Hello my Name is Beth and my dream is to become an advice columnist for a newspaper or magazine. So please ask me any question and i will answer no matter the how weird.
thanx,
Ask_Beth
Gender: Female
Location: Eureka
Age: 13
Yahoo: askbeth92@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 23, 2006
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My mom has this best friend and we go to his house all the time. My mom says we'll be livng there soon. Well anyway... he has to sons one is 19 and one will be 18. When I am there I feel wierd like my face gets like hot and red. Is that normal for a 13 year old girl?? (link)
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yes that is very normal for a 13 year old its called hormoynes.. it happens to everyone.. boy or girl!
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her? (link)
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well, if your not sure you better not chance it.. and if he did pressure you into doing it and you didn't use protection then you could get preagnant. and a teenage pregnancey isn't the best thing on your agenda... so i would not chance it... because sex at 16 is not a good idea..
if anymorequestions write me...
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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Alright, I really need advice on this question. I think I might have depression. You see, lately I have been feeling so bad about myself for no reason. I've been getting so upset over the most obscure things, getting so jealous of other people, and just disliking myself. I've been crying for no apparent reason, and I have the worst mood changes. It's like I'm really happy one minute and then I get really bummed out and start crying and idk why. I always feel like everyone's so much better than me and I suck at everything but deep down I know that's not true. I have extremely low self confidence and I have no clue why because I have a lot of loving friends and family. And I took a depression screening test online and it said I might have moderate depression. I really want to start feeling better, but I'n afraid to tell my mom and family. My mom will probably just say that I don't have depression and get angry at me because she might think I'm blaming her for something. My parents are the best parents ever and sometimes I feel selfish for being sad all the time because I know there are people way worse off than me. So, what I'm asking is: Do you think I have depression? And how can I tell my family I need help without them thinking I'm blaming them for being sad? I really don't think this is just what teenagers go through, because it seems like all of my other friends are happy all the time and I'm always bummed out. Please help. Thanks. (link)
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well...you need to find a way to build your self confidence... and you said that your not good at anything but there's a lot of things out there to do..you could dance, go bowling things that doesn't make you feel depressed something just for the fun of it... now my mother has depression yet she found something that keeps her happy besides me and my sister... her JOB! so do something that makes you feel good.. eat, hangout with friends,go to a funny movie(Benchwarmers) lol anything! if you can't do anything of these which i think is entirely impossible sinc you sound like a smart girl/guy so i don't think you'll have a problem but if it comes to that then tell your parents ,PHRASE IT LIKE THIS: mom dad... i'm feeling very sad these days... and i don't blame you for anything but do you think you could listen to what i have to say? i'm pretty sure it will work.. or do them both!
if anymore questions write me
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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I'm 17 almost 18 and I fell in love with the perfect guy we've been dating a couple months now and his family loves me and my family loves him. We have both hinted at marriage and we both are going in the same direction. He's 21 and I met him through friends. But i'm scared that I'm going to get my heart broken. He's the first guy thats ever been nice to me in a relationship and didnt expect things from me. I guess I'm just confused on how to take all this in. We both act almost as if we are almost ready, but I'm getting impatent waiting for him to pop the question. What can I do to hint that i think we should take the next step or should I wait for him to do it?
love,
~Christina~ (link)
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well... my advice to you is to WAIT! i don't think that a couple months is what it takes to get married.. if you rush then it might not turn out what you expected and could lead to a DIVORCE... i think you should wait a year or two... considering your only 18 and you have only know him for a couple months.. but if you say that he's a sweetheart then i don't think you have anything to worry about.. but like i said you should definately wait... this will prevent heartbreak!
good luck,
Ask_Beth
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