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okay... well everything keeps happening one after the other. like if im in a fight with one friend then im not then i get in a fight with another friend. like they get mad at me or were just not as close as normal stuff like that keeps happening. like im trying to clean out my computer of stuff i dont want on it or need any more so i dont have that much stuff then i end ^ finding sumthing i want in the computer the next day. i think thats how you end ^ getting disorganized but i try as hard as i can not to but it ends ^ that stuff happening. i really dont like being disorganized! i dk does this happen to other ppl? i kno its kinda confusing.

your right, its a bit confusing. Its ok, some people need to be organized and thats ok. Try not to stress on it tooo much though. Maybe set aside an amount of time every day to "organize yourself"

if this wasnt what you were asking for..write to me personally and i`ll answer your question.

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I feel that my father is cheating on my mother. There are some obvious signs, and I'm not sure on whether or not I should confront him about it. (I'm thirteen.)

1) There have been small pieces of paper in front of the family computer with porno sites on them.

2) I have seen porno links on the computer's history.

3) At strange times of the day, his 'work' cellphone rings, and on the phone's interface it reads 'private call.'

4) I went onto the computer one day, seeing that a Singles website was completely filled out with my father's information.

My feelings are mixed--it could all just be a coincidence, and if it isn't, should I confront him about it or would I just be getting in the way? Please help me guys.

xoxoxox,
Constantly Confused

aww...I feel for you sweatheart. Well these signs are pointing in the wrong direction. It looks like something might be up. You have a few options

1. You can either confront him, explain how you feel, and ask for an explanation

2. You can ignore it (personally i wouldnt chose this

3. You can sit your mom and dad down and talk about it


4. You can tell your mom..and let the rest happen.

I dont think this is good..i think you should talk with your mom and dad. Maybe they can go for marriage counseling (its ok my parents went and it worked good!)

Its up to you...good luck dear

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mi name is ashlee and i am 14 years oldi have been noeing this grl katie for a long tyme...like a year...like i love her to death but i juss seems like she wants everything from me....recently, she went out with this guy cory..an well her mom woulndt let her go out with him....so like one day i was talking to him online and we were juss fliring and he asked me put..i was honest enough to tell the chick...and she was like well "no im fone im happy for u 2" so i was like...YAY! well 2 weeks i found out tht she had called cory and like sed all theses bad things about me....im styll mad..but itz like not the same between us...i love cory so damn much and it juss seems like she wantz sumthing from me....she has all of mi friendz sinces she was the newkid in town.... and on topp of that she lied to me 2 more tymes after she sed she was srry...i mean this chick thinks she kan fool evrybody...idk...i havent known her all thtb long but i noe her enough to tell wen she is lieng...now...everyone thinks this grl is miss perfect lil angel..and she is so decitfull am i wrong?

dont let a guy get inbetween your friendship! It sounds like this girl likes cory still and its normal for her to be feeling angry at you. Maybe try talking to her about how you feel. Explain to her that you don`t want to lose your friendship over a guy. Maybe she`ll agree and you`ll keep your bf and your best friend

hope i helped

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well i like this guya nd i thought he liked me and everyone thought he liked me and we were flirtyin like all night and the next day but now i cant ell cuz we havent hanged out and stuff.............what do i do how can i find out if he likes me ((with out havein to like ask him cuz that might make him feellike he has to like meor something))

PlEasE hElp?!?!?
Sara

hmm..maybe you can get brave and call the guy up? If you both were flirting then im sure he would love to hear from you. Its not like he`ll say "i dont want to talk to you" lol..well call him and ask if he wants to hang out sometime..make the first move! trust me it will pay off :)

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Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them?

i'm extremely sorry you have to go through this..i went through a similar thing..(im 5'3 and 195 lbs) The key is simply this : you must build up confidince and LOVE YOURSELF! I learned to simply forget about the losers who laugh and stare at you. If you want..you could confront them. Maybe after doing that, they`ll stop. If not..find a group who likes you for you and ignore those who point and laugh

hope i helped !

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