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Hey! ok i have a crush on my friends Cousin. I dont know if he likes me though. We went out before and i broke up with him. i haven't seen him in a while but when i did see him i liked him again. i dont want to go back out with him but yet i do. i dont want things to get weird between me and my friend if i do date him and we break up. do you know what i mean? What should i do?

well maybe you should ask your friend how they would feel if you two went out. then go to the cousin and try to become good friends and connect a bit before you move into anything more. BUT check with your friend first. friends are more important!

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This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!!

ask them whats going on..tell them you feel left out if there like my great friends they will understand. try to have a just friend party or soemthing similar
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New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings.

in my opinion i dont think that you should leave the other friends party unless when you get to that time see whats going on around the party, calmly ask her what time it ends

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HI, I thought that my bf and me were over, but recently my friend lets call her "sushi" said that he missed me and wanted me to call him. I still sorta like him but it's a long distance relationship, he goes to a different school and he's never online. Should I go along with this reltionship or actually tell him it's over. And no u can't tell him for me. (like at the begining of the year i wanted to break up with him for me)What should i do? ~Bam Margera Lover~

dear Bam Margera Lover,

your question is not a very common question. but ive gone through long distance relationships and i find out the guy has been cheating on me the whole 3 years we dated. in my opinion personally i dont link long distance relationships. especially if you haven't talked in a while. i think its best that you move on, unless you really love him. then you need to find a way to talk to him one on one not throught he sushi person.
hope this helps!
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Don't bother reading this unless you have gotten a perm before. I want to get a perm like so it is wavy or whatever they can do but i am afraid they will mess up or it will totally mess up my hair. I use to dye my hair alot and that never messed it up at all. i guess my question is how did your perm turn out and tell me anything that happened that i shuold know about before i get it done? thanks alot

ive had a perm before hun and in my opinion i hated it!!!!!....i think you should only get a perm if you have short hair..it dont look right with long hair trust me...though you can get straight perms...which is what i did..its very dangerous for your hair so if you do get a perm buy lots of conditioners and talk to your local hair salon.

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What if you are really shy and you cant go up and talk to the boy you like? How could you over come that fear? i can never talk to the boys i like with out getting nervous or scared.

my best advice on this kind of topic is just to try the best you can to go talk to the boy. maybe try to have a little more self confidence in yourself. find somethings you have in common and maybe eventually the connection will happen.
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hey...ok i like this boy and half my friends say he likes me and half dont. then sometimes i get the feeling he does and then sometimes i dont. I dont know what to believe. What do you think i should believe? My closests friends say he likes me but then other people say he doesn't.

If you like someone and half of the people are telling you that he likes you and half the opposite. Especially if you have the occasional feeling that he likes you. Maybe before you decide what to belive you should, step up and say "hello" to him. The worst that will happen is maybe him not liking you...but you won't know until you try..right?
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I'm fat. I diet, excercise, and do everything most fat people do to lose weight. But alas, I stay fat. How can I fix this?

If you are fat and you are already dieting and excersing then why not try to talk to either a dietician or your doctor. Maybe try another diet that your doctor reccomends. Try to excersise a little more, maybe a jog a day and some sit ups or something similar. Certain foods and drinks like pasta, sodas, sweets, candies can increase the risk of staying overweight. Another thing that might not hurt is dont worry to much about your weight.
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For some reason your not losing weight, dont be descouraged from this, this may seem to be a minor set back in some ways but if you have some sort of schedule for excercising, this may result in a diffrence; for the dieting part, it is almost the same, but the diffrence is watch what foods and even drinks you intake-like soda, pasta and more- these can result in gaining, and this doesnt mean dont eat these foods, just watch them. And even though this may take a while to have results, keep paitently to a schedule of excercising and so forth.
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