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Alright here is my story.. My friends and my family do not like this kid i am going out with.. my little brother and some of my friends do like him.. but for the people who dont like him they dont have a good reason not to like him... they are racist and they cant see on how much i really like this kid...and i cant have him over for partys because my parents dont allow it and if my friends are having partys they can bring there boyfriends but im not allowed.. my boyfriend teachs my little brother to play football but just for him to do that i have to lie i have to tell my parents im going over lets say allisons house just for him to help my brother i dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME (link)
heyy .. they cant tell you who to love and they should know that you cant even tell yourself wjo to love it just happens and it seems as if your white and hes black or your black and hes white well it doesnt matter about the color of your skin and your parents should respect that but if they dont you should sit down and have a talk wiht them about how you feel and then they will express how they feel and maybe that will work it out im sorry i wasnt much of a help but it was all i could think of

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whats the song thats like "the back of the club is where ill be?"
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its called "back in the club" and its by mashonda and im also sorry for answering your question late my computer borke down and it just got fixed today well i hope your not mad =(

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my eyelashers are like tottaly straight!! well i curl them and put mascara and whenever i put mascara on my eyelashes are like not good.. like they are clumped together... does anyone know any good mascara that makes my eyelashes lonnger? (link)
heyy .. the best mascara that i also used is xxl try it it works great

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ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop? (link)
heyy .. no dont do anything to the guys because that will only cause trouble dont do anything about it even if you want to because im the same way everyone comes up to me and smacks my ass and my boyfriend is like dont you care and im like no it doesnt bother me and they dont mean anything they are just having fun

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Ok ive been single for 2 YEARS!! This is too long..especially being that these are supposed to be the best years of our lives. ive been living it up with my friends and thats great and everything; but its like something is missing. Im lonely and i think everyone knows loneliness isnt a great feeling. Nobody really like me..im like the girl with the nice personality, but not the looks...i have guys as friends, but thats about it. It seems like i wont have another bf until after high school. iS there anything i can do?? or do i have to just wait it out : / (link)
heyy .. i dont have that problem but basically yea you will just have to wait it out because you dont want to make anyone like you or anything like that because that will just cause you pain

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Im a 13-f. I've had my period for queit a while now. But the last time I got it was in the middle of February. I used to get it every single month. But all of a sudden, it just doesn't come. Anyone know why? (link)
heyy .. it just meants your peroid is probably irregular or you could also be pregnant if you have had sex before

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i am a 14/f and there is this boy that lives down the street from me that is a couple of years older than me and i really like him and want to get to know him better. Everytime that i am outside practicing volleyball he drives by and will wave but he never has said anything to me at all. What should i do to catch his eye? i really want to get to know him and he seems like a great guy to hang out with even if all we become is good friends. Please help me! Thanks! (link)
heyy .. send him signals that you wanna get to kno him like eye contact or smiling alot or if your feeling flirty just strike up a conversation with him or ask him for some voleyball tips

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my friend "Tori" found out that the boy I have a crush on Liked me back but now everyone is saying he lik-ed me. But she found out recntly that he thinks I am cute. if he thinks I am cute and liked me does that mean he stil likes me?



if I guy thinks ur cute and states it to a bunch of other guys does that mean he thinks she is cute or he likes her (link)
heyy .. i dont think he likes you i just think he thinks your cute cute is one thing and liking is another but still you should ask him if he likes you or jsut thinks your cute

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Hey guys,
I was wondering if anyone knew of any titles and authors of books where i would be able to find poems on love or friendship. I'd really like ones on love more. I'm not sure of any titles of books I could look in, so if anyone knows, please let me know! Thank you so much! :-) (link)
heyy .. alica keys has a book with some poems im not sure what it is called so just ask a bookstore or google it

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ok so heres my problem- i went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we only went out for like 2 months but i'm still not over him! im so in love with him! but i also think i'm in love with my best friend(hes a guy). we are soo close but i really think i love him. but my other best friend(whos a girl) also likes him a TON! but he deosn't like her.she doesn't know i like him but i'm just so confused with what to do. cause a lot of people say he likes me but i dont wanna be mean and go out with him. so i really have no idea what to do! help me PLEASE! (link)
heyy .. ask him if its true that he likes you and if he does go out with him your not being mean to your friend by starting a relationship with a guy and its not your fault he doesnt like her and she cant make you suffer because she likes him and he doesnt like her

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The inside corner of my left eye is very red and bloodshot looking. Its itchy and sometimes it hurts. There is this white colored puss that shows up on the corner of my eye and I really don't know what's wrong. I wear contacts and I change them regularly. I don't know what the problem could be. Does anyone know what is wrong with my eye? It's not pink eye because I've had that before and I know what it's like. (link)
heyy .. you either have an eye infection .. alleriges .. or bad contacts if you have an eye infection ask the doctore for medication if you have alleriges then buy opcon-a i have it and it works great and pretty much covers most alleriges if you have bad contacts try different ones or go back to glasses

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ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do??? (link)
heyy .. just tell the people you trust now because later on they will find out by themlseves so your better off just telling them now and if your bi it isnt the same as being gay or being a lesbian it just means you like both boys and girls and they probably wont act weird adn if they do they will get over it fast trust me they will jsut have to accept you for who you are and you should tell them that

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Hi guyz, i was just wondering if it was true that if you have some kindof weird shape mole that means you have cancer, cuz thats what my friend told me and she is really afraid cuz she says she has a weird shaped mole.

Is it true?


~Steph~ (link)
heyy .. no its not always true sometimes it is tho but to find out if it is you will need to see a doctor

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Hi im Jess i really need to know how can i get more aggressive in soccer because i love the sport ive been playing for 9 years and i just cant seem to get aggressive. Ive heard people say i need t get more aggressive but i dont know how so if anyone has any ideas plz let me know. Thx
~Love Jess~ (link)
heyy .. try playing with some friends or family members and be aggresive on them 1st and let them make you mad and then when its time to play soccer you will already have gotten aggresive with your friends or family and might get aggresive on the fields

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Theres this one guy at mi school and his name is anthony and we talk all the time and like we can talk about like anything and there was a dance and like i broke mi ankle so i cant dance and i really wanted to dance with him... should i ask him out and how? Thanx! =O)

*inlove + confussed (link)
heyy .. no dont ask him out guys think its weird when a girl asks them out what you can do is send him some signals like eye contact and smiling and flirt alot and conversate alot with him let him know you like him and maybe he will make the 1st move

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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks (link)
heyy .. give her some money that way she can buy herself what she wants and will like it or go to like a skateshop or something tomboyish that shes into and get her a giftcard or get a mall giftcard they have like hot topic there and stuff she might like

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I am African-American/Japanese and the guys that I am normally into are white skater types. Nobody I've ever really liked has liked me back, and I've been told it's because I'm too shy. Is it really because I'm too shy or is it because of race? Do guys really think about race? (link)
heyy .. no its not about your race its really about your shyness so work up your self confidence and flirty things you should have is alot of eye contact and also smile alot and strike up a conversation even just let the skaters know your not shy

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. I've kissed him before but I've never made out with him. I want to soooooo bad but everytime I get the chance I get scared and wuss out. I've never made out with anyone before and I'm really not sure on how to do it. Any advice? (link)
heyy .. there is no right or wrong way to makeout so dont worry about it everyone has there own style of makingout but theres one thing you CANT do while makingout with a boy dont keep your eyes open they think its freaky

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Has anyone seen the Exorcist: The Beginning. If so, was it any good. Hurry, the movie is starting in 15 minutes! Thanks. (link)
heyy .. it was pretty good i think you should watch it

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hi, i saw the ipod answer, but i'm a different girl not the girl who asked the question but anyway, i'm interested in getting an ipod and I was wondering if you'd reccomend me getting one or not, because i've heard that they turn out to be crappy. if you can please also tell me what problems you've had, if any. thanks so much! (link)
heyy .. uhh i actually have a pink i-po mini and its great and they are not crappy the only problem i`ve had was it wouldnt update the new songs i downloaded by itself which its supposed to but it turned out i didnt have my i-pod plugged in the computer like i was supposed lol so really there was no problems with it so yea you should totally get one they are the best and i take mines everywhere

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