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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back?

I've had that happen to me many times. Don't like me all over him and all flirty with him if he doesn't like you (believe me that makes um hate you more) just be cool around him and yall be friends. Try to start looking at other guys and it's ok to secretly still care about the other dude (you'll think you won't care anymore but then you'll relize you still do). After some time of you not being all flirty flirty with him maybe he'll come around.

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--blake

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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!

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A cry for help

Yes sweety it does sound like you have an eating disorder. You are not fat and it sounds like your too skinny. Go a few days with eating whatever you want and just enjoy it and what ever you do don't throw it up. I know that eating disorders are hard to over come but if you just make yourself believe that what you eat won't hurt you or make you gain weight then maybe you'll be able to keep some food down. I over came it and so can you.

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--blake

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Well, I'm 12 years old and 5'3, I'm only 100 pounds but i look fat, people ask me how much I weigh and I say around 100 and they don't believe me, they think I weight more than that. This really ticks me off so I was wondering if I should loose weight and look thinner or what

I'm 5'3 and weight 130..i'm not fat though. Different ppl carry their wieght differently. Also is most of your mass fat or musscle? Se Muscle weight twice as much as fat so if you have no muscle and only fat then ya your gonna look fat. Just take out simple carbs, lower your proportion size, and exercise. Try to get your fat off becasue 1. it's not healthy 2. it make you lazy 3. you'll die early 4. if you have body fat know then you'll have it alot worste as an adult

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--blake

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ok i'm really short like 5'0 and I think I'm over really weight I'm about 125-130:-/ and I want to get myself bad into shape. Do you think I'm honestly over weight? Can you tell me some workouts that can help me?

I'm swimming alot now and getting back into doing a lot of crunches every day. But I need more to do. Plus I'm trying not to eat junk food and eat health (fruits, salads, some veggies) although I don't do good with veggies I don't really like them what do I do in that case?

I have your same problem except i'm 5'3 and 130. I don't consider myself fat, and your shouldn't either, we're just a lil chunky :)!! If you really wanna get rid of it for convedence or health or w/e then just do a 30 min cadio daily (maybe take one day off a week) and do 30 ta 50 sit ups and do leg lifts for a little while and then curls. Don't eat simple carbs and don't eat alot of fruits (lots of sugar)..try to make yourself eat some veges..don't eat big proprotions

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--blake

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Has anyone here gotten there tonsils out? If so, what's the best food to eat other than ice cream? I just got mine out 2 days ago and nothing tastes good and I'm in pain -__-||

jello..pudding..milkshakes

nothing hard, chunky, or salty

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--blake

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well I know everyone is diffrent but i just wanted to know what the average size for a 12 year olds boobs to be i wear a 34b is that bigger than normal are what???

That's probably above average..i guess mine where about your size (maybe a little bit bigger) when I was your age. But I say that's above average because even at my age there's still a bunch of flat chested girls.

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--blake

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anyone kno where i can get cute but cheap bikinis? like any store like walmart 2 the mall? thx, muah! erin

wal*mart, target (do'nt go to k*Mart..theirs are crap) and also those lil beach shops at your beach are usually pretty cheap.

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--blake

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Hey do u think that u should show off your bra straps or maybe even more

if your wearing a shirt that shows um then w/e that's fine and you can show as much of your bra you won't but like don't move your strapps around on purpose so that ppl can see um that just looks stupid to me.

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--blake

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I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )

- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ?

none.. get highlights or reddish steeks if you choose to get it..natural is better.

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--blake

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AWWWWWW.. your welcome sweety..your a pretty cool guy also. hugs for Zach..lol

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--Jeni, JB, or BLAKE (BLAKE BLAKE BLAKE BLAKE)

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why do girls wear bra and thongs all they seem to do in my appen is make girls and their moms spend money

we wear bra to keep our boobs nice and firm and preky, also to keep them from moving while we're running or walking(believe me that's agravating), and to keep our nipples from showing. We wear thongs to aviod underwear lines with certain clothes and they're more comfortable than regualar underwear and last but not least to impress the fellows! ;)

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--blake

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hey i was just wondering do guys prefer straight hair or do they like curly/wavy hair? also which one do u think is "in".

thxxxxxx

I think both of them is 'in'. I was talking to a guy one time who said that he didn't really like scrunched hair and I was also talking to one that said he preferded it one me because of the shape of my head. So just go nautual is what I say. A true man will love you for your and not your hair..just make sure it looks good either way.

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--blake

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well i used to be a awesome writier then all the sudden im gettin 0 on my paper tell me ways to help my writing

just get together a bunch of time and start writing about nothing and don't stop and all off a sudden you'd be amazed at what you've got. Don't try too hard because that kind of writing is boring and bad!

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--blake

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hey anyone kno how i can post being a columnist with the whole rating thing and everything about myself..i have a column but idk how to post it etc. thanks

click get advice and then just type in your question..(it's at the top of your screen)

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--blake

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How do you get ur hair to look wavey and a little curly with gel or other products...when I try it with gel it just makes spiral curls and I don't like it!! =/

put moose in your hair and either hot roll or use a curling iron..Your not gonna get anything but spiral curls when you use gel and scrunch it.

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-blake

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ne one kno ne really cool but diff. sites i could go on? im wicked bored

i go to pam anderson's site or playboy or any of my favorite artist or band sites. go to www.google.com and type in your key word.

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--blake

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ok ive never been kissed before and all my friends have been kissed and i was at a party a while ago and we were play truth or dare but only truth cuz there wasnt any guyz or w/e but then like it came to me and they asked who my first kiss was w/ and i said ive never been kissed and they all laughed and i felt sooo stupid i just wanted to leave cuz i was so embarassed and i know im not pritty n stuff so i know i wont get my first kiss for a while but im just sooooo scared tho to i dont know its just like i was up north and this one guy ((ive known him for a while)) and we havent seen eachother for a while and we talked to catch up on stuff and he said he liked me again and then he started asking me about kissing and stuff and i kinda turned him down but now i totally regret that cuz i rilly like him to and its just every time some guy wants to kiss me im afraid i dont know why i am its just i feel stupid when ive never kissed a guy.. how can i not be afraid and just kiss the right guy? help pleeeeez!! thanx!

well don't worry about it just move your tongue with his there's no right or wrong way to do it so just go for it. As far as the right guy knows..you'll know when it is. I can't explain the feeling but trust me you'll know. Hop e I helped. (you can IM me and we can talk more pAlMeTo SuGaNeSs)

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--blake

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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ?

go up to her and talk to her. Tell her that you think she's pretty and that she's cool or something like that. Then ask her if she wants to hang out sometime..good luck

PS-if your scared just pretend your not

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--blake

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Dear Blake,
I am dating this guy named Max. We have been going out for about a year and a half now, and unfortunately all I can do is nag him and follow him around. I really don't know how to stop. All my friends hate me now, because I am shitty to them. They refuse to answer my calls, unless I'm having people over to drink. I also had sex with my boobs once. Is this wrong?
-Sara

Sounds like your gettin a little to comfortable around Max and your changeing. Try to be your old self and don't act stupid or mean. just be cool with you and everything around you. And if your friends are still acting like that just ignore them..they'll come back.

no is not wrong to have sex with your boobs.

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--blake

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Hey blake ive got a big problem.
I have this friend ill just use his initials j e And he seems to be obsessed with a girl who ill call j b for her initials.
HE stopped being a friend and does nothing but talk about j b. I swear hes obsessed with her. The creepy thing is that he told me that sometimes he follows her home from school just to watch her. He talks about his undying love for j b. It gets annoying and i know its just a crush but ive never seen him so serious well i just want some advice on what to do

OMG is it me!!.. my initials are JB!!

n e ways tell him that you wanna have a 'boys night out' or something like that and tell him that it's not about any girls and that yall just wanna have some fun with out bringing up JB. But don't be mean about it. And do that everynow and then so that yall gave keep a good friendship going.

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--blake

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