hey everyone! i am 17 and a senior in highschool. i live in alabama! i am a member of clearview baptist church and i am a christian! if you have any questions about my faith, IM me and i will be glad to talk to you about what i believe... i love going to church, hanging out with friends, the computer/internet, singing, and just having fun!
well, enjoy!
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My boyfriend is going to be 15 on the 25th and I am already 15. On june 5th, we will have been going out for 8 months. I feel comfortable with him and I love him. We have been talking about having sex but we just aren't sure if we should because of the ages we are. I know its illegal until you are 18 but we really want to. And also, what condems are the best to use? Please help! (link)
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ok, i can give you my opinion, and that's all i can really offer. i believe that premarital sex is wrong. you should save yourself for marriage, no matter what, b/c i guarantee you that you'll regret it later. but, it's your choice, but that's my word of advice on that issue
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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what? (link)
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i'd say yes, give him a chance... if he really likes you and you like him, then it shouldn't matter how old he is... heck, if he was 2 years younger than me i wouldn't care lol... just get to know him better and maybe he will open up and not be so shy around you. good luck! :)
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Hey. I'm Colleen. I'm 14/f.
Me and my three best friends, Emily, Ally, and Marissa have been best friends for a while. We've never gotten into a fight until this year. Were always fighting now and talking about eachother. I don't even really think were best friends anymore because Emily told me that she doesn't think Marissa likes her anymore because she never talks to her. Instead she talks ABOUT her to me. They both do. I don't think Ally likes me because she ignores me. Ally told me in a note that Emily said to their other friend Jackie that it seems like Jackie and Ally are best friends and me and Marissa are best friends. I like them all the same and I really wanna be best friends with them again! What should I do?
xoxo_CoLLeEn!*! (link)
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hey colleen,
it sounds like you have a situation on your hands that's not the easiest to deal with... i think that you should talk to all of your friends and maybe see what's up... then maybe you all can sort through whatever it is and be friends again... just let them know that you don't want to be in the position you're in and that you want to be friends with all of them... good luck :)
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im goin into highschool next year and im kinda scared... can anyone thats been or has been a freshman help me? i am so afraid of the work... and i dont wanna go just yet. some one help me get over my fears please...! BWLNG FR SP FAN
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i will be a senior next year, and i'm kinda scared about that, but trust me when i tell you that there is nothing to worry about. high school has been a blast for me. don't be afraid of the work, just be dedicated and do your best! but here's some advice: 1)don't give into peer pressure! if your friends are doing something that you know you shouldn't do, and pressuring you to do it, step back and look at the situation and question who your true friends are... would your real friends do that to you?
2) get involved! high school is a time where not only should you do good in school, but get involved with extra curricular activities and clubs and have fun!!!
3) do your best at everything! when teacher's assign you work and everybody else gives 100%, give 110%. even if you don't get the best grade in the class, you'll know you tried your hardest and that's all that counts!
well good luck in high school and i know you will be fine!!!
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ok my best friends (who is also my boyfriend)dad just recently passed away.i no its been hard for him but hes taken it so well, way better than i thought he would. i told him i was always there if he needed to talk to anyone about anything and he said he appreciated it.im kind of hesitant about talking to him about his dad or bringing it up but it seems like he sometimes wants to talk about it.he'll bring him up in our regular conversations and he'll write about him. the thing is, im not sure if he actually wants to DISCUSS about it or not.should i let him do the talking on this topic or talk about it w/him?because maybe he wants me to ask about it and maybe he enjoys talking aobut his dad but im not sure.... wut should i do? (link)
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i have been right where your boyfriend is... i lost my dad a couple of years ago, so i am speaking from experience.... it is a sensitive subject, but sometimes i know i do want to talk about it, b/c it really helps to get everything out.... it's interesting to see how different people deal with losses, and what helps them. i write about my dad, too and i'll sometimes bring it up in my regular conversations. i am very glad when my friends ask me if i want to talk about that or if i need to, b/c it lets me know that they are concerned and really care about my feelings. if he is dealing with it like i have, i don't think it would hurt to ask him about it, and just to let him know that you're there if he ever needs someone to talk to.
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