be alright. Besides, if he does say yes, then you'll be wondering why you didn't ask before. Just go ahead and tell him you like him face to face. He will probably say yes because usually whenever boys find out someone likes them, they will like you too. Hope it works out for you. Good Luck!


I am 13 year old boy in the 7th grade and I met this incredible girl over the summer. I had asked her out, but she wasn't allowed to date, yet I got her phone number. I still wasn't sure if she liked me as I liked her. Because as school came around I felt closer to her.I asked her out again during school, yet she still couldn't date!!!!!!! We have our last period together and we sit next to each other. Neither of us are very social at that time. I don't know if she feels the way I feel because I can feel this in no crush... I am in love with her. I need advice on when to ask, her where to ask her, what to ask her to, and if she can go how should I dress and what should I bring. (link)
Dude, I was the same way. I had asked a girl out a while ago and she said her parents wouldn't let her date. We have 7th hour together (Vocal Music) and we sit by each other. Actually I wrote a song for her and whatever. I asked her out 2 days ago at a cast party for this school play I'm in. You have to ask her out to a party or something. The girl I asked out said Probably yes and she hasnt told me an official answer yet. Yeah, or you could do something else. Just give it time and make sure she doesn't know you like her until maybe Valentine's Day. Get her a box of chocalates then and ask her out to a movie. Also, DO NOT give her a poem if you are unsure she will like it or if it has something your not sure about in it. Don't show off either. Girls HATE it when people show off. I feel the same way you do about a girl and I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.


Hey... this isn't a question... but hi! hehe

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Hello.


my school is having a fall festival, and every class either has to sing a song, or do a play. we have 5 girls in my class so a song is out of the question, because the boys are just too good to sing with us. anyway, if anyone knows a good play we can do, can you please tell me were i can find a script or something for it? thanks alot! (link)
Hmmm... Maybe you ould do Alice in Wonderland or Clue. Thats what my school has done in the past. Or maybe you could do Peter Pan. That doesn't have many female roles. Tell me what you end up doing for the play. Hosta la bye bye!


I get jelous really easily. If I see my friends together without me, I instantly get jelous. I like get into this depressed state and start thinkin know one likes me. Or if they`re talkin about a good time they had together and I wasn`t there I get all upset. I really hate to feel this way, I know I can`t be their WHOLE lives. What should I do ? (link)
Hey hey howdy ho! I sometimes get jealous like that too (even though im a guy). It's kind of strange how that works. You shouldn't be jealous of your friends being together without you. If you do they might exclude you even more. Even if you aren't invited to something. They are still your friends. Maybe try and get something together with other friends besides the ones who are already hanging out. Or you could ry to be the one who gets your friends together first and invite every one of your friends that can come so no one feels left out. Hope my advice works. Hosta la bye bye!


Hey. I'm 14 years old. I'm concerned about weight problems. I'm only 5'2" and I'm 156 lbs. I guess since you're really sporty you can help me on this. Some people say I look fat and I can't help crying. I really want to look thin and I really need somebody to help me. Can you please tell me what to do? (link)
Hmm. Well, first of all you aren't fat and you shouldn't feel bad about it. If you want to loose a couple pounds you just need to eat healthy and exercise. You need to limit yourself from eating junk food. Eat it sparingly or maybe don't eat it at all. I know people can be tempted to not eat junk food sparingly, but just try to stay away from it. You need to eat healthy things. For school lunch, try some fruit and vegitables everyday and try to get the main food with the least fat in it. Also, in gym class, don't be the one who talks to friends instead of playing the game. Participating in gym can help a lot. While you are at home try not to stay on the computer all the time. Go outside once in a while maybe play some basketball on a neighbor's hoop. If you really want to be on the computer, every ten minutes of using it, try to go do 20 sit-ups or 10 push-ups and get back on. If you can follow these instructions and do even more healthy things than I told you to do, then you'll feel confident and proud of your body. But even now don't think that you need to lose 30 or more pounds. You are only 14 and if you lose that much weight it could stop your growing for a while and do other harmful things to you. Whatever you do, good luck and thank you for coming to me for advice. Hosta la bye bye!




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