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so i got a gf but i like another girl in school and i know that she likes me because before i had my gf i asked her out and she said no but she still likes me just she isn't ready to go out with me. my gf doesn't go to my school but the girl that i also like but can't stop likeing her (starting to think i'm in love with her), does go to my school. but i don't wanna be mean to my gf if i dump her cause its been a short time that we've been goin out, plus how would i know if the other girl would go out with me. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO????? (link)
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If the other girl truly liked you, she would have said "yes" to going out with you the first time. If you liked that girl more, why did you ask another girl out for? Was it because that other girl said no to you?
You shouldnt have asked youre current gf out if you had stronger feelings for another girl. Girls dont like to be played, and if you keep skipping from girl to girl, youre not gonna have any1 to pick from, because theyre all gonna realize the type of guy you are. Girls want a guy they can feel secure with, and 1 that doesnt like 2 girls at the same time. If i was youre gf and i found out that you liked another girl, i would break things off with you.
As far as what U should do. You obviously like this other girl more, so you need to be open and honest with youre gf. Its not a matter of "if i dump my gf, will this other girl go out with me". Its "will i look like a player if i dump my gf for another girl that i like more"!
Dont ask girls out if your really not into them, or because another girl said no to you. Girls take relationships alittle more seriously than guys do. So at least have a little compassion, and think before you make any hasty decisions.
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the thing is, people are telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me ..he has been doing stuff with other people when he went out with other girls.. whenever i talk to him about him cheating on me he always walks away and doesnt talk to me.. i dont know what to do! he says he didnt cheat on me but he lies! what do i do.. i love him so much (link)
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Chances are those people are most likely telling you the truth, especially if he did the same when with his other girlfriends. The fact that he cant face you when you ask him, says it all too!
I know you probably do love him, but do you want to be with someone that lies and cheats? If a guy cant be open and honest with his girlfriend, then he obviously doesnt care about her. I mean hes not even trying to defend himself!
I would talk to him about what people are telling you, and if he blows it off like its nothing, then i guess its youre call.
No matter how many people tell you to end it, youre not gonna listen to them anyway!
When someone lies and cheats, hes not capable of loving (at least not right now) If he truly loved you, he would be open and honest, not be immature and just walk away.
The longer you stay in the situation, the harder itll be to move on! Because guys like that dont change until they mature, and realize what love truly is.
So right now youre just another girl hes dating. A guy thats "in love" will never hurt the 1 he loves.
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