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Q: Hey friend is really thin and she has her hip bones sticking out is that ok bc i always tell her to eat more bc she think shes fat *shes 5'5 108 pounds* is that ok?
i have a friend thats 5'4 and is only 95lb and her sister is 5'7 and is 108lb they are both really skinny but heathy. but if your friend thinks shes fat, then she might have an eating disorder.

Q: is it wrong to flirt and make out and stuff w/ a guy when you aren't dating..? like little benafit buddys?
its not wrong at all, as long as its what you want

Q: Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...

Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?

It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.

Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid...
im sick of them. very sick.. crazy youth hehe

Q: Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.

No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.

This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.

Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?

Thank you, in advance, for your help.
yeah its totally normal, you are just growing and im not 100% on this but i think if you dont' already have your period you might be about to.

Q: Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx

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ur 14 hes not the love of ur life thats silly, but if you feel that YOU are ready which you probly arn't at 14 u can do it, but it would be best to wait. and plus just bc ppl younger than you are doing it dosent mean you have to.

Q: how far would you go with a guy, and could you seriously answer the question? cause if you dont that doesnt seem to answer my question, dont be shy!
id go all the way, but only if i really liked him

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my favorite thing to do is ride my bike around on nice spring days.

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