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Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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Age: 16
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Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\
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In my opinion, nobody falls in love in high school. They might think they are in love, b/c that is the whole point "you fall in love with one person, fall out of love, fall in love with someone new." but they obviously aren't "in love". I do not doubt that you might "love" him however. Loving someone is exactly what you were saying..you care for them, you cherish them, you would feel a loss without them, and you would do anything in your power for that person if need be. I think it also takes knowing someone for more than a year to be "in love" with them. If you know everything there is to know about this person and they tell you everything and you still feel the same way about them, that's a very good sign, but just take things slow. I don't think high school relationships last, but that's just my opinion. Good Luck!


Ok Well My boyfriend and I have been together since May and now things between me and him are just getting boring but i dont wanta leave him because i really love him but I dont know what to do things are just so boring now should i tell him how i feel ... he might take it the wrong way
plz help (link)
I would suggest that you propose new and FUN activites to do, so you're not just doing the same old same old all the time. Because i know as well as you do, that can get very old very fast, and not to mention BORING! suggest new things to try, and if you are still bored with him after a while, or if he won't try new things, try to find someone who is open-minded and interested in the same things you are. here are some things that you two could try:
going to the movies or out to eat
going on vacation/camping
going to an amusement park
going to a concert
going shopping (if he doesn't mind..some guys can't stand it..haha)
going out for ice cream
watching the sun come up
sitting under the stars just talking about life
bake cookies
go for a walk
take funny pictures
have a picnic
go bowling
go to a game
go skating
etc etc..there are so many more ideas i could come up with, i'm sure you get the point tho! if you need anymore help..you can IM me (AIM- UrSoGorgeOusx) Good Luck!


hey, what are some good movies that will be playing this weekend at MoviePlex 59? thanks (link)
Friday:
Bad News Bears (PG-13) (01:29): 12:50, 3:40, 6:50, 9:20
Batman Begins (PG-13) (02:20): 6:30, 9:25
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (PG) (01:46): 12:50, 3:40, 6:50, 9:20
Dark Water (PG-13) (01:40): 6:50, 9:25
Fantastic Four (PG-13) (02:03): 1:00, 3:30, 7:00, 9:30
Herbie: Fully Loaded (G) (01:32): 1:00, 3:45
Island, The (PG-13) (02:07): 12:30, 3:30, 6:30, 9:30
Madagascar (PG) (01:20): 1:00, 3:45
War of the Worlds (PG-13) (01:59): 12:45, 3:15, 6:30, 9:30
Wedding Crashers (R) (01:59): 12:40, 3:25, 6:40, 9:25

Saturday:
Bad News Bears (PG-13) (01:29): 12:50, 3:40, 6:50, 9:20
Batman Begins (PG-13) (02:20): 6:30, 9:25
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (PG) (01:46): 12:50, 3:40, 6:50, 9:20
Dark Water (PG-13) (01:40): 6:50, 9:25
Fantastic Four (PG-13) (02:03): 1:00, 3:30, 7:00, 9:30
Herbie: Fully Loaded (G) (01:32): 1:00, 3:45
Island, The (PG-13) (02:07): 12:30, 3:30, 6:30, 9:30
Madagascar (PG) (01:20): 1:00, 3:45
War of the Worlds (PG-13) (01:59): 12:45, 3:15, 6:30, 9:30
Wedding Crashers (R) (01:59): 12:40, 3:25, 6:40, 9:25

Sunday:
Bad News Bears (PG-13) (01:29): 12:50, 3:40, 6:50, 9:20
Batman Begins (PG-13) (02:20): 6:30, 9:25
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (PG) (01:46): 12:50, 3:40, 6:50, 9:20
Dark Water (PG-13) (01:40): 6:50, 9:25
Fantastic Four (PG-13) (02:03): 1:00, 3:30, 7:00, 9:30
Herbie: Fully Loaded (G) (01:32): 1:00, 3:45
Island, The (PG-13) (02:07): 12:30, 3:30, 6:30, 9:30
Madagascar (PG) (01:20): 1:00, 3:45
War of the Worlds (PG-13) (01:59): 12:45, 3:15, 6:30, 9:30
Wedding Crashers (R) (01:59): 12:40, 3:25, 6:40, 9:25


Okay when i was 13 i got drunk and had sex and he didnt use a condom. I got pregnant and told the father and he moved an i had my baby girl. Now im 15, every time i tell a bf i had a baby they end up breaking up with me. There is a guy who ive been dating for a lomg time now and he said hed be with me through all of the obsticals...well this is a huge obstical. Should i tell him i had a baby or say it is my mothers and tell my mother to go along with it till i tell him? (My mom had me when she was sixteen so she is young) (link)
You definitely SHOULD tell him you have a baby. It is your responsibility, and if you want to be with this guy for a long time..don't you think you will get caught up in the lie later? You cannot lie to someone forever, especially about something this big! I think you should always tell the truth, and face the consequences! You need to find someone who will love you no matter what, baby or not. Always be honest, especially with boyfriends. If they really do love you, they will be there for you to support you and your child. Good Luck!


Okay..sorry in advance if this is long but i really need some advice. Alrite, well a few days ago me n my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said what would happen if we broke up and i went out with one of your friends and that right that pissed me off and hes like sorry i was just thinking about something to talk about..since we are both very shy! But then i was talking to my boyfriends brother today and he said he told your friend *stacy that he liked her on the phone last night and i was like WHAT THE HELL! and then i talked to my boyfriend and he was like oh my god shes ugly and 2 years younger than me and all this stuff and he was like i only like and love one person and thats you. But i dont know if I should believe his borther..when i was talking to *stacy she said he said he was gonna tell me all this stuff because stacy wouldnt go out with him (my boyfriends lil brother)so im freaking bawling right now because im so stressed out and i dont know who exactly to believe..also his lil brother told me (about 3 months ago) that my bf was cheating on me and that proved to be true but it seems lately that me and my boyfriend have had the "perfect relationship" i love him so much..also stacy talks to my boyfriend on the phone for like 3 hours but she says they talk about me the whole time? So please help me! Sorry its so long! (link)
Oh hell girl, I would definitely believe his brother. Under a few circumstances; and they are..
1)his brother does not like you (because he might be just telling you that to get you to break up because he wants you)
2)his brother doesn't hate you (because he might just want to piss you off, to get you and his brother to break up simply because he dislikes you being with him)
3)his brother is mature (otherwise he might just be lying to get his brother in trouble)

Guys are all the same, they lie, they cheat and they break hearts. Believe me. I'm 16 years old and I think I am one of the very few smart people when it comes to relationships in high school. They never last. So if by chance he does like your friend, let it go. He's still immature and there isn't much you could do about him liking her. Esepcially if she likes him. They will hook up, date for a little while, then break up. It's like a routine. But if you really want a boyfriend, look for someone who you can trust, and who won't just stick around for a little while. But don't plan on any relationship with any guy to last forever. Atleast not when you are in high school, probably not even college.


me and my b/f have been going out for a month and i never see him...he is always working. he said he will make time for me but he never does....i really like him and dont want to dump him but idont see how we can go on like this!!! (link)
When you have a job, and a girlfriend of boyfriend it can be hard. Especially when you work a lot. Does your boyfriend drive? If he does, ask him if there is any possible way he could stop by just to see you for a little while maybe before or after he goes to work. I'm sure he does not work every day, so maybe when he gets his schedule for work you could plan something ahead of time for a day he has off so he doesn't plan something else before you get a chance to ask him to hang out. If he is hanging out with other people, especially girls..that would be when you should get worried. Because that might mean he is trying to avoid you or ignore you. And now I can see why it would bother you so much, because it is summer and you can't see him in school or anything. I would suggest just giving it time, to see if things improve. If not, maybe you two should take a break, until you have time for each other.




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