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I've known my best friend for a long time now, but it's only in the past year or so that I've realized my feelings for him (we're both 18.) We get along so great and the chemistry between us is amazing. Sometimes, I think that there is a possibility that he actually reciprocates my feelings. But even if that is the case (which is rather unlikely) I doubt it’s a line he’d be willing to cross given how close we are. Anyway, just recently he has gotten quite serious with a girl... and it's basically killing me. He comes to me often for advice and talks tons about her. I try my hardest to listen and advise appropriately but it’s becoming harder and harder to deal with it. When I’m around him I act quite cold and distant, simply because I think it’s easier to deal with this way. And frankly, it hurts too much to be around him, especially with him gushing about his new girlfriend. Our relationship has more or less suffered, and we don’t get on like we used to. I feel guilty like I’m punishing him for a crime he hasn’t committed, and I feel as though I should put myself out there and disregard my feelings for the sake of our friendship. But everytime I do I end up twice as devastated. He’s probably really confused as to my erratic behaviour; one mood one minute and another mood the next. But I just don’t know how to act around him because either way, I’m the one who ends up hurt.
What do yarl think I should do? (Thanks in advance for any advice!) (link)
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go up to him and be upfront and honest about it. tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels, if he feels the same well congrats if he doesnt then... theres always someone out there for you.. have you ever thought how many guys are out there in this world of ours???
well i hope this all works out!!
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My boyfriend wants me to get a "sexy hair strip". running from somewhere to my vagina, I don't really know what he was talking about..can someone explain more intricatly for me please? (link)
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not sure... sorry try searching using a search engine such as google
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I have a boyfriend... of 4 months... and i just cheated on him with my ex..... i dont know what to do?
and I can not tell my boyfriend... pease... help!
F-- 15 (link)
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tell your boyfriend. beleve me it hurts when your trying to keep it in. just tell him or somehow it will get to him through gossip.. never underestimate the power of gossip :P
and yrr.. just be upfront and apologise saying you didnt know why you did it and stuff like that lol!!!
if the guy is nice and understands hell forgive you if his a disgusted and irratiting kind of guy then hell dump you so fast.
just be upfront theres a lotta guys in this world im sure theres one right for you :D
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my hair is about shoulder length does anyone know any good siteS? or something i could possibly do with my hair (link)
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do whatever you think suits you best
for eg. putting it up
plats
tied up tied back
just leaving it like that
rock style - all up using gel
bun
wateva feels comfortable for you will be good!
or if your not satisfied try using a search engine and searching "simple but great hairstyles"
and see if theres anything there
hope you have a good prom!!! and a good hairstyle!!
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fun things to do while kissing.
but not anything past kissing & feeling up.
thanks (link)
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tongueing - putting your tongue into his mouth or her mouth.
why not try eating something together without using hand and using your mouths :P
kiss his or her neck
kiss around the mouth
suck on his tongue or her tongue
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What are excitement gels?! (link)
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gels that are applied to the penis or the vagina (or the condom being used) for more easier pleasure (sex). it makes the process more smoother so it wont be uncomfortable while having sex. lubrication is produced by the vagina during sex but some people need more lubrication.
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what do you talk about on dates... and where is a good first date. (link)
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well.. when you go on a date... you should find out more about her/him. ask her/him questions like:
wats your fav food
wat turns you on the most :P
stuff like that - and also just talk about anything you want to talk about. just make a normal conversation like you would with your friends! just act normal and have confidence!
act normal and relax theres nothing to be worried about except saying something very inappropriate and her/him dumping you.:| JOKING :P nah srsly just act normal and start a completely normal convo!
hope i helped and i hope you have a good date :D
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YIKES. i know this is really short notice, but i'm taking the SAT IIs tomorrow and i am NOT prepared. i'm taking US History and Chemistry. any advice?! websites, etc? (link)
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well today is tomoro so your too late...
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okay so me and my boyfriend had sex last night.
im 14.
and you guys prolly think thats young.
but we were ready.
and we used prtection.
but now im like bloated and i have REALLY bad cramps.
and im not sure if its normal.
i asked my sister, and she wasnt sure cause its never happened to her.
so my question is will the bloating and cramps go away?
thankssss
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yes, this usually happens to most women the day after having sex. Your sister may not have experienced these cramps before, try asking your mum or one of your close friends who have experienced sexual intercourse.
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well for some reasons I can't sleep. I wanna talk to someone new or someone other than my friends. .. a stranger.
my sn: shietitzvy
I'm N0T desperate. just need company. (link)
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okaiiz if you got msn tell me on feedback ill talk on msn!!
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where can i touch myself to get an orgasm? (link)
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if your a girl - you can play with your nipples and touch your clitoris (the skin part above your vagina) you can also finger your vagina, your but hole and you can use a vibrator if you want
if your a guy then you can rub your penis or hold it formly
you can touch and feel your balls to make you get hornier
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can giving bjs get you pregenat (how ever you spell it) i know i dont really need advice but if you give a guy a bj his stuff gets in you can that do anything? (link)
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No, It can't. The stomach's digestive acids kill the sperm cells almost instantly. There is no way a sperm cell can survive going through your urinal hole.
Hope i helped.
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Phewf. Okay. 15/f. (This is coming from a girl who has NEVER had sex...and won't for a long time)
Okay. I like guys. I like girls too, though. I would love to have a relationship with a guy. ANYTHING EXCEPT having ANYTHING to do with male genitalia....It just GROSSES me out COMPLETELY. Yet, I don't find myself a lesbian. I just CANNOT imagine being penetrated by a guy/oral sex, etc. I find it utterly disgusting (forgive me If this is offending). But....on the other hand, I would also LOVE to have a relationship with a girl..and the thing is - I DON'T MIND being sexual with a girl at all! It's like - BRING IT ON. (lol)...I find this very strange. But I get extremely aroused when I see a picture of a naked woman....or something. But, when I (if ever) get to see a naked man...I'm just grossed out. It's as if, with a guy....it's only everything ABOVE his pants, that I am "optimistic" about. AND HERE'S ANOTHER PROBLEM - I don't want sex with a guy, But I want a baby in the future! With a girl...it's flat out, straight - "BRING IT ON". Am I normal?
Help, please? (link)
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Your a lesbian.
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15/f.
Sometimes, I get REALLLLLLLLLY horny...and just want to like rip my clothes off and start doing stuff to myself. I start touching/pinching my boobs...and get even more aroused. But when I reach down there, I just kind of stop. Because other then touching...I'm scared to do anything else. And the temptation feeling goes away. Is this normal? (link)
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It's normal when the temptation goes away. It's completely ok. It just shows that your afraid of touching yourself (masturbating).
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is there a website that i can go on aim
i have tried MEEBO
but are there anymore ?
thanks (link)
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www.ebuddy.com
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13/male
is my "sperm tube" connected to my "blatter tube"....because sperm comes out the same hole as my pee does right? so are they connected? (link)
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Actually, sperm does not come out the same tube as "pee" (urine). It comes out under the skin of the penis and out the hole of the skin. Your testicles produce semen (sperm/cum).
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Do guys get bored when fingering a girl? And how do they know when to stop? Does she have to tell them or can he feel it? (link)
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They will know because girls cum as well. When the cum comes out he'll know :P
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hi. i just want to know what exactly is a girl condom and how do you use/put it on??? please help me!! thanx (link)
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a girl condom is like a cup, the bottom of the cup is inserted into the vagina so the penis can get in and when the man ejaculates nothing will be contacted with the insides :P
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is there a timing to giving a hand job? i mean sure guys will take whatever you give them, whenever.. but preferably.. when? are you supposed to wait until he has a boner or what's the deal? (link)
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try to sexually excite him by taking your clothes off slowly etc. and then start to kiss him down and down from his head and down to his dick. And then start rubbing it and then you can start to suck it etc.
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what is oral sex? (link)
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oral means something to with the mouth.
So oral sex means licking, sucking etc. the sex organ of your opposite sex (for homosexual ppl the same sex :P:P:S)
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