I love to inspire others and get people advice! I want people to do good, do the right thing, and over come darkness!
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I have been a straight A student up until now. Lately i have been getting off track and I'm not sure why. My grades are suffering. I am not sure what to do to get back on track and fix my grades. Any advice? (link)
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If you are getting off track then I think that you should try to ask yourself what is important to you. What do you want to get out of life and what is your career choice. That should get you more motivated to get your grades up. If you are still struggling try to ask for get if you don't understand something or need assistance, parents are very good at helping you when you need some help. Good Luck!
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Ok so many pastors have told me that God has a distinct job for me here on earth as well as in Heaven. So I got to thinking if my astrology signs would help me discover more about myself that I don't already know. What exactly do they mean? Please no hate. Advice is much appreciated.
Sun Sign- Aries
Moon Sign- Taurus
Rising Sign- Libra
Mid heaven- Leo (link)
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Hello, I'm a Libra, BTW. We tend to be the ones that become successful and follow our dreams. We are dreamers. We are nice to everyone. Forgive real quick, and almost never have any enemies. We tend to have a ton of talents, and be great at most things.
Here is a link for more information:
http://www.horoscope.com/
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What should I say to someone who has a chronic illness to make them feel better? (link)
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It depends on what the chronic illness is, but you should try to inspire them to live there life, I know that some people once they find out they have an illness they stop doing things they usually do. Tell them that if they trust in God they can do anything they set their mind in doing and that they will over come this illness sooner or later, it might take a bit longer to do so but they'll be able to do anything with patience. i hope this advice works for you and Good Luck!
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I am 13 years old and have played lacrosse for 3 years. I'm good at the sport but would like to try track (I can't do both). The girl that I like is also doing track. My best friend agreed he would do track if I do and he also plays lacrosse. (You don't need to try out for the sports at my age level).
So should I play lacrosse or join track? (link)
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It seems like there are more pros than cons to joining track. If you are serious on joining track I'd say go for it, you might like it. You'll have your best friend and the girl you like and if you don't like it then you don't have to do it next year.
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I write my own lyrics and I sing my own songs too. But I don't know what to do with some the songs I have. Some of the songs I wanna song to but I don't know anyone with good beats or I don't know who would buy my songs from me. What should I do and how should I sell my songs our should I just keep them to myself?? (link)
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I think you should go onto youtube and sing there, its a good way to get discovered and maybe you can find someone that will help you get the instramental piece of the songs.
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I'm 16 years old & I'm a virgin. A week ago I was in bed with a guy & we we making out & he fingered me. This was my first time being fingered & his penis touched the outside of my vagina but we didn't have sex. The next day I had stomach cramps & got worse everyday. Now my breasts are kinda sore & I have really bad abdominal pain. PLEASE HELP ME! I need advice. I have no one to talk to about this. Should I worry that I might be pregnant ?? I'm really nervous!! (link)
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Most likely you are going to start you period but if he had cumed on the outside on you vagina it is still possible to get pregnant, but You should worry about it too much until you had missed you period.
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How to entertain a three year old for hours? (link)
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you could watch a movie with them. Color with them. Play some kind of game. go outside.
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i want 2 know how to make home made peanut butter cookies (link)
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The easiest way to make peanut butter cookies, with a cup of peanut better a cup or sugar and one egg. set oven for 350 and bake for 8-10 minutes.
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Working on a menu for a red, white, and blue party. I have plenty of ideas for red and white foods, but I need some blue foods besides blueberries. (link)
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Use food coloring for your pastries.
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So... am I the only one who moved into their own place without ever learning how to boil an egg?
I have so far blown up several batches of eggs or had them not be done enough (still runny!) so what am I doing wrong?
Surely someone here knows how to make hard boiled eggs, right?
Help! (link)
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Place you eggs in a sauce pan that is going to fit your eggs and cover them with water completely. Boil them for 30-45 depending on how cooked you want the yolks. Then place them in cold water to stop the cooking time. Don't do anything with the eggs until they are cooled completely, your best bet is to put them back into the carton and place in the fridge overnight. They should be cooked all the way by the time your done. Happy Cooking!
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I made beef gravy, and added too much salt. Is there a way to cut the saltiness in the gravy? (link)
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If you are making gravy then you could add more flour and water until you get the preferred taste and consistency. Happy Cooking!
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can anyone tell me why the fuck is it everytime i cook it ends up on fire or blown up in my face i mean oce i even set my poptart on fire wtf? (link)
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Well if you are catching your poptart on fire it could be the electrical wiring, or maybe you leave it in too long at a higher settings then you should have it on for cooking poptarts. You should keep thinks at a medium or low temperature and keep your food almost always moving. If your cooking meats or rice you should put a cover over it to lock in the moisture and the heat in, so you'll cook the inside before you burn the outside. Happy Cooking!
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Hello Advicenators: Is it okay to use hot tap water from the kitchen sink to cook with in recipes? From boiling potatoes to mash or for soup etc. Thanks, Dzadzy (link)
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I have some Culinary Arts training. Depends, if you are cooking it, such as baking, or boiling, then yes because it'll heat the water to a hot enough temperature that will kill the bacteria. But if you are not going to boil the water in some way during your cooking process.
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There's a guy I like and he always gives me stuff like food and stuff. So on Valentines I want to give him something to pay him back for the food but I don't want him to think something of it unless that's what is should go for, how would I do that? (link)
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I'm sure there is something that the guy has been wanting that's within your budget. If not then you could make a home made thank you card, or bake something for him. You could invite him to a group movie. Perhaps he likes you as well and that is why he gives you things. You could just hang out with him on valentines day. Do something he likes doing, such as golfing or whatever he is into. You don't have to just have something that is just you and him, invite his friends and your friends. Good Luck!
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My parents give me no freedom whatsoever and it drives me crazy. My friends are allowed to do whatever they want, even the ones with overly strict parents get more freedom than I do. I know right now, there is nothing I can do about it, but when I turn 18 I want nothing more than to move out of my parents house. The problem is I doubt ill have enough money, im trying to get into a very expensive college my parents were planning to help pay for, I don't have a car yet, and I live in Mississippi so the legal age is 21. Can anyone help me with these issues? I read online that there was a way to move out at 18 even if your from one of the states that say to be 21. Would the police make me return home? I know this is many questions, but I'm very desperate (link)
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Show your parents that you are mature and responsable, and talk with them about give you a longer leash. I heard if you do more thing for and with your family and parents, they start allowing you to do more. Share you interest in doing more things such as hanging out with your friends. Until you are able to move out on your own try my advice it may change you decisions on moving out so early, when you are able to do more. It becomes a lot harder when you more out and most people who do, end up missing their parents and move back in after. Maybe your parents aren't paying as much attention to you as they should be so maybe they don't even notice what you are doing and what kind of person you actually are. Share with them your frustration with them in a positive manner. Good Luck!
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I made out with this guy who happens to be my crush, we are not going out tho( dating) I just found out recently that he is going out with so many other girls in my class and that's how he started with them so I guess I am the next victim what do I do? After we made out I realised I didn't like him after all tho and now he is all over me as if he likes me just pretence. (18. female) (link)
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If you don't like him that way anymore, then try to tell him to back off a little bit, tell him you only want to be friends. If he does accept that, maybe he only wanted you for sex. If hes dating, or dated most of the girls in your class then hes probably just a player. If you really don't know what his intentions are then get to know him a little bit better, don't get sexually involved with him because most likely he is gonna use you and break your heart and sometimes it can even ruin your reputation. He could say that all you wanted from him was sex or even post nudes of you all over the internet. Be careful with what you do, my best answer would be to stay away from him, if you have no real feelings for him its no loss for you right, and you shouldn't get involved with someone you don't know that well. Get to know but keep a safe distance that you won't get hurt. Good Luck!
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I have been diagnosed with Major depression with psychotic features (I see, hear and feel things that others can't). My friends say that it is all in my head and that I'm just making an excuse as to why I choose to be depressed and I can prevent it. Is this true? Am I making of all of this up? If I am, what are some things I can try in order to not choose to be depressed? If I'm not making this up and my friends just don't like it, then what can I do to help myself not be so depressed so I can get through the day?
Here's the situation:
I am no longer interested in hobbies that I used to like (example: video games, drawing, reading, writing, phototraphy). I also am crying off and on throughout the day. I can barely eat or sleep. If I do get to sleep, I have trouble staying asleep. I see shadow people and they constantly talk and touch me keeping me up all night to where I can't sleep. I basically get out of bed to go to work and when I get home, I just sit and do nothing.
My husband is understanding of my situation and is also trying to help me find a coping skill to master so my depression cannot control me any more.
My real Question is: What are some good coping skills do deal with my mental disorder? (link)
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Listening to music
reading
going for walks
hanging out with friends or family
meet someone new
go somewhere new
self reflect in a positive way
take up a new hobby
I have bad depression and the way I can cope is listening to music, going for walk and self reflecting, good luck on trying to get past you depression, and just know that you're worth more than you thing, you are beautiful inside and out and one day you'll be a very happy successful woman!
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I'm writing a story about a girl and a guy who fall in love in the girls least favorite subject. And the guys friends don't approve and all that crazy stuff... Anyways I need help with a title, this is all the information I want to give right now. So hopefully that is enough. I just want to have a simple title so it doesn't have to be really creative or anything. Thanks for any of your idea! (link)
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"Innocent Love"
"Forbidden Love"
"Reckless Love"
"Young Love"
I think you should wait until you are finished with you story before you name it. Good Luck on your story, I'm a writer too!!
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For As Long As I Can Remember, I've Always Had Bangs. They Go Straight Down My Forehead (Above My Eyes). When I Was Younger, I Would Just Grow Out My Hair And Cut It Every Now And Then. Now, I Cut It Quite Short (Or Medium Length?) To Probably 2 or 3 Inches Above Where My Elbows Are. And I Added Short Layers. I Personally Think It's Cute And Casual, And I Get Compliments On It Too. But I'm A Freshman In High School Now. Is It Weird To Have Bangs For That Long? (link)
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If you like your hair the way it is then I don't think you should change it, it should never matter what other people think about you hair, only you. Although most high schoolers these day have side swept bang, there are people out there that actually have bangs the way you do. I think as you grow older only certain people can actually pull off bangs. You may change you decision to have bangs as you grow older, so keep them until YOU want to get rid of them, Good Luck!
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I used to have bright blonde hair, just lately thanks to the hairspray I use my hair is more brown than blonde. I'm going to start using sheer blonde hairspray since it sprays on clear without changing the color more, but I'm wondering how I could get my blonde hair back? I heard sunlight was good for it, so is there any hair product I could use that would attract sunlight? It doesn't even have to be a hair products as long as t doesn't damage my hair. (link)
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Almost everything is going to damage your hair. The cheapest way is using lemon juice and sit in the sun for an hour of so, if it end up damaging your hair a little bit after you can chose to do a deep conditioning, Good Luck.
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