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Hi I'm Ashley. I'm 18 years old and married to the greatest guy in the world. I'm 7 months pregnant and excited to what my future has to bring. I graduated high school this past spring with the class of 2005. I love helping people and trying to give them the best advice possible. I have had a lot of life experiences, not saying that all have been bad although there has been a share of them. I'm open & ready to answer any question asked and don't mind doing further research to better my answers. Feel free to ask anything, I'll do what I can to help. =]

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ok.....well this boy asked me out, and i dont like him, i like some one else! but i dont know how 2 tell him that i dont like him.
HELP ME!!!!! plz!

Just let him know that you aren't interested in dating him. Tell him that you are already "talking" to another guy right now that you like. Maybe let him know that you'd just like to be friends. Try just to be as honest as possible so he doesn't think there's a chance and waits on ya. But be nice. =] Good Luck!

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Well, there's this guy in two of my classes but we sit like right next to each other in my 7th period. Lately we've been talking alot and laughing and he's great and all. One of my close friends sits behind me and is totally convinced he likes me but i don't think so. Like today, i turned around and she asked me if i was going to homecoming and i was like probably not because nobody has asked me and she said that he turned around and looked at me when i said that. I'm not sure if that means anything though!!!! and she also says that we flirt alot and he looks at me a lot. I also caught him looking at me at the pep-rally we had today. Am i just paranoid or is he really interested???? By the way i'm 15/f and plz dont tell me to ask him out because i seriously dont do that kind of stuff. Other way around lol. I'll rate high for GOOD answers!!!

By the way you describe everything it does sound like he's a bit interested. The thing you have to ask yourself is are you interested in him? If you are then keep doing what you are doing, flirting and giving him signs that you like him and just maybe he'll ask you to homecoming. Ways to know if a guy likes you is talking to you about random things that normally wouldn't matter, him looking at you often [ such as at the pep rally ] and him making eye contact while you talk to him and actually making it seem like he's listening. If he gives you signs that he likes you then keep flirting and talking about how you'd like to go to homecoming but don't want to go by yourself. Hopefully he'll get the hint. =] Good Luck!

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i am in love with my boyfriend, like i don't want to be with any other guy but him. and i want to tell him i love him. but im scared he is going to get scared like last time it happened i told him i love you (he said it back but) then a week later he broke up wiht me. i want to say it so much since i mean it., but i don't want to lose him. it hurts not being able to tell him i love him, but i don't know if he really is in love with me too. and i want to know. he is the only guy i actually fell for like this, i am about to cry from writing this. i dont want to lose him when school starts but i don't want to talk to him about it cuz im scared what he is going to say. what should i do

I'm really sorry that things are going this way for you. I think you should tell him that you need to talk to him about something important and discuss with him that you think you're in love with him. He can either accept it or run away. If he accepts then great! But if he doesn't then you'll just have to face the fact that he doesn't feel the same way. If he doesn't feel the same way and does break up with you there are a billion guys out there in the world. You'll eventually find the ONE guy that you love and loves you back. This guy that you are dating now may just be that one, but you gotta let him know how you feel to find out if he feels the same way. Good Luck!

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okay so this year ill be starting highschool and i have a friend whose a senior and she said she would take me ta school everyday! but my dad wont let me go with her because he thinks that all teenagers that drive are bad drivers but he hasnt even met her! how can i convince my dad that shes trustworthy? i mean she said she would even come over ta meet him and stuff but he wont even give her a chance hes like "you shouldnt even be hanging out with older people" hes soo over protective!! i just need ideas to tell him to convince him that its not that big of a deal

First of all parents decisions don't always seem fair to us. We think they are being "over protective" when they are just doing what most good parents do. He probably just worries about you if you got into a car wreck or something similar to that. It doesn't matter what kind of driver the person you're wanting to ride with is he's also worried about all the other teenage drivers out there. True you could just as well be in a wreck with your dad but teenagers ARE less experienced drivers than your father. All that you can really do is just keep talking to him, in a mature manner of course. Tell him the reasons you should be riding with your friend [ reasons you want to ] and show him that you are mature and responsible enough to do so. Good Luck! I hope everything works out!

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