if you do finger yourself how does the doctor tell if he can whether your a guy or girl
They cannot unless your really ruff and scratch yourself or if you have long fingers and pop your cherry. But it's highly unlikey. But would your parents even care if they found out?
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Im 15 and my bf is 16 and weve been together for
about 3 months and the other day we were kissing
and stuff and he got an erection and i saw he had one and he got really embarassed and he try to cover himself up i told him not to worry about it
that its a normal thing he's a bit insecure about it all i don't want to make him feel bad about it
What should i do?
You could talk to him and ask him why it is that he cares soo much.. and explain to him that it's normal and that every guy does it so he should'nt worry about it that much.
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17/f
Hey!
oookkk i need major advice lol cause my friends def. dont give me any. i really like this guy, but he does a lot of stuff i dont like. he smokes a lot, drinks to much (i like to drink but he drinks all the time) and hes just kinda known as a "bad boy". a lot of people tell me i could do a lot better. he gets into trouble a lot and starts fights with people, but im really comfortable with him and i like the way he makes me feel. i dont know what balances out more or if its worth going through stuff he does... and if i should keep being with him cause i really like him but i really dont wanna get stuck in his drama and the stuff he does. i dont want to lead him on either... so if i should get away from him i need to. hes a really nice guy and he has a lot of friends and i know he would never hurt me... but the things he does really bothers me... and i dont like to see him get hurt or get in fights. I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!
-kelly
One of my best friends is just like this guy your talkin about. If yall do have a close relationship then tell him how you feel. Ya know like a heart to heart conversation..also ask him why he does it. Ask him if he would consider slowing down on his drama though and if he says no then tell him well then don't do it around me. But becarful with what you say and how you say it because you don't want a ruined friendship.
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ok..i went out w/ this guy named Patrick..and we had a good relationship til the end of it..i think our main problem was that we moved to fast if u get me..anyway..we broke up and it still hurts to see him..i still love and care about him and yes i do miss him and i just dont kno what to do to get over him..ive gotten other b/fs and it still doesnt work...got any advice?
Well it sounds like you really like this boy. I would talk to him 'as friends' and belike hey you wanna do something sometime. And if he says yes then be like 'What ever happened between us?' Then ask him how he's been since yall broke up and ask him how he's felt about other girls since then. And maybe yall could talk yourselfs back together again.
*Sorry though.. I know exactly how you feel*
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im thinking of having sex... oh it might help... im turning 15 and im a grl... what do you think
Well you are 15 and I kno a bunch of girls who have done it even earlier. If you do deciede to to it make sure that you REALLY care for the guy and that you REALLY know him..becuase you will never forget your first time and you want it to be extra special (trust me.. I did my first with the wrong guy).. but above all use protection!
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I'm 13 years old, a girl, and I go to school with this boy. We are always flirting and I like him a lot. I would like to date him, but he has a girlfriend. He is wonderful, and I would do anything to go out with him. Is there anyway to get him to like me more than her? or some other way for him to dump her and to be with him? Any way for me to be with him is ok, I am open to any suggestions.
Well whatever you do don't make this girl mad because then she'll tell her boyfriend not to talk to you and you might get called a hoe and all sorts of stuff. Just be cool with him.. maybe stop flirtin so much because then he want feel like your leadin him on and alot of guys find it kinda sexi when a girl plays hard to get. I mean don't get me wrong you should still talk to him. Sometimes the best thing happen last. But I wouldn't worry too much girl because your only 13 (i'm guessin he's close to your age because you go to same school) guys and girls get together and break up.. I'll bet you a million dollars this couple want last THAT long.
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ive been with my bf for 3 1/2 months and well...i used to be so INTO him.. but soemhow the luv has just FADED away... i DO care about him and love him alot, its just that im not IN love with him anymore. he told me a few days ago that if he ever lost me, he would kill himself. i know he wouldnt really do it, but i still need to worry. ANYWAY, he has NO CLUE about how im feeling. He thinks that i LUV him alot, and i dont know how i can get him not to be into be anymore.
hes just so into me and tells me so many things that he luvs about me... it creeps me out...
what should i do?! can anyone gimme any ideas on how i can get him to STOP LIKING ME... at least bit by bit.... i just want him to get , well, TIRED of being with me... i jstu want him to DUMP ME!!!!
Well you could tel him that yall should take a little break.. and see other ppl for a lil while.. but tell him you still want to remain friends. That's what I did with one of my boyfriends (i was in the same situation as you).. We stoped seein each other for a lil while and within a week we were back together and fell in love all over again. The sencond time around that love never really died.. So I think sometimes you think your sufficated or something always being with the same guy and you see that even just a lil while a freedom can go a long way.
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ok this boy is going to ask me out next friday and i want to say something other than the usual stuff like yes sure yea i guess.. i want it to be classy what is a good way to say like yes in a diffrent way though?
Whatever you do don't say 'sure yea i guess' because that to me sounds like you don't really want to but don't be to proper either when he asks you because you don't want him to think that your soo proper that your boring. I would say something like 'Sure I'd LOVE that!'
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