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I have awesome friends theres a group of us made up of girls and guys and we joke around about everything and you know the deal with friends thats just us... but in the group theres one girl who everyone likes or would go out with in a second i mean i love her to death too but i mean i dont see any difference between her and the rest of us, i mean she plays sports but so do the rest of us and were all kind of alike and we all have our different "fallbacks" if you know what i mean. i just dont understand. why is it like this?

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Haha... I know EXACTLY what you mean, we have a group just like that at our school.

I know it may seem unfair that this girl gets all the attention, but it won't stay this way forever. There's always a "flavor of the moment": As people mature, their tastes will change. So maybe right NOW this girl is constantly being hit on, but that's only because the guys currently have interest with her. I'll bet you that come September, all of the tastes and interests will have changed and they'll move on. I wouldn't worry about it... If it's a huge problem, perhaps you could talk to her? That's my best advice.


My friends always tell me im pretty and that im the skinniest out of all of us whenever i say im fat or that im ugly or hate my hair and things like that and i dont know if they are doing this to make me feel better or not? what do you think? (link)
What possible reason would your friend have to lie to you? If they really thought you were ugly or fat or any of that crap, they'd just be quiet about it. They wouldn't shower you with false praise. Trust your friends: It's why there your friends in the first place. In general, it's a good idea to just say thank you and take a compliment when ever you get it. As that other person says, it's REALLY, REALLY annoying to be with a person who just can't accept that they have good qualities. Be proud of yourself!


ok so a few days ago i caught my almost 16 yr old brother looking at porn on the internet...and he caught me spying on him. and i promised to him i wouldnt tell cuz god only knows what my parents would do... so idk what to do like is this normal .. it probably is but what should i do its just kinda freaky ....
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Sbloemeke's got the right idea. Keep his secret safe, but you might want to talk to him about it. Ask him why he does, if he thinks he's addicted, stuffs like that. It also may depend on the porn... If it's regular stuff (naked women, people having sex, etc.) then it's not much to worry about. But if he's developing a fetish for things like bondage or lesbian porn, then there's a decent chance he'll get addicted.


In school i have to pick a historical figure and based on their backround write about when I think they think people become adults. I picked Martin Luther king jr. anf i have no idea what to write about please help! (link)
MLK grew up witnessing segregation and racism all around him. He lived in a world where blacks were treated like scum, and he hated it through his childhood. Through his early years, he just sat there... It was when he decided to do something about these terrible conditions that he became an adult. He was taking action on a problem that had been affecting him and his people for decades.


i know what masturbating is, but how do you describe it. my little sister asked me what it was, and i didnt know like how you say, so i just said i dont know! (link)
It depends how old she is. Assuming she's 8 or above, tell her it's a way people make themselves feel like they're having sex without actually having it. Below that age... You might just want to make something up ;-). That's not info she needs yet.




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