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Q: me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared

ok ... so u should never have sex w/ out a condem and im glad u found a solution... BE MORE CAREFUL next time!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: hi im 13/m. i think i am a woamn trapped in a mans body. i want to get a sex change and then date other women. so basically i want to be a gay trans sexual. i also like to do it to animals sometimes. i used them for practice. how do i explain about my sexuality to my family?

U have to be honest... ur family loves u no matter what so just tell them!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: this may sound so stupid . but in sex terms whats a cookie? i dont get it

Okay... a cokkie is ur um... vagina or pussy or whatever u want to call it... unfortunately there are so many names people use for it now that u always have to be careful what u say!!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: idk what to do, today i was riding around my town on my bike to see if any of my friends wanted to hangout, and i met up with my friend lets call him tony. So we started to hangout and wen i went to go give him a hug he grabbed my booty. and i figured he was kidding around. Cuz we're madd tight so we started hangin out kidding around like making jokes and crapp like freinds doo, but then we started sitting down next to each otha and stuff and he started puting his hands all ova me, i told him like to stop where it came up to the limit like if he were tryin to go near my chest or between my legs. but although i stopped him from goen there he still patted my tush like it was a dog or cat or sumthin like that, i didnt mind itkind of was nice. Then he would start massaging my thighs making all these funny yet sweet comments. But then tony startted getten nasty askin weird questions like if i would ever give him a hand, jo*b, or blow. and i was like uhhhhhh idk. cuz i really didnt, then he started asking me if he would french me, i kinda wanted to but then i didnt. i really dunno what to do. im kind of a afraid to kiss him cuz i kinda dunno how. if someone could explain or help me with wut should i do IT WOULD BE GREAT. o yah and once after he kinda slid his hand against my chedt i got up and said i hadd to go.
thanxx
confused girl

Maybe u should just go for it w/ him because good friends make even better bfs!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: hey again its paradise88 and i just made u one of my favorites do u wannto do the same for me??
if so ill rate thanks soo mucho!!

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Dont know how... im new~~ srry

Q: hey can u spread around my column please??!!
its call Paradise88 !!! thankz so mucho sweetie!
ill rate !! :*D

I dont really know how... im new!!!

Q: This year my mom gave me a budget for school clothes, only 500 dollars. Last year I got twice as much and this money includes clothes, shoes, accesories, bras and panties! I'm spending my money wisely but what should I spend the most on and where should I go?
I spent 200 bucks today and didnt get hardly anything... I went to Buckle, Hollister, and Gadzooks! I need fashion HeLp please!!

Okay try going to the cheaper stores that still carry cute stuff like Charlotte Russe and Wet Seal... and about the 500 dollars... after 9/11 we're all having money problems so just be thankful... no offense im not a mean person but u have to work w/ what u have!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: Im really tiny and skinny. Im like 5'0 and 82 pounds, and im 14 years old. When im at skool then guys who actually are really hott pick me up and flip me upside down. it kinda bugs me how they just flip me thru the air cuz alot of times all my stuff goes flying ect. i told my friends that it bugs me and there just like "its just cuz they think ut hott, ur lucky u get all the attention from them". what should i do?
thanx!!
lil sexy kaylie!

Tell them that u love how they treat u and that u think they're great but that u really dont like it when they flip u upside down like that... they'll stop if they really care about u!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!!

Q: My 14th birthday is comin up soon and i want to get my belly button pierced for my birthday because i have a nice body and with my belly button pierced, it would look really good. My parents said i couldn't get anymore piercings cuz i already have three piercings on my left and right ears and one more piercing on the top of my left ear. I really want my belly button pierced and i dont know how to convince both of my parents to let me get it done. Can someone please help me out lol? One more thing, if anyone would like to tell me how you get your belly button pierced like how they do it and etc, that would really help so i can show my parents and maybe they would let me get my belly button pierced.

Thanks

tell ur parents that u'll let a whole on each ear close if u can get ur belly button pierced... but just to tell u, ur stomach can get really infected when u get ur belly button pierced so take care of it... and dont do it urself because then it gets infected really easily!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: Does black really match with anything?

Actually it basically matches everything!!! If it's a shirt it matches all the colors of pants u would wear like um black, khaki or jeans... if its pants black looks great w/ every color of the rainbow... except more black... unless u like that look!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!!

Q: I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP

I know Pac Sun sells them separelty along w/ Marshall Fields and um... o yea Target... i'd try those stores!!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks!

I use BRILLIANT BRUNETTE... they have a Blonde one too... i dont know what hair color u have... its really nice and u can buy it at TARGET!!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: I'm starting back at school and need to pick up some lip gloss. Can you think of any good brands of light pink lip gloss?

Marshall Fields has that LANCOME stuff thats new... it's REALLY nice... i just bought some and i luv it... and i dont know where u live but if its hot they have a kind that cools ur lips too... thats really nice too!!! :) HOPE I HELPED !!!!

Q: ok here is the deal, i need to go school shopping but i don't know where to go! i live in miami and im 15! does anybody know a good stoRe?

BUCKLE... Urban Outfitters... AE.... A&F.... Depends on what ur into :) HOPE I HELPED!!!!

Q: Hey i have really really dark brown hair and i want to bleach it blonde but im scared it won't look good cuz of my hair color now i wanted to change it before high school any advice i rate super good!

OK... i would just suggest that u get highlights because then it wont be a drastic change but it will lighten ur haircolor and frame ur face!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: Everyone at school thinks it is REALLY weird for poeple to wear pure black outfits and black make up. Black is the only color that really looks good on me, so I prefer to wear it.

is there any other color that has the same slimming effect as the color black? im not fat, but im not the skinniest. ive got big boobs and a kinda chubby lower stomach. i want to hide this, so i wear the black stuff.

i just need another color in clothing that looks good with almost anything and is slimming in those areas i mentioned.

I dont know about another color... but dont wear all black... wear jeans too... anyways u could try white or um... maroon colors... those usually look good on everybody!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate

Okay... definetly not... everybody goes through changes and phases... JUST BE U!!!:) HOPE I HELPED!!!!

Q: when ever i go into a store some where it seems like everyone stares at me like they want something!! i don't know if it's just me or they rly are!! has this ever happened to u before!!
help!!! i rate good!!!

OKAY sometimes if u go into a store alone they look at u weird because they think that u r there to shoplift... So bring some friends when u go!!! :) HOPE I HELPED!!!

Q: what's good make-up that i can wear 4 going back to school?

Okay... i dont know how old u r but just dont overdo ur make up because then u could look like a slut... so just try to pick subtle colors that look good w/ ur skin tone

Q: hey i'm a 13 year old girl, and i'm really petite(and dont have that much of a chest lol), and i'm like 4 foot 11. evry time i try on jeans, theyre 2 baggy around mi butt.lol. where can i find jeans and shorts n stuff that

Okay great places to shop for people like us would have to be EXPRESS and Buckle... HOPE I HELPED... they both have websites... just www in front of the name... :)

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OK... so i have had a lot of experiences except in some departments but yea... either way i know a lot of stuff because i have a lot of friends so i am always here to help anybody who needs help!!! LUV U ALL!!! ~CHELSEA~