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And lately, i've discovered that one of the best answers for relationship problems is communication. talk. explain. share. it does wonders.

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does anybody know what time is a good time to do homework? cause sometimes i just dont feel like doing all that work

If you can, try to finish some of your homework in class, unless the teacher absolutely forbids it, stating that "homework should be done at HOME." If that's the case, I would suggest that you divide your homework up. Like do your most important classes' homework [i.e math, history, whatever is your hardest class] first. Maybe take a short break [five minutes, etc and take a walk, what not] then do another two or three classes of homework. Whatever you do, don't procasinate [this is coming from a Pathelogical procastinator] xD You'll probably end up sleep deprived and caffeine-addicted :P

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okay so in one of my classes there is known as kinda of a geek but tall but just not cool so anyways if he likes a girl h es like obessed and its kinda scary and im starting to think he likes me ...like when i look up most of the time hes always staring at me giving me liek a creepy stare and i hate it and when i flirt with other guys he seems to get mad at stare me down...so first does he deff. like me and 2 how do i get him to stop w/o talking to him!

oh yess i rate high for good answers that wil help!=)

It's not nice to say someone's 'not cool'... but that's not the point of my 'brilliant' answer.

Something like that has happened to me... last year in fact. This guy was totally obssessed with me and wouldn't leave me alone... at all. He would call me, IM me, follow me, attempt to talk to me etc etc etc. The first thing I'll have to suggest is, i think the best way to tell is to go up to him and ask if he has a thing for you or something. And if he does, tell him that you dont appreciate the fact that he's staring at you like monkey eyes a banana... or something. Or you can do the drastic thing like I did and tell him to stop bothering you in a nice way [of course i was much more harsher]. But basically, the only way you can solve either of your two dilemmas is to talk to him ^^ I hope I helped you somewhat.

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wut does fatigue mean??

http://webster.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=fatigue

Just wondering, are you too lazy to look it up or just really bored and felt like posting something random?

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My friends and I want to do stuff but we dont have cars or anything like that and our mom drives us places....what other things can we do besides go to the mall, movies, get our nails done....?

Hmm, you can always go to each other houses. Rent a movie, have a guys/girls night or something. You can do what my friend do in the autumn, play football in the streets, just be careful not to get run over xD You guys can also go to each other's houses and play games and such. And if you have internet and a bunch of girls and guys, check out:

http://www.tordol.com/index.jsp

online truth or dare. It's quite interesting.

Hope this helped :]

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Will braces go off on metal detectors? What colors should I get? I'm getting them tommorow! (13/F Kind Of Preppy)

Nope the braces dont go off, i know this because my sister has braces and has been waltzing through metal detectors since my family travels a lot.

As for colors, you have several choices. You can do 1) your favorite color [that's what i do] 2) school colors [to show your school spirit! woohoo!] or 3) choose a color that can go with any color [aka match any outfit you wear basically]

And a little advice about braces, they will definitely hurt...duh, lol [i just got mines a few months ago] but when you get them all, it'd be worth it... at least that's what i'm telling myself! xP

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13/m I have a sister, let's call her "Z", she's 2 years older than me. Niether of us have ever had dates before. But this last summer, I realized that I was in love with one of my best friends from school "M", and Z was in love with one of her best friends from camp, whose name doesn't matter. Well, of course I told M how I felt about her, because it was just burning up inside me and I didn't know what else to do. It turns out, she's not sure how she likes me, and also she has an ex who went through a painful breakup with her. Because he's a jock. I am not in any way, shape, or form, a jock, and also I can't thing of any reason why we would go through a painful breakup with her. So not only is she unsure of her feelings, but she also doesn't want to go through a painful deja vu. And to put it on top of everything, she had a huge argument with the popular kids, and they will do anything to get revenge on her or anyone close to her---namely, me. So I was insanely depressed for a long time...

About two months later, we learned that what Z was feeling was mere infatuation. She went to another school this year, and she met a really weird guy "R", first they just had a bunch of classes together, then Z realized that she liked him, and eventually she loved him, and her best friends were pushing her to ask him out, or else they could slap her really hard continuously for 3 straight minutes. So she asked him out, and they're going out in a few weeks---on his birthday!

A day or two before, I had asked M to the school dance, as friends or more. She might be rehearsing for a play then, but at least there's hope. But for some reason I feel like Z isn't ready to be dating yet... I don't know why. I've never met R but he sounds like such a great guy... I don't know... Maybe it's just a huge milestone in both of our lives... maybe I'm jealous... I don't know... And right now I feel like I'm going to burst out of confusion... I usually know what's going on, people always answer my questions with stuff like "Wow, how old are you really?" or "I know some people who are 21 and you're more mature than them!" And all that crap. But now this is the one time outside of social studies or having to do with M when I have no idea what's going on... why am I so jealous or worried for her? And has it ever struck you as difficult to have two people who happen to both love each other? Like, really, what are the odds? Thanks... I'm so distraught!

I suppose it's normal for people to be protective of their sibling[s]. In most cases, that is. Especially for guys. I suggest you go talk to your sister and tell her your feelings. On one hand, she might tell you it's none of your business, but again, it might be better if she cleared your doubts for you. Talking with siblings helps a lot, trust me on that.

And a little side note, your first love doesn't always have to be your only love. I did not make it up, but i thought you'd might need to know that :)

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ok i dont know how to word this but i will give an example like today i got some headphones from around the house to see which would have the music come out the loudest from my ipod and like i took these pair of headphones from our family room and my dad started yelling at me saying im not supposed to leave the room with the head phones when i didnt and and so he was like i thought i told u to put them back when he never did so i yelled back at him so he came like running over to me and like almost broke my finger and he said if i did it again he would beat the $h!t out of me and a couple of times he has hit me and i dont know what i should do cause my mom never believes me when i tell her this and when he hits me it never leaves any bruises and he says if he goes to jail for beating me at least he would have found the enjoyment in it

When my parents beat me, no matter how hard they hit, they never leave bruises...how strange. Seeing that i've had several experiences similar to yours, i can tell you that you should get help. My parents use to tell me that if I got them thrown in jail, they'll hunt me down after they get out and beat me even more... but don't listen to your dad. You should talk to a school counselor or something. GET HELP. Don't be like me and suffer by yourself for years. That's child abuse and if it continues, things can end up seriously wrong. So the main point of my reply is, dont keep it to yourself. get help. now.

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so im going to homecoming with this guy, lets call him Z. well z said that he didn't want my friends tagging along, cause that would make him nervous. i didn't really get it but I said its cool. But i've been thinking and what are we going to talk about for the whole time if its just us? And I don't even know how to dance really. How do you dance? Also, are you supposed to talk when you dance? Thanks in advance, homecoming is this friday and I'm freaking!

Hmm, without your friends, the situation might be a little uncomfortable... but aside from that. I guess the most common answer would be 'be yourselves'. If you dont know how to dance, chances might be that Z doesnt know how to dance either. I guess you can just warn him that you might step on his toes, but I'm sure he'll understand. Dancing is suppose to be fun, so dont worry too much! Just take it slow and have fun :]

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