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Q: Hey okay I've recently heard this, is it true that boys are okay with inexperienced girls? That they like the "innocent type"? We're talking never been kissed...

14/F

To some guys it matters, to some it doesn't. And like the others said, some guys like being the first. Depends on the guy..

Q: 16/female

So i'll be a senior in the fall and i've never been kissed nor have i been in a relationship. I've only "talked" to boys a few times throughout HS. It's so embarrassing. I think you have to ACTUALLY be in my position to know how pitiful this is. So I like this boy and he likes me and we randomly started talking about sucking dick and eating out girls. I'm not a fan of either and so he just started to judge me. He told me I was crazy for not wanting a guy to eat me out. People judge me all the time, and I hate the feeling of being judged. Sometimes, I think I would've been better off giving my all to the first boy I talked too. Because I can't take this anymore. All I want is one nice boy..is that asking for too much? My standards aren't high. I'm outgoing, friendly, and fun. Please don't respond with "you'll find one someday, just wait, or be true to yourself B.S." Cause, that just makes me feel worse inside. What do you think with all of this? Should I see how things go with him? Should I be carefree?

thanks.

Believe me, I've been in your position lol. I'm a Junior in High School and I haven't been in a relationship either. Most of the time, guys in High School are just looking for someone to hook up with, not a relatioship (some do). But..you're still in High School, I wouldn't worry about not having a boyfriend or anything like that. I know it's a lot of pressure because friends have boyfriends and stuff but as the other person said, college is definitely where you'll get a relationship. Just focus on school. And as far as it goes with the guy..if he judges you like that, he obviously isn't good for you and probably wants only sex. Asking for a nice guy is not too much. If you meet a guy you really like, talk to him, get to know him. Don't lower standards for anyone though..don't be carefree either.

Hope I helped!

Q: 14/f

I don't have perfect body, that's for sure. I'm short. 4'9'' to be exact and have no legs. I have what are called daikon legs which are genetically chuncky looking legs which resemble large radishes called daikon. My torso's ok i guess. I have a completely flat/slightly toned stomach, am a 34C and have a 23'' waist. I'm not fat but due to my hideous legs, I don't look skinny either. My question is, are guys really looking for the hot model looking girls? the tall girls with amazing legs? I'm so self concious about my discusting legs and hear all the time "If only she had legs, she'd be hot." It's really discouraging and everytime, my self esteem ends up stooping lower and lower. So I was just wondering...do guys really care if a girl has no legs?

I'm the same way lol. Guys like different things, so you can't say yes or no. Honestly, if a guy doesn't like that you don't have long legs, forget him. He's not worth it then. Find a guy who wants you for you and you'll be fine.

Hope this helped! :)

Q: ok well i'm 15f i'm 5'8

when i got weighed like during the summer i was 220ish. told me to lose 20 pounds..which seemed like a biiig challenge for me! D: anyways..9th grade now. switched schools and now i have this new P.E. thing where all we do is go in the weight room thats like a gym! you got your treadmill those bike thingies an ab cruncher pec deck and all this other stuff i dunno what its called :P but i like it a lot! but on thursdays when class is longer we run 2 laps around the track or the "fun run" (not fun!)...i'm not even gonna get into that XP
so when the end of the semester came we weighed ourselves and did the mile and crap like that.. i weighed in as 205.. i still felt like crap though cuz my new school is in LAGUNA BEACH!! everyone is uber skinny and pretty and says gnarly!! D: i felt fat.....reallly fat T_T
a while after that..i don't know if i did anything but..when we weighed outselves again for the presidential test i was 200! happy day! :D
i'm wondering if its normal though..for 5'8 i mean
my parents want me to be 140 so ima aim for that but i need to know...i still feel really fat

heeeellp i know this was long D:

I agree with the other person. Since you're tall, being 200 isn't all that bad. It can put a lot of pressure on people to be thinner, especially when you're in a place like Laguna Beach, lol, but just keep up what you're doing now. Work out, eat healthy, and go down to a weight you're comfortable at. Not what your parents want. It's not up to them, it's up to you.

Good Luck! :)

Q: Me and my bf have been together for 2 years now.We don't fight much these days but when we do he yelle at me and he really scares me sometimes.He really makes me upset and makes me cry then he says he's sorry and he said i should treat him better and i wont yell at u.He tells his family things that aren't true,but i really love him i dont want to break up

Even though you don't want to break up, you also have to consider what he wants. Figure out what you both can do to make things better in the relationship, and to stop him from yelling at you. If you both love eachother, things should work out. Just remember to talk to him! Communicating is the best solution.

Good Luck!

Q: I am a 13 year old girl.I like this guy who says he loves me but when I asked him out he said no. I asked why if he loved me so much and he said its because theres this other girl.
I love this boy and cant seem to get over him no matter how much he hurts me (emotionally.) I hate how all of my friends say to just get over him when its not that easy, i need help figuring out what to do!
-Morgan

You shouldn't waste your time on him! Yes, he may say he loves you. But obviously he's playing games. I know it's hard to just get over him so easily because you like him a lot, but it's something you must try to do. He's not worth the pain. You will definitely find someone a lot better!

Good luck!

Q: Can you lose weight without exercising, like by just watching what you eat? I was diagnosed with a spine disease 10 months ago and had to quit all physical activity including the 2 volleyball teams I played on that kept me in great shape. I cannot run, walk excessively, lift weights, or do crunches etc. Of course, I've gained a lot of weight since I can no longer exercise. Can I lose that weight with food or do I just have to suffer?

Yes you can. Even though excercise makes you lose weight quicker, you can still lose it without exercise. Eat healthier by eating fruits and veggies instead of junk food. Cut down on carbs and calories per day. If you do this, you will most likely lose some weight. But make sure you eat healthy foods!

Good luck!

Q: 14/f

I find it very uncomfortable when people stare at my chest.... it makes me feel annoyed and kind of weirded out....
And this is not only with guys...for some reason I always see one of my friends in particular staring at my chest...it's extremly uncomfortable....I usually say "Hey, my face is up here" but she just laughs and then like awhile later she'll just stare at my chest again....no other girls do that and it's just really weird. And it's not only with low shirts, it's any kind of shirts. And NO, I'm 110% positive she is NOT a lesbian. So i don't know what I'm supposed to do...
What am I supposed to do to make her stop staring??
Thanks!!

It happens to many people, including myself. Tell your friend that it makes you extremely uncomfortable when she's staring at your chest. Hopefully she'll understand and stop doing it.

Hope this helped!

Q: How can i lose weight and get skinny?
i would like to lose my belly fat and arm fat and im 17 5'3 and weigh 130 what can i do to lose weight and get skinny? i got a gym membership but i dont know what to do should i run everyday? what can i eat? i woudnt mind getting muscles is it possible for me to lose weight in 3 months? can someone make a exercise schedule for me? thanks

Well, running would probably help but you should definitely do things such as sit-ups to help with the belly fat and to strengthen abs, and do push-ups and/or lift weights to help with your arms. You should eat fruits and veggies, of course. And just don't eat too much junk food or fattening foods. Well, depending on how much weight you want to lose, it may be possible to lose it in 3 months.

Hope this helped :)

Good Luck!

Q: Hey, i have this friend and she is not liked very much by other kids @ our skool! But she dosent know this. And everyone is always asking me why i am her friend. sometimes i dont stand up for her behind her back when people ask me that because, they think i am cool when i say i dont really like her when she is like my best friend! What do i do?? i like her alot BUT no one else does? ?

What do i do?? LOST AND CONFUSED?

sincerely: MMR

Even though others don't like her in your school..you should still stand up for her if she's your best friend like you say she is. I wouldn't worry what others say. All that matters is what you think, not what they think about her.

Hope this helped.

Good luck :)

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