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There are three stories that I wanted to get an opinion on. In addition I have asked one question for each story to guide you in answering. Thanks. Please e-mail me at debbiefein@aol.com with your answers. Thanks I really appreciate it.
FIRST STORY: The two characters are Ramona and the store clerk. (Keep in
mind that Ramona has been in the
store a total of five times spread out throughout the year and when this
incident happened she was wearing a coat
and standing behind a partition so all the clerk could see was her neck and
face. Keep in mind Ramona is always
told she is thin/skinny and cannot weigh more than 110 pounds.
Ramona: How much should I take of this herb?"
Clerk "Most women should weigh a 160 you weigh a little less, so you can
take a little less" (He wasn't looking at her when he said this)
Ramona: What do you think I weigh"
Clerk: "130"
Ramona" You don't know what I look like"
Clerk: "I see you come in here (But every time Ramona comes in she runs
around the store, pays and leaves and she has been in the store a total of five
times spread out over a year)
MY QUESTION: Ramona's friends told Ramona that there isn't any way the clerk
could know what Ramona looks like weight and size wise due to the fact she was
standing behind a partition and all the clerk could see was Ramona's neck and
face and she was wearing a coat and he has seen her a total of five times
spread out over a year. Do you agree with them?
THE SECOND STORY: I overheard this conversation at a diner. I am making up
the names due to the fact that I don't know their names and it is easier to
tell the story.
Mary: "Rene what size do you take"
Rene: "I am a size 8"
Mary: "I thought you were an 8, but I could not remember if you said size 8
or 10?"
MY QUESTION: From this conversation would you think that all Mary was doing
was asking Rene what size she is and in addition Mary was confirming she
thought Rene was a size 8.
THIRD STORY: Also this is a story between Sharon (who is chunky) and Clair.
Sharon mentioned excerise to Clair as they parted company. Clair confronted
Sharon and Sharon said it is about the heart, Clair said do you think I am
thin, Sharon said Clair you are proportioned (average). Sharon paused and added
in you are a size 8 (added in size 10), Sharon said I think Sheela is a size
8/10. (Keep in mind Sheela is very thin). When Denise passed by Sharon called
Denise in and asked Denise what size she takes. and Denise said six and asked
why she was being asked, and Sharon said because Clair thinks I think she is
heavy. Clair told her co-workers the story, and the co-workers told her she is
thin/skinny, size 4 and cannot weigh more than 105 pounds. Over the weekend
five more people told
Clair she is skinny. Sharon did tell Clair during the course of the
conversation that Sharon doesn't know Clair well enough to joke with her.
MY QUESTION: Do you agree with Clairs friends that Clair should go by Clairs
co-workers and relatives that said Clair is thin/skinny and size 4 and cannot
weigh more than 105 pounds and Sharon thinks Clair and Denise look alike size
wise because Sharon said Denise I am asking because Clair thinks I think she
is heavy. Do you agree and why did you answer the way you answered? (link)
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woah that was confusing but im not really sure why your asking me these questions but ill answer then anyways so here we go 1. yes i do agree with ramona friends because it is a fact that the clerk could not see ramona fully 2. yes, i would think that all mary was doing was asking renes size but i think that she may have also been confirming or trying to tell rene that she was infact a size 8 3. no, i dont agree that she should listen to her co-workers sorry if i couldnt help much but i tried but i also didnt understand why you were asking me this question and im sorry i cant e-mail you my e-mail is down right nwo
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My friend got a new puppy. Its a Yorkshire Terrier and its brown and black. Its a boy and she really needs help thinking of a name for it. Can some one please help! I rate high! Thanks! (link)
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heyy .. i have three chiwawas and my nana has one too there names are tido,logan,tyson, and romeo those are some cute names and i actually know someone with a tan yorkshire terrior and they named it dunkin thats also cute but if you want more names then search google and type in dog names and find a website thats where i came up with most of my dogs names
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ok so I have this friend who I can't stand. (she isn't really my friend) She is so screwed up and I can't stand her. 1. She is a patheloical lier and 2. She snjoys screwing peoples lives up. So anyway my best friend recently started dating her and I can't fiure out why. She's mean, ugly, dramatic and really hurts people. No one likes her. So we were at a concert and he had his arm around me and I turn around and he was making out with her! How do I tell him how I feel about their relationship? Thanks. 14/f (link)
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heyy .. this sounds to me like your jealous of her and so isnt evreyone else so the best advice is to get over yourself and face the matter that your friend goes out with her and because you say she is mean then the break up for them wil probably be coming soon if what you said is right sorry if its not exactly what you wanted to hear
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my name is julie and i really want a new sn because my old one is hyper with numbers and i just want a nice one (i already have sweetjewel with numbers) please help me out, i have an open mind and just kno that i like the number 30907 but i dont really care (link)
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heyy .. uhh a cute screen name to have would be SWEEtBABYJEWL x3 or SWEEtBABYJULiE x3 or if you really want a s/n with the word illusions then try MYSTiC iLLUSiONS 30907
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ok... so... i had 4 out of 5 stars next to my advice column a few days ago and now they're gone.. what does that mean? like there's no stars at all.
thanx
aeromonkey
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heyy .. your rating just dropped thats all so just get back on the site more often and answer alot of questions to get your stars back
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ok... so i've liked this guy for like 2 years. he is one of my bff's and his sister is too. I don't know if I like him anymore, but i think i might like this guy in my class. We talk alot and anyway... the other night.. our youth leader was giving us a devotion on waiting for the right guy/ knowing he's the one and i know im too young, but which one do I love? That night I had a dream about i got married to My bffs brother and then the guy in my class was all "I love you" after I married the one guy and I started to cry because i felt bad... what does this mean? Which one do I like? (link)
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heyy .. uhh i really cant tell you who to love/like you kinda have to decide that but anyways if i was to choose i would pick the guy you have liked for two years because it seemed like you have liked him alot and for quite some time so i guess stick with him
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I need help. When I get around people I never know what to do. It dosen't have to be a big group just one or two people but for some reason when I'm around them I just freeze. If they try to talk to me I just stare at them or walk away. It's getting really bad because now my friends are getting mad at me becasue of this. What can I do to get over being shy. (link)
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heyy .. my friend has the same problem and what he does is just talk online to people and try to build up confidence and have something to talk about online and then the next day in school you still have something to talk about sorry if i didnt help that much
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what do spanish people eat for breakfast? like what is it called in spanish and also in english..and same for dinner..i need to know. pleasee....thanks (link)
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heyy .. umm im not spanish so i wouldnt know to much about spanish food but i have alot of friends that are spanish and i have been over to there homes many times and they add alot of spicy and hot things to there food so i guess you could just try adding some spicy and hot things to the types of food that other people say
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Does anyone know how i can get a social worker in the uk? (link)
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heyy .. umm i really dont know what to tell you except to look in the yellow pages the only other thing to do would be to ask your parents to help you like someone else said but yoou could have your parents watch your daughter instead of him that might help or report him to the police for whatever he is doing to her
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Okay this is really effed up and totally embarrasing but last night i had a dream. Im a 15 year old girl and it was about me and my father. We had just married or something and we were both in my room together..okay..and so i took everything iff except my underwear and he was fully clothes and he was laying on top of me and i was really horny but he didnt take off my underwear and then all he did was kiss me on my lips like you know a dad would usually do if he was going to work or something, anyways and in my dream all he did was tell me that he loves me. I'm really grossed out and scared and i dont know wehat to do, and i dont ever wanna go to sleep again because im afraid il get another dream! Plz help! (link)
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heyy .. sometimes dreams can just be thoughts that you were having before you feel asleep im not saying that the dream you had was what you were thinking but you went asleep alls i am saying is that maybe you were sort of scared of your dad before you feel asleep and thats why you had this dream but anyways what i think you should do is talk it out with your dad and tell him about it it may be uncomfortable but its the right choice to make but if you really dont want to talk about it with him then just buy a dream interptitation book
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I have no idea where I want to go to college. I have an idea of what I want to do but where do I go? Scholarships would be nice. I've been looking but I think I'm just really lost now. What should I do? (link)
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heyy .. umm colleges in california are nice you should look into some there or florida has nice colleges too
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i have an iPod shuffle and an iRiver (n10-103). i have to let go of one...
the iRiver has 8 hours of music
the iPod shuffle fits 120 songs (assuming each songs was about four minutes, that's 8 hours of music)...but i heard that the 8 hours of music thing was a lie (?!!)
the iRiver is black
the iPod shuffle is white
the iRiver costs more
the iRiver has an LCD screen, radio, and supports voice recording
they're both flash mp3 players
which one should i keep?
*i'm kind of leaning towards the iRiver, but my brother has an iPod and keeps on singing its praises.
i also think (against my will) that i'm also being a bit swayed by iPod's marketing... the iPod has a reputation, and apple is famous...
also... i live in korea, where EVERYONE has the iriver n10...and it's fricking annoying. i'd like a more unique-looking mp3 player...but it's a pity that with the ipod shuffle you can't view songtitles.. :( (link)
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heyy .. keep the ipod its better then then iriver because everyone has the iriver where you live and if you want a better look then chose the ipod
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This morning, I woke up and I noticed there was a tiny white dot/ball on my upper eyelid. It kind of hurts when I move my eye. Does anyone know what it is and how it got there? How do I get rid of it? (link)
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heyy .. i think its sty you got it from using too much make-up or something like that and to remove it just get some hot water and a wash cloth and put it on there and if that doesnt work get a doctor to help
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My daughter is 15 months old. She's off her bottle now, but I can't seem to get her off of her pacifier. Does anyone have ideas to get her off her pacifier?
I wouldn't mind her keeping it, except that it is starting to pull her teeth forward. (link)
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heyy .. just try to find another chewing thing or toy that is little enough for her to handle
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Is it true that if you own a mitsubishi, eclipse and your short its hard to see through the rear-view mirror because the seats are so low, and its hard to look through the back glass because the seats are so low? (link)
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heyy .. thats is so not true my mom has one and she is 4`11 she can see find all she does if just adjust the mirror
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... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do
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heyy .. the best thing to do is break up with him no matter how much it hurts you need to he should not be abbusing you like this
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Ok, so my ex and I broke up and I really want him back but my cousin said he was cheating on me. But I trust him. but even if we did get back together I wouldn't be able to see him until sometime after june cuz we got in trouble. And his sister that i go to school with said hes been cutting his arm cuz hes not happy. So if hes not happy and hes not mad at me should I ask him back out and what would he say (link)
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heyy .. just ask him why he is sad and then ask him out if you like him
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What are some things I can do for my boyfriend to make our relationship better, to help what is already there to get better (link)
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heyy .. just reat him good and make him feel loved maybe cook for him also talk more often
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I have had my heart broken alot. Since my ex (which was ended about 9 months or more ago) I still haven't moved on. Now I have someone I really like that likes me. I want to be with him I am just scared I will be hurt again.. Should I trust him?
He is a wonderful guy and really gorgeous. I am just afraid to give my heart to someone again and then it be handed back broken. (link)
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heyy .. yea go for but just tell him that if you go out with him that you do not want him to break your heart and if your hear around that he is going to break up with you then just dump him 1st so it doesnt look lie you care sorry if this advice wasnt good
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I am very good friends with this guy and have been interested in him for a while. Last summer he started watching me and other people would tell me that he was doing this it has progressed to a mutual flirting as well he has told me that if anyone would notice what I wear it would be him. He told to call him if I need anything or ever just want to talk and has told me that he would be offended if I needed help and didnt ask him because he wants to be there for me. He gets upset if he feels people misuse me or if they make comments that arent called for. Does he like me and if so why hasnt he asked me out?
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heyy .. he totally likes you but he is just too shy to ask you out and if you like him ask a friend of yours to tell him that you like him and too ask you out
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