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ok.. me and my boyfriend are both virgins right..
and we want to be able 2 have a condom around JUST INCASE yah know..
and we are both 2 afraid 2 go 2 our parents cuz they would FLIP OUT!!! but we are not sure of what the legal age of buying condoms in texas is..
can anyone help me me out without criticizeing me on the subject?? (link)
Yeah I agree with the other person...i'm 99% positive that there is no age limit...especailly because (at least in New York) they are out in the open, and usually if there is an age limit for something its behind a case (at least in stroes like CVS, and walgreens) like if you notice the cigarettes aren't out in the open. Also, i've had friends buy them without a problem.

Good Luck.


okay.
So, I'm feeling a little bored, and I want to do something.
So I want another facial piercing.
And I'm torn between my septum (the middle of your nose sperating the two nostrils) or my Bridge ( the top of the nose between the eyes)
which one do you think I'm better suited for?

http://s2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/?action=view¤t=cofdhjg.jpg
(that's me,lol) (link)
While personally i don't think either of them would look good...i would vote for the bridge, because the septum makes people look like bulls (and i bet it huts ALOT)

Good Luck!!


Okay, so when I was 8 I was raped and I kind of blocked it out of my head, but now I am very paranoid when someone touches me, especialy guys. I'm 15 and I've never done ANYTHING or had a boyfriend, because I have too many anxieties.

But one of my friends, who is a guy, he is the only one I have ever told about the rape, because he asked me why I don't do stuff with guys, and so I told him. He offered to do stuff with me, and I said okay, and now he is all worked up about it and giving me all this advice on how to turn him on when the time comes for us to do things.
I'm extremely nervous and I don't know why, because I am afraid it will be awkward since we were friends and stuff.
But I also think I should because he is the sweetest guy I know, and I really need to get over my fear, and he is probably going to be the most patient guy out there.
Soo... I really need tips on how to do things, like blow jobs, and fingering, and even making-out.
Should I be nervous?
Is it going to hurt?

Just tell me whatever you think I should know... (link)
I don't think it's a good idea at all. If you arent ready or you arent comfortable with doing things with guys yet...then don't. There is no reason to force these situations. YOu are only 15, you don't NEED to be doing things with guys yet. And you don't want to be portrayed as a slut when word gets out that you guys are "friends with benefits." It's not going to help you get over your anxieties. I'm sorry, but i think you are making a mistake. PLUS you shouldn't be doing blow jobs at your age.


My sister is homeschooled and is 10 in the 7th grade how long do you think it will take for her to get in collage cause my parents think that if she does work over the summer she will be in 8th by the end of summer. What do you guys think. (link)
at her rate...my guess is 14 or 15 (if not sooner)...because since she seems to be completing more than one grade in a year, and she is almost in high school- and high school is 4 years, i bet she will be in college, at the latest, by 15.

Good LUck!


:) helloo!

How much would an average dollhouse equipped with items cost, roughly? Or house minus the items?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v180/putingtikbalang/Trial%20pics/Sony%20Ericsson%20K800i/dollhouse%20cupboard/DSC00089.jpg (link)
Well it realllly depends on what kind of dollhouse you want- like a wooden one vs. a barbie plastic one. You could literally find them in all price ranges. If you wanted a barbie one its probably about 30$ i think, and then the wooden really nice ones probably go up to the hundreds.
Again, ir REALLLy depends on things like size, material, quality etc.

From the looks of your picture, my best guess would be between 30 and 50.

Sorry that wasnt much help


15/f

i'm in 10th grade and i still haven't gotten my first kiss. Now i know you guys are going to say, you have to wait or someday it's going to happen, but it seems like it's never going to happen for me. Most of my friends have been kissed already and have boyfriends and sometimes i feel lonely...i don't know it just always seems like nothing ever works out for me. so basically i want guys opinions on what they find attractive in a girl.

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I'm 17, and other than like truth or dare stuff (which doesnt really count) i had my first kiss when i was 16, and i kind of rushed into this relationship with this guy b/c i felt like i was "supposed" to have a boyfriend, and i thought that it was what i wanted- but it ended up being a disaster, the guy was insane...all he ever wanted to do was makeout, and he always wanted to be together-- which is cute, but it gets to the point where he would be mad if i couldnt hang out one night or something (and we went to different schools- which probably didn't help)...butt my point is you should try and rush into any thing because you might end up regretting it. Don't worry about your age- everyone has there own pace of things- which i know is hard because sometimes i feel the same way...but for now at least, just try and have fun with your girlfriends, and enjoy high school b/c there will be plenty of time for guys when you get older.
GOOD LUCK and i hope this helped (even though i know its not what you wanted to hear)


okay, you answered a question about sending a pic to your email. well i have the new blackjack 2 if that helps, but wherever your supposed to type in the phone number, it will only let e do numbers. not letters. is there any other way to do this? (link)
well on my phone, when you go to type in the number, you can hit like options or something like that, and change it from numbers to letters, and then you just type in the e-mail adress...Let me know if this works, if not i can try to explain it differently...hope this helps!!


so i was just wondering if anyone knew if this was legal or not and if you could maybe find a page that says its not, you dont need to but it would help, since i couldnt find one. so anyways..

alright so the other day at my school i asked to leave the class to use the bathroom and the teacher wouldn't sign the pass.. and i seriously needed to go and so i kept asking and the teacher called the assistance principle and said that she was going to escort me there?? and so i was like um? okay and so like 20 minutes past and the escort never came and like i was shaking so bad because i needed to use the bathroom and so i got up and just left and then i came back and my teacher made another phone call and then later that day during another class i got called to the assistant principles office and i got and ext det(extended detention, its you have to stay after school for 3 hrs and you cant talk or do anything except work) and they really suck. and i asked why? and she said because i left the class and i was suppose to have an escort and i told thats fine but my escort never even came when she was suppose to and then i asked why i even needed an escort and she said because i was on bathroom restriction witch is like crazy because i never did anything wrong to get that... and i asked her what i was suppose to do.. piss myself? and she said yes... and i just wanted to no if what happen was even legal?


if it helps im a sophmore in hs, and i live in the state of ct. (link)
I'm sorry to say but you can't do anything about it leagally (they aren't breaking the laws, because the teacher has the right to say you need an escort) However, it is wrong that they made you wait when you really had to go. But i think the only thing that you can really do about it would be to tell your mom or dad and have them call school to complain.

Sorry! I hope this helped! :)


hey. i have a picture on my cell that i took with my phone and i want to upload it onto my computer. i used to be able to upload it via imageshack.us, but for some reason, it doesn't work anymore. i tried contacting customer service at imageshack, but they haven't been doing a good job of responding. how else can i get that picture file onto the internet / my laptop? i have a samsung sync phone with at&t if that helps at all. (link)
Just go to send a picture message, but instead of typing in a cell phone number, type in your e-mail adress, and it will go straight to your email.

Good Luck :)


I think I may be developing feelings for this guy. I liked him for the first time about march of last year, but got over it because he liked someone else at the time.

Now, I think I like him again but I don't want to admitt it because I don't want to feel crushed again.

Another problem is we don't see each other too often because he lives a good while away from me [about 20 miles or so]. He constantly but mostly jokingly asks for naked pictures of me. I refuse to send pics because i don't think it would be right but hes really caring.


How do I tell him to stop asking for pics AND tell if he likes me as a person not just for my body?

I'm 15/f and hes 17. (link)
Woah...who cares if he likes you....he's SKETCHY...don't talk to him anymore...if he's asking for naked pictures of you and your only 15 thats really wrong...i say MOVE ON


Ok here's the story, it's nothing freaky like that but, i have a crush one 5 different guys for different reasons and i like em all.

Back story one each guy goes.

Guy 1: Ted - He's the one i like because he likes me. He's older than me by 6 or 7 years, but he acts my age. (I think it comes for all them damm kids he's got) And the funny thing about it was that he told me that he was going to f**** me up. Have no clue what that meant so i took it as a joke of him picking wit me as we do all the time with each other. Then a few days later he throws his arm around me saying, "This gone be my girlfriend when she get older. He also made me feel really good when i got sick a few days ago. I.E....I was sitting in the break room, he knew somthing was wrong, he offered me his cup of soda or wateva. it was sweeter that it sounds here but he was thought ful of me.
Guy 2: Patrick - I like him because he's boyfiend material. He's like a guy you could be friends with for the longest time and eventually ends up with.
Guy 3: Johnathan - I like him because he has a cute smile and he's even cutter when he's playing. He's always serious or mad about something, so i guess when he's just not himself, he's cute to me.
Guy 4: Reggie - I like him because he's the 'older' guy. I think that he likes to flirt with everybody but he picks his targets carfully.
Guy 5: CJ - I like him because he's the out there guy. He's loud, funny, playful all of that 24/7. Thought i think he's the main on see me as 'the baby' of the workplace, i honestly don't think he care.

There's, for some reason, something in all of these guys that i just don't know who i should talk to if any at all. I know for a fact that 2 of them have girlfriends, 1 has a baby mamma that i think he's still seeing( the way he talks about her she sounds like a jealous gurl)and the other two i don't know much about their personal life.

But the question is. Should i talk to any of these guys? If so then who? (link)
Patrick...hands down.


so i danced with this guy at a dance and before that we hadnt really talked too much. he was reallly nice and funny and extremely charming and now i can't stop thinking about him, but he is two years older than me and off and on with this girl. i am going nuts because he is so appealing and now i think about him 24/7. i know thats not much of an age difference, but at my school it is. part of me knows i cant have him, but i still want him

help!!! (link)
I hate to say it...but in high school 2 years is a pretty big difference, and unfortunatly if he is off and on with his girlfriend...your probably out of luck (at least for now). I would try and fixate on a differnt boy (maybe one in your grade?).

Good Luck!!!


my birthday is coming up soon [begining of march] and i have no idea what i wanna do for it. i decided im only gonna invite a few friends [around ten including me]. i live in mass if that helps. any ideas [even if they're crazyy] would be great :] (link)
Depending on your budget...you could take a limo to a restauraunt (either around your house...or idk if you live near boston)...or you could go to a spa....or you could just go to a restaurant (w/o the limo)....

I hope this helps...i'll try to think of something else.


okay so, i really REALLY like this boy and hes 16. he used to be on my bus but then he moved like a couple streets away. we talked on the bus but not that much but we talk on aim and myspace alll the time. he always tells me how hot or pretty i am and i do the same to him. but he does that to alot of girls so yeah he always asks me about my love life to so it makes me think that hes like interested in me yaa knoww well we always so were gonna hangout but we havent yet and he wants to be like "makeout buddies" but i have never kissed a boy before and its really imbarresing soo im not telling him that ! but i really really like him and i would with him. and i wanna be more flirty with him online and stuff so he will focus on me insted of all the other girls he talks to. so can people help me pleaseee ?
thanks, and oh sorry its so long but i felt like you needed to know that story haha. (link)
I agree with the other person...and i don't mean this to make you feel bad...but if your younger, and he just wants to be "makeout"buddies...then most likely its because he doesnt want to stop making out with other girls (if he's as big a flirt as you say he is)...what i would do it stop talking to you and see if he misses you...you should settle for being just makeout buddies...because then he isnt serious about you...trust me...wait until he wants to date you, or find someone else to date....good luck!


What are the names of the cafe and the high school in The OC? (link)
The school was called "Harbor" and the cafe was (i think) called the Pier.


15/f
I'm looking for a pea coat. I have tried Macy's and American Eagle but neither really worked. Nothing is really set in my mind at this point but I am just wondering what you would recommend for something cute. =] (link)
J Crew has the CUTEST peacoats...i loveeeee them!

They also have peacoats at Nordstrom, and i also have a cute one from Abercrombie and Fitch.


Hi, I got a picture of Manny Ramirez and Jacoby Ellsbury and it was autographed.
I was wondering if anyone had anything actually signed from them that they could send me so i can see if its the real autograph because im not sure if it is or not.

Or if anyone knows of a website with their offical autographs on it it would be a grath halp =].

Thanks (link)
If you go to the official website for w/e team they play for...you could probably find their autographs...that or google "official manny Ramierez autograph" and you can compare them.

Good Luck.


i need the beat of fresh prince of bel air..
but i cant have the words
anyone know where or how i can do this?? thanks! (link)
I can't say for sure...but what i would do is google "Fresh Prince of Bel Air Kareoke" b/c when something is kareoke it has no words in it...or put that into youtube...

Sorry if that doesnt help!
Good Luck.


okay can you get pregnant if you have sex and he cums and than next day you start your period? (link)
No...once you get your period...there is no chance of you being pregnant.


Err, I missed my last period...and now it's a week past my normal time.
I'm not sexually active. Virgin.
I'm not on a diet or anything...

I'm f/14

What could be causing this?
(i've had it for almost two years I think) (link)
I wouldnt worry about it...if you start missing like monthes than call your doctor...but I got my period at the end of my freshman year (i am now a junior) and i go like 5 or 6 months between periods...and the last two months is the first time i EVER had it two months in a row...and since your still young its probably nothing....
Also, i heard that sometimes you miss your period if you are stressed? Could that be it? i would just wait it out...i'm sure its nothing.

Good LUck!




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