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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!
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Ok, I liked this guy since last year, when I was a freshman, and he was a sophomore. I could hardly talk to him, because I liked him sooo much, but we did talk a lot. We told eachother a lot of stuff that we had never told anyone else, and he completely lead me to believe that he liked me to, right up to inviting me to his house about 4 times, and basically telling me to ask him out. Well, I started to like him at the end of the summer before freshman year, and this summer, the summer before sophomore year, we got into this big, huge fight, which was over the fact that he thought this girl, who he had no chance with , didnt like him because of me, and one night, I just told him that it was his own fault she didn't like him, and that just set him off. So we were in a fight, I said I didn't like him anymore, but I knew I did, and we didn't talk for about 2 months. Then one night, still during summer, I had gotten home from one of my bro's baseball games, and I got online, and was chatting, and the guy was online, and then after about an hour, he IMed me. And he just talked like nothing happened. I was kinda mad, because he didn't apologize or anything, but I have been talking to him again and we just never bring up that summer. Well, he's starting it again. The other night he asked me to go to a party w/ him, then my parents were gone for the weekend, and I was talkin to him on the phone, and I said it was my first time being home alone for a weekend, and he's all, "Want me to come stay w/ you?" Then at one of our away football games last night, I had my back turned to him, and one of my friends was facing him, and she doesnt know I like him, she doesnt even know who it is, but she's like, "Hey, that guy behind you in the blue jacket won't stop staring at you", and it was the guy. So what do I do now, do I start taking him up on some of his offers, and risk letting him hurt me again, or do I shut him out, even though I like him, and risk losing him for good??
ok that choice is really up to you. do you think he deserves one more chance? if you believe in him and know he would never hurt you again.. then go for it. keep talking to him. if you dont wanna risk getting hurt again.. then i suggest you just forget about him. yeah you like him, but wats the point in holding on to this guy wen yal havent been more than friends and hes hurt you. you think about it.
me and my boyfreind broke up afew days ago and he gave me a list of things i need to change befroe we can go back out. ilove him so much but i dont want to change the way i am because its me. you know what i mean what should i do
thats so stupid! omg.. dont change who u r. thats like the craziest thing a guy would make a girl do! seriously.. look for a guy who likes you for you and will treat u rite! cause this guy obviously is a jerk. you shouldnt want him.
the cheerleader girl i was taking about is taking my friends away. i hate preps and she is turning them into preps. plus the guy she is going out with is cheating on her with me what should i do
tell her about it. tell her how much shes really upsetting u and how u dont like how she is taking ur friends away. you seriously gotta talk to her.. theres no other way shes gonna stop.
I love my girl friend very much but she duznt even no just how much i truely love her(i wish she did) well we have been together for a few months and our anavesour is comin up in a week and half, should i get her something or should i not?? and if i should any advise on the object 2 get her??
aw you should definently give her something.. that will show her how much u love her! man im sure she wouldnt care wat u give her, all she'll really pay attention to is wat a sweet boyfriend she has! she'll love the present cause its from you.. trust me. it wont matter wat u give her.
my friend is being a jerk an he thinks he is never wrong an that he an always right...an he thinks he is better than everyone, plus he is addicted to adderall (my medication) what do i do to tell him he is being a royal ass?
Josh
have you talked to him about him bein a jerk? if you havent you better start talking. tell him he needs to stop bein such a jerk because its really scaring friends away. tell him how it isnt possible for someone to always be right.. and its okay to be wrong cause even if he thinks he is soo perfect, he isnt. its only normal for ppl not to be perfect.
im like in love with my boyfriend right we've been going out forever but hes sorta aggressive at times. and sometimes when were just playin around he'll hit me but its just playing around but sometimes he hurts me bad. i sat d0wn and talked to him about it and he said that he didnt realize he was hurting me and he said he would stop and he really didnt i dont want to break up with him because i love him so much but how do i get him to stop. its not like hes meaning to hurt me on purpose because i know hes not because he would never do that like i said just when were playing around but i dont know really how to get him to stop.
you kno, i doubt there is a way you can get him to stop. alot of abbussive relationships start out that way. but as i read, u said u sat him down and talked to him about it and he said he would stop. ok, well give him time and see if he really does stop. if he doesnt you mite want to think about ending it even if its the hardest thing you can do. he needs to treat u rite, and respect u. if he cant do that.. why have him?
I dont see myself the same anymore. I look at other girls who are like perfect and it makes me feel like crap. Like you, you have like everything you want. And like your friends!! Alot of girls seem to be beautiful and have everything, and me, i have nothing. Why do i have ot be like this?
you really shouldnt be thinken like that. thats low self-esteem. no one is perfect, even if it seems like they are. me.. i really dont have everything i want. yeah i have alotta stuff i want but not everything. and my life isnt perfect, i have alot of problems.. as well as other people. i kno there is people who care about u, even if you think there isnt. it just takes time to realize wat great friends u have and wat a great person u and wat a great life u have. dont take things for granted.
im so lonely i hate it. this girl dumped me today and i dont no what im goin to do. she broke my heart, the third girl who has this year in 9th grade. adina i dont no what to do! u have always been there for me and i know u will help me, because u always have. what should i do??
aw sweety there really isnt anything you can do. break ups suck, i know and its really hard to get over this kind of stuff. im sure ur a great guy.. and u deserve a great girl. just try as hard as u can to move on, and meet new people.. new girls! im sure u will find one, one that will be there for u always.
there is a girl that i know and she is on the cheerleading team. i hate her so much and every time i see her i wish that when they throw her in the air they forget to catch her and she falls flat on the ground. what should i do to stop thinking about those bad thoughts
oh.. jeez i hope that girl isnt me.. but maybe it is? if it is please im me and talk to me about it! and if it isnt.. please talk to that one girl!! those thoughts are seriously no good. you shouldnt be thinking about someone like that! im sure theres a reason why you are thinken about stuff like that.. and you should let the girl know.
Im making a memory book for my boyfriend for our anniversary but the only problem is i dont know what to put in it.
aww thats flippen sweet! you should definently put pictures of yal!!! you should write yals favorite songs.. favorite poems.. notes.. etc. anything you have saved from yals relationship. congrats on yals one year anniversary!! :D
Oh my god my mom will not trust me whatsoever!! I have never done anything bad.. except I sneaked out of the house a year ago, but that was it! I don't get it. Adina please.. how do I get my mom to trust me!!
u sound just like me. my mom is the same exact way, except i did not even do ONE bad thing. ya kno.. the only way to get your mom to trust you and stop worrying about you is for you to tell her EVERYTHING. before i started telling my mom everything that goes on in my life, she would ask me questions like crazy, always worry bout me, and never trust me. once i started telling her everything she chilled out and asked me fewer questions, gave me more freedom, didnt worry as much, and trusted me. sit your momma down one day and tell her that your a big girl and she has no reason to worry so much. you're responsible enough to make your own decisions ... right decisions.
hey my boyfriend was actin really mean and i told him and he sed hell stop but like hes been actin mean all week and i just told him today and i still think i shuld dump him but im not sure wat shuld i do?
you dont deserve a guy like that.. u deserve better. if you've talked to him and he said he would stop and didnt.. he really has no respect for you. are you honestly happy with him? the best thing to do is break up with him.. maybe it will teach him a valuable lesson.
theres this guy i like and i think he likes my friend and she likes him to what do i do
woa.. um ok well i get wat ur sayen. um this isnt any good. im sorry but i think u should forget about the guy. you really have no chance with him since hes already interested in ur friend whos interested in him. its really sad to see ur friend with this guy.. and if it really really hurts you talk to ur friend. if shes ur true friend she will understand u.
i'v liked this guy for about a year and i think he knows that i like him but i'm not sure and i'll flirt with him and he'll flirt and it seems like he likes me but he goes out with other ppl should i still be interested in him or should i try to like other ppl?
maybe he likes you but just doesnt want a relationship with you. some guys are like that.. but you should still talk to him. ive said this plenty of times.. but seriously YAL NEED TO START TALKING! dont hide your feelings!! lol talking is the only way your gonna find out if he feels the same way. dont be afraid!!
ok umm i have liked this guy off and on since 7th grade and im now in 9th and we went out last year but i still like him and he flirts with me but i cant tell if he likes me or not! idk what to do if i should tell him i still like him or just leave it cuz when we went out last year he was the one who ended it so idk?
you should tell him.. u cant just leave it. it will like haunt you forever. ask him if he feels the same way.. and even though he ended it theres still a possibily he has feelings for you again, cause u never completely stop liking someone. definently talk to him!
Okay...I have a few probs...
My boyfriend, David is not really boring...but he dosen't really try to make our realtionship work. I tried to break up with him today, and he signed off aim....
I like this guy, Tony...and we've been going out on and off for 3 years...he asked me out last night, I said yes...
So...how Do I break up with David..with out letting him know that I'm going out with Tony...
BTW-he hates TOny)
oh man. lol you should have told tony no so that you could break up with david without cheating on him! cheating is not the way to go.. well that right thing to do would tell david that you are cheating on him. but if you dont want to then just tell him straight out that its over.. he might find out you were cheating on him though. so watever you.. its all up to you.
Hey, my name is Jennifer, I've been going out with my boyfriend, Ryan, for a few weeks. I really like him, more than I've liked any of my other boyfriends in the past. Just seeing him or thinking about him makes me smile, and when he holds my hand, touches me or kisses me, everything else in the world dissappears. It's great. My problem is that over the summer, he had a crush on one of my... not exactly friend, but an aquaintence. Her name is Kayla. And she didn't like him back. Over the months he kinda lost interest, at least that's what he told me. Now, my other friend, Melissa, is good friends with Kayla. Kayla told Melissa that Ryan still likes her, and she likes Ryan. I'm worried. Kayla is a very attractive girl, and she could get almost any guy she wants. I recently talked to her, and she said that she woulnd't do anything with him, but she still flirts with him, and he flirts back. It bothers me. I really don't want him to like her, and if he does, I don't want to keep going out with him. What do I do?
aw this is not a good situation. ok dont believe any of the junk kayla tells you, cause of course shes gonna tell you she wouldnt do anything with him. now ryan.. talk to him please. ask him if he has any feelings for kayla and to be truthful. tell him you heard he does and it hurts you because you really like him. and if he really does like her you dont want to keep going out with him cause it isnt fair to you. i understand you really like this guy and it would hurt to loose him, but sometimes you have no other choice. you will find another guy who will give you the big great smile! :D
Okay i like this kid named jimmy and 1 OF his bestfriends said this 2 me and i dont know what do do
"well i dont think jimmy is used to somebody "Liking" him so you kinda have to help him out if you want to go out with himMbaye u should make the 1st move i doubt he has had many if one girlfriends before"
What should i do becasue i LIKE THIS kid ALOT
Thx
Kayla
ok so he's "prude"? is that wat his friend is trying to say? if so its really up to you if you want to go out with him. being "prude" shouldnt stop you from going out with him cause wat matters is wat kind of a guy he is and if you like him for him. and if you dont, thats fine. but that would be kind of selfish.. you should give him a try.
ok here goes
ive been going wit this guy almost 3 weeks and like hes all nice and stuff but hes boring. like when we are on the fone he just sits there and doesnt say anything. when we are together he doesnt talk and hes always wanting to do sumthin wit me and then stuff he wants to do are boring and stupid like go to main even or sumthing and its boring. hes a boring guy and i dont know wut to do HELP!!
ok it sounds to me you arent all that interested in him. dont force yourself to stay with him if you dont want to. just let him know you arent interested and you think yal should end it. dont wait any longer.. cause it'll just hurt more.
Hi,
My name is Mandy and I am 15. For two years my family have been telling me that I need to lose weight... Well, it finally got to me and I turned anerexic and bilemic...it took six of my friends to force eed me and hold me down so that I wouldnt go to the restroom and throw it up... I've been starving myself for 4 weeks now and even if I did try to eat I end up throwing it up without making myself...I really dont want to be sent to a hospital...my parents don't know yet... I don't know what to do. Please help me.
Wow you really have good friends. you should truly appreciate having friends who would do anything to help you. parents can be a big impact on your life.. like mine. instead of telling me i need to loose weight.. they tell me i need to gain weight. trust me ive tried.. ive ate like no freaken other but im still the same. you cant change who you are or wat you look like. your parents should be telling you you need to loose weight cause that only puts you down. talk to them and tell them you are anerexic and bilemic cause its the only thing left to do. tell them they really made you feel bad and you felt you had no other choice. they will help you and take you to a doctor so you can get help. being anerexic and bilemic is very very dangerous!! it could cause death.. so please, do this for me and for your ownself.. tell your parents!!