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alright, well, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year, and weve done sexual stuff except for all the way because I know Im not ready, the thing is, HE does everything to ME, i wanna give him back something but i always get so nervous and don't know where to start! i wanna start with something just like a handjob... so if you have any advice on how to start it out and what exactly to do and how to not be nervous.. please help!!
Well you sound right about you needing to do something to him, especially if hes always giving you the pleasure..it used to be that way with my boyfriend until one time he just stuck my hand in his pants and i went from there..i was very nervous but your boyfriend wont know b/c he'll be too busy enjoying it. the best thing to do is while yall are making out, unbuckle his pants and stick your hand in OR you can ask him if he wants a hand job. its better if you spit in your hand or put lotion in it and just slide your hand up and down, lightly squeezing... concentrating on the head more than the shaft.. good luck!!
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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
Thanks
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HeAtHeR!!
i got a few q's
1) how do u giv head
2) do u close ur eyes wen u r
3) what if he doesnt cum
4) when he is cuming what do u do?
Those are some pretty serious questions. One you better be ready to have some serious concequences, STD's. And another thing, are you old enough and mature enough to handle it?
1. Concentrate on the head, the very end of the penis. It feels better there. Dont ever try to stick the whole thing in your mouth, thats highly unromantic. Dont actually suck his penis, move it back and forth in your mouth. Kiss it and lick it. It feels great to them!
2.I dont close my eyes, but its your prefrence. Ask him what he wants you to do, and what you like.
3. Most likely, if hes enjoying it after a few minutes he will cum. If he doesnt and you stop, it will give him something called blue balls, which REALLY hurts guys balls. It happens when the sperm doesnt come out and it hurts them to walk and move!
4. Talk to him about what he wants and what you want to do. When I give head, I dont swallow. I never have. But maybe you want to or he wants you to.
Talk about it with whomever you give head to. And remember, be VERY careful!
Hope I helped!!
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My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do?
WoW! What a friend you have there. Your "best friend" and ex boyfriend dont deserve you at all! What best friend would EVER go behind her friends back and take her ex-boyfriend! I would understand if it was months later and she told you herself, but when she hides it from you and its only a day later.. thats a terrible friend! You need to tell her calmy that it hurt your feelings and you shouldnt be friends anymore. It's for the best! Good Luck!!
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well me and my friends want to earn money but nothing seems to work that great (and our moms wont let us baby sit)!!!!!!
we have tried:
-car wash
-doing work around the house
thanx bunches,
need money
A few summers ago, my best friend and I sold lemonade, ice tea, cookies, and water right next to a golf course so whenever thirsty golfers drove by, they always stopped! We made almost a 100 bucks a day! Thats a great way to make money! Also, clean out your rooms and have a garage sale! I suggest nothing on Ebay because it costs money to put it up then to send it to whoever purchases it! Thats spending money more than making it! Good Luck!!
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I don't have alot of friends because everyone thinks that I'm gay. Please help me out
If they think you are gay because the way you act, thats their problem. They need to accept you for you. I dont have many friends either because I'm the kind of person who always gets mad and jealous, but I love the few friends that I do have and I never fight with! Quality is SO much better than quantity! So if you have a few great best friends, thats awesome!! Good luck sweetie!
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today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!
thanx,
~*RiSs*~
OmG hUn! Don't you dare stay with that jerk!! If you have a boyfriend that you love, he should treat you like the princess you are and with respect. If he doesnt, then he doesnt deserve you at all! If you break up with him, over time you will get over him and I know it will be hard but its really something you need to do! There's gunna be times when you want him back and when he wants you back, but if you stay strong and keep your pride, you will make it through it! Dont give up, I know you can live without that stupid boy, there are SOOOO many more fish in the sea! Good luck!
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HeAtHeR!!