HEY EVERYONE!!! well i really like to help people and everyone says i give good advice so yea.. im here to help u with anything.SO DONT BE SCARED TO ASK!!!
Well heres some things about me..
I am a 14 year old girl and i love to shop..!!I guess you could say i'm a prep...WHICH IS A GOOD THING LOL!!!!
I have like a bajillion friends and i love them all. I have brownish blonde hair and hazel eyes.**HOTT RIGHT!! LOL**
I get along with like everybody and thts why they love me soooo much.oh and im really easy to talk to i dont judge people everyone is the same in my eyes...
Well im here to help so give me a shout out!! thnks
Website: **AbsoluteCuti170**
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There's this guy named Justin. He is on my sport team. I see him every Monday and Wednesday. I really like him, but i'm not sure if he likes me..
How can you tell if a guy who is really shy, likes you?
I'll rate! (link)
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hmm.. shy guys are alwayz sooo hard to read.. but all guys react the same when flirted with..hehe(out of my own experience thts how i know)lol!!** well get to know this guy justin and just talk to him. Hopefully he'll get to be more comfortable around you and then put his guard down.When that guard is down.. flirt and look him in the eyes if he looks back SMILE.. and if he smiles back good sign.. HE LIKES YOU!!! but then get close to him after a couple days and maybe ask him to help you practice for the sport you play.. and that gives you a reason to thank him with a HUG!!guys like hugs!!!!** JUST BE CONFIDENT and it'll all turn out great! confidence is the key to getting a guy. trust me^^. if you love yourself he'll love you!!
write again!! XOXO
**AbsoluteCuti170**
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ok so this saturday is my friends birthday and there is going to be funday at this park (not an amusement park) along with fireworks.. i want to go but my dad got tickets to see a baseball game (only a $10 ticket) and they are staying overnight
half of me really wants to stay home so i can have friends over and have a good time while my parents and family is out..but part of me feels guilty because i saw how disappointed my dad was when i told him i want to maybe stay back
he said i could stay back if i slept over a friends house (i would really stay at my house) but i dont know if i should chose going with my family or staying back
***my fam and i already saw a mets game, tony hawk skate show, and a pro softball game so its not like we never do stuff together..but im alwways hangin with friends**
what would you honestly do in this situation? (link)
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to tell you the truth family is way more importat than friends. you can ake friends anywhere but spending time with family never gets old. Out of my experience with choosing friends over family i say FAMILY.. Even if parents say "oh you can stay back it doesnt matter." what theyre actually saying is "why would they choose friends instead of family. and then they wonder to themselves if they are good enough parents.. plus you can have fun with your friend anytime but having fun with your family is a very special time..AND it means so much to them knowing that you care enough to hang out with them even though they might not be "COOL" enough or whatever.
**I choose family just because i know how much it means to my family when i spend time with them even though we hung out the day before..
**Do what your heart tells you**you'll do the right thing then**
**XOXO**hope i helped thnks for writing!!
**AbsoluteCuti170**
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ok, where to begin..i have liked a guy for 2 years now..kinda on and off because my friends have tried to convince me that i dont like him anymore, but i end up liking him again b/c he's so funny...he makes me laugh...and fun to be around and hott.lol well anyways, im 15 and never had a bf and hes almost 16, but in the grade above me. i can never stop thinking about him and how much we have in common and just him in general :-)... i used to flirt w/ him a certain kinda way and ive noticed that hes doing the same stuff to me as i did to him, and im catching glances from him (but that could mean nothing).. I just really want to tell him so bad that i like him and i have for 2 years but i dont want it to ruin our friendship that has somewhat built up over the years. i really want to kno if he likes me back but..i dont kno.... If we ever got together i dont kno if i would fit in w/ his other friends, i mean i kno his friends, but i dont think i would belong. Please tell me what i can do! Thanks! (link)
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okay first off its really good that you guys have a friendship.. that makes you closer ..(i know the guy i like we have a good friendship and im like yay!! but nyways this isnt about me its about you) well since you keep going back to liking him it means you have strong feelings for him. See if he flirts with you go near him and like touch his arm playfully or something. and if he doesnt move away it means he likes you!!! good news 4 you*** and like try to get to know his friends and yea if he likes you .. then he should have at least talked about you when he was with them..(guys tend to do that) Just be yourself and kinda give him subtle hints like say do u like anyone or ask him what kinda girls he likes..Oh and the thing to prove that he likes you is if you smile at him and like stare into his eyes for like 2 seconds.. if he returns the smile YAY!! and if he looks into your eyes trust me you'll get a happy feeling in your stomach.. (happy about everything)lol!!
hope i helped!!***!!**
** it'll work out for you**just believe**
XOXO
**AbsoluteCuti170**
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I really want to have a party, but the thing is i am kinda afraid of having one. not afraid like afraid of spiders and i am just worried that people might not like it, or think its dumb or whatver i just am too stressed thinkin about it. should i just go ahead with my plan or what? and also, should i have a big party (which was my original plan) or should i just have a small group of my girlfriends and go to a hotel or something? ideas? thanks (link)
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well.. dont be nervouse thats the first part.. when i threw my party i kept having to repeat "its gonna be fantastic on an on till i finally got it in my head" You should definatly go through with it cause it will be fun.. of course theres gonna be people that dont like it but what can you do about that .. everyone has their own style
turn on the music and get some decor and lots of food.. and everyone will love it oh and get some movies.. comedy and horror work the best..
HAVE FUN and DONT GET SOOO STRESSED!!!it wont help!!
Hope i helped and remember it willl be such a HIT
oh and get invites soo people dont forget what time it is and where!!
XOXO!!
**AbsoluteCuti170**
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o.k I have this friend and we'll shes not the nicest person. shes nice to me and all but shes not nice to this other girl that i know!! I dont even think she knows how she is coming off to other peolpe and we'll im afraid if i tell her than she might get the wronge idea.
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well i can see that this might be hard for you becuase maybe if you tell her she might get mad.. well to tell you the truth if i was in your shoes i would definaltly talk to her. Just tell her before you talk to her not to get mad or anything. and then you could say something like "umm. well (name) i think that maybe you should try to make a more positive atttitude towards the other girls" and if she does get mad you can totally blame it on this advice column. (lol) the other way to go is to ignore it shes nice to you and thats all that matter.. dont try to solve other peoples problems.. if the other girls are having a problem with her then they should say something to her..
Hope i helped
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OK ive been friends with this boy for a while now, and i think i like him. I'm pretty sure he only wants to be friends. Hes never had a gf, ive never had a bf. This is weird but ... i dont think i would ever have a shot of going out w/ him, cus he wants to be a priest and is really catholic, and so am i, thats the major thing we have in common. How can i like, get over him? Should i get over him? idk what to doo !!!!!! (link)
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well if you really like him thats a promising sign.. maybe you should get to know him and then like whenever you see him smile and if he smiles back just talk and hang out and while youre at that stage touch his hand or something and if he responds positively thats a very good sign (like if he doesnt move away) jusT FLIRT a lot AND EYE CONTACT IS VERY GOOD!!! i hope this wrks for you and soo far by what you told me you should definatly go after him.. You have a lot in common..
Hope i helped!!!***
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o.k. well theres this kid at my school and i know he likes me and stuff and well i only want to be friends and well hes not my type !!! we are only friends!!!!!!!!he asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with him amd i lied to him saying that i had to go some where and i felt really bad!!!I DONT WANT HIM TO GET THE WRONGE IDEA hes only a friend only a friend isnt he???
*****sooo confused*** (link)
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well soo confused..
if he asks u to the movies it doesnt mean tht he thinks of you more than a friend maybe he jst wants to talk and stuff... if he does mention anything then tell him how you feel and nothing more.
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0k so i just got back from the beach with 3 of my friends and our other 3 guy friends were there too. we hung out with them alot. one of the guys (lets call him Jimmy) has a girlfriend and they've been going out for like 10 months. i know his girlfriend pretty well and stuff. then one night me and Jimmy were in the lobby while all our other friends were in the bathrooms. we were both on the couch and he leaned it and we just started to make out. hes soooo hott and i wasn't thinking so i just gave in and didn't pull away until like i dunno like 10 seconds? lol yeah so now i feel reallly guilty cause his girlfriend has no idea he did this and they are like in love. i don't want to tell anyone cause it would like RUIN me cause his girlfriend has a lot of friends and so yeah. i dunno if i should tell anyone?? please help! (link)
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well first off you shouldnt feel bad its hiz fault cuause hes soooo hott!!lol
you should tell this guy tht whatever happened tht day between the two of you didnt mean anything.. and just to make you feel better you should tell his girlfriend and say youre really srry.. and tht she doesnt need to break up with him for it.. they are in love and thts the way its supposed to be.. HOPE I HELPED
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