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hey,
I have this problem with a guy named Matthew. We have been best friends for over 4 years. Recently we both fell in love with each other. I least I love him. He always wants to mess around and he says it means something. To me it really does. He claims he wants to loose his virginity to me and claims that that would bring us together. Would that actually bring u apart? Help!

If yall trust eachother, I believe it will bring yall closer together. If yall are best friends yall should be able to trust eachother enough to love eachother enough to be able to do that.Just make sure you are ready and follow your heart!

x0x-Sarah

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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

The truth is there is no telling whether he will hurt you again. If I was you I would try a second chance. If a boy has enough guts to apologize to you, there must be something good coming out of it. So go ahead and try to forgive!

x0x-Sarah

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i can't decide who i should trust and has my back. so what type of kids should i not trust?

It all depends on how you feel. You should always tell who you can trust. People go through periods where we begin to grow up and we find out who are true friends are. I just hope you go the right way and end up with the best of friends!

x0x-Sarah

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

Like alot of people have already told you, you really need to tell someone. She might not see it now, but she will thank you for it later. He could end up doing something worse and you and I both know we do not want that to happen. So I suggest you go right now before something worse happens.

x0x-Sarah

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i used to go out wid this kid(lets call him jordan)and then i broke up wid him because i found out he was cheating on me with this girl(lets call her becky)this was in around october novemeber and it ended in january and it turns out he was cheating on my for like a month and now jordan dumped kasey and now kasey still likes him but jordan likes me and he has since the 4th grade but im starting to have feeling for him again and my guy friend(lets call him mike)just recently told me he was gunna ask me out on monday and i like him but i dont kno if i can trust him because og him cheating on me the 1st time but i really really like him what should i do???

please help

sorry for the longness

If he broke your heart before, chances are he will do it again. Most likely he thinks that you can trust and before you know it you will have had your heart broken again. I would try to move on because as hard as it sounds, he doesnt sound like hes for you.

x0x-Sarah

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So, here's the story:

I am currently a freshman attending a private high school in Greenville, North Carolina. Since I'm in high school, I've started to search for different colleges that I would be interested in attending. I'm considering UNC-CH and I've viewed the application forms and application requirements. While I was looking through them, I noticed that a few of the required courses are not offered at my school as of now. My English literature teacher informed me that some colleges in the area offer extra courses during the summer, so I'm going to begin the required courses later this semester. But, I'm wondering whether taking the extra courses at a college during the summer or switching from my current school to a public school that offers these courses would be better for applying. I know that AP and IB programs are offered at J.H. Rose and South Central in Greenville, but I can't bear to leave my friends and my boyfriend behind. I know that my education should come first, but really, it is hard for me. What do YOU think would be the best thing for me in the long run?

- A confused high school student

Well, its your decision. If its what YOU want to do you need to follow your heart and persue your dream. Your friends and boyfriend should understand how you feel and be happy for you. This is a chance for you to get an awesome education and you can even meet alot of new people!

x0x-Sarah

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my boobs are really small and my stomach is really big. its like showing off my fat waaaaaaay too much! is there anything that can make my tiny boobs bigger

Well, I suggest you could do crunches.I know that doesnt help with boobs but I mean theres nothing you can do about your boobs. Most likely you are begginning to grow and will continue to grow cause trust me, I went from a AA to a 36B.

x0x-Sarah

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