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heyy..this is vballbabe021...i made a new username, in fact a ton of new usernames lol. it's a long story why. i love to give advice so feel free to ask me whatever you want, whether it's friends, family, boys (i get those a lot haha), school, fashion, whateverr. you can also IM me at sappyacorn2 or email me if you want to. it don't care either way lol. if you add me as a friend, make sure to tell me so i'll add you back!! kk that's all i have to say?? thanks for coming ♥

advice

why dont you every write me back with answers?!!?!?!if you dont i am going to give u bad ratings!!!!!!

OMFG EMAIL ME THEN
i'm gonna switch back to vballbabe021 anyway so i'm not gonna answer questions really..
if you want something then IM me or email alrighttt? afraid of direct contact or something like that??
okkkkkkkkkk hope this clarifies!! ♥

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I got my period like a month ago but it never came back

well it's always going to be different..if you just started it it can come back months later..it tends to be pretty irregular. don't worry about it it never comes the exact date it's supposed to come!!! it'll porobably come soon tho =/ hope this helps

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um..my friend well i IMEd her and she said im not talking to u and i think she is mad at me,do you think she is and we've been friends since pre school and im reallly sadddddd:-(what shoulkd i do to make her forgive me for whatever i did
thanks
=,(

that's kind of odd...you need to find out why she's mad at you in the first place. think about it, have you done anything that would've offended her recently?? she's been your friend forever and she can't just get mad at you for no reason right? if you can't figure it out, ask her why she's mad at you. she sure acts like she is. if she says "i'm not talking to you" or something thne it probably does mean she's mad at you =/ but maybe it came out wrong or something and she was really just busy or she wasn't *supposed* to talk to you because she was grounded or who knows what? call her, IM her, email her, ask her at school why she's mad at you because she's been kind of ignoring you lately. you can't really do anything until you figure it out. but just be nice and stuff, talk to her about it, make sure she knows that you're always there for her, etc... don't become majorly pissed off and all because that'll just make things worse. hope this helps!! good luck! ♥




Yeah i said that!**&& She was never mad at me it was her friends :]

and i asked her friends why they did that and they said It was because they were busy :]


WEll thanks any wayes


Sorry i did that for no reason



But now im happy that me and my friends are bffl




Fites come and go

thanks happy almost halloween♥♥♥♥♥♥

lol glad it worked out haha :] yeahh that is sooo true fights to come and go...kinda unfortunate in a way =/ happy halloween too!! :) ♥

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I have asked you 2 times on advice on a new screen name.. about 3 weeks ago.. are you skipping me or somehting? .. i try talking to you online n you ignore me all the time??????? =( please answer meeee!!!

hmmm??? oh i'm sorry!! IM me again..=/ if i dont respond start screaming at me in all caps and a billion exclamation marks lol..so that i'll definitely noticed :]

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Hey,you dont know me, but your advice column thing is awesome. Keep up the nice work. =) I wish I could do one of these things. I definetly couldn't. I wish haha. Alright. Bye.

xoxo -- Lauren «3

lol thanks :) i think i may go back to vballbabe021 idk... of course you could do it too... haha. if you do feel free to add me :] kk byee ♥

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this is the girl that called you a bitch, im sorry. i was just made that you answered like everyone elses but mine. but it's okay :-).

oh it's fine :) i didn't answer everyone elses tho lol..i didn't have enough time =/ so sorry for everyone but once again just like email me or something. but yeahh i'll try to answer more tho..

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heeey how do you get rid of cellulite?

i rate 5's.

wahh.

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okay so theres this boy and i really think i got a good one finally, but he goes to a different school and its really hard to always find ways to see each other.. i mean its good too because my friend likes his friend soo we can all like go together and stuff.. but what else can we do besides go to the movies and like walk around each others towns ?? ohh and my mommy met him today and totally approves !! =)

yay that's good :) are you asking what else you can do with him when you hang out? sorry if i answer this the wrong way =/...


because it's near halloween, there's going to be all these haunted houses and stuff :) you should totaly go there because then you'll like have an excuse to hold on to him lol. plus they're reallyyyyy fun unless you go to a crappy one
each other's houses.
swimming
walks in the park?
play sports together
shop :D haha
amusement parks
if you have snow there..try skiing or snowboarding or w/e with him
dine :) guys loveeee food!
go on vacation with him? i'm sure you'll find tons to do
if you live near a beach...
make films together..take funny pics..you know taht stuff
ok hoep this helps!!

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hi i already asked you this question, but you never answered me? =( What is a good idea for 14 year old girls for like a group thing, that isnt corny and a bit on the sluty side?

sorry =/ i'll answer it now tho!! well you could kind of go like a bunny, cat, and mouse lol like they did in mean girls..just not as slutty i guess? but some sort of animal use..? you could all be like exotic dancers or go-go girls from like the 80s or w/e. you could also all be models, like some of you could be swimsuit models, while others could be like dress models or something? or all movie stars of different types. orrrrrrrr like queen of hearts, stars, etc.. haha nvm that's kind of corny. just be creative :) i'm sure you can think of something! or you could also just be completely different things...that'll add more variety! or one of you could be like a prep, then rocker, and goth, and punk, and geek, etc.. you know? well hope this helps!! :)

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Y0UR A REAL BiTCH !! i ASKED Y0U LiKE 4 QUESTiONS !! Y0U DiDNT ANSWER 0NE OF THEM !! =[

omg if you really really want something ,IM me at sappyacorn2 or email me at crazygirl75@myway.com because i'm not able to answer all the questions here because i get like 20 a day... plus this thing is getting messed up because some people say they ask me something and i never got it =/ so i may not have even gotten yours... if you email me i'll guarantee i'll answer it :) sorry again about all this =/ but like i have a tonnnnnnnnn of homework and i'm so busy these days!

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i am 12. i am 74 pounds, i am a female.


am i underweight?


xoxo
jennifer

well it depends on how tall you are? but that is pretty light but i know people who would kill to be that weight lol. i can't really say unless you tell me how tall you are. but if you're like almost 5 foot or taller, thne that is underweight sadly =/ just like eat more and drink more milk :D hope this helps!!

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there's this guy in my school who is abbslutely gorgious but i dont have any classes with him or anything & he probally doesn't even know i egzist so how do i get him to notice me? none of my friends know him or anything but i think he always walks home from school so i think im gunna try to walk home with a few friends, does that sound stalcker-ish? and what elce should i do?

well you like him so you should just try to get to know him. make sure he actually walks home from school in the first place lol, you don't want to randomely walk home for no reason. thne yeah you could walk home with him with a few friends, but maybe you could walk home by yourself so there's a *reason* you could talk to him instead of just your friends, you know? i think you should at least try, both ways maybe? and you could sit wiht him at lunch with a few friends, or whenever you see him just make an excuse to talk to him like "do you have mrs. jones?" or something lol. thne ask him for the homework and start a conversation. at least try, and no you're not stalker-ish tons of girls do stuff like this all the time!!!!! just don't like save his used kleenexes and stuff..then that just gets a bit creepy haha. anyways hope this helps!! :]

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hi,
okay, the place that my dad works at got sold so he has to find another job. he started his own company and its going okay... i used to be pretty wealthy and now i cant buy as much stuff untill his business starts going again and its veryyy hardd!!!! idk what to do because like idk how it feels to be ''average''. what do it do?

well don't buy as much stuff anymore, like expensive things. don't buy like louis vuitton purses and stuff (if you used to) and stick to just normal $15 purses or something? try not to buy something unless you absolutely love or need it.. because your dad is in kind of a tight spot right now so you should be supportive for him. he is your dad after all. if the business goes very well, he could become extremely wealthy. you never know. and now you know how it feels to be in the "norm". there's tons of poor kids in third world countries that can hardly even afford food, so you're extremely blessed even if you can't buy as much stuff anymore. your dad raised you and bought you lots of things, just do this for him. i know it can be hard because you're used to buying lots of stuff but now you can't as much. don't be mad at him it's not his fault his old workplace got sold. hope this helps!!

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Okay well im really bored because were i am its rainy and all yucky
What should i do if i bored
I will rate a 5!
But like what should i do around the house or on the computer
like what kind of internet sites with fun games
or sumthing around the house??
please anser this IM GONNA EXPLODE

interneet stuff:
www.launch.com music videos
www.addictinggames.com and www.miniclip.com computer games
make a xanga, advicenators, myspace, etc..
www.disneychannel.com or www.nickelodeon.com haha
www.mtv.com
magazine sites like www.seventeen.com and www.cosmogirl.com they have lots to do there
talk to me :]
shop online..www.ebay.com lol
www.yahoo.com/games i'd recommend literati!!
www.funnyjunk.com hilarious
www.ebaumsworld.com also hilarious
i'm sure you can think of more :)


to do at home:
take pics of yourself
phone
give yourself manicure, pedicure, facials, etc..
redo your room
homework lol
read
draw
makeover?
write something
walk outside
exercise
swim in your pool or jump on trampoline
do your hair & stuff
watch tv
dance
listen to music
read magazines
crossword puzzles :D
take a long long long bubble bath
fashion show?
sleep
play with your dog or something
tonssssssssss more!!


hope this helps:]

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:-( i am so depressed because of my friend
we've known eachother for so long
UGH please help
what should i do to make her forgive me
but i dont know what i did
i did nothing
she was all being a bitch to me (no efense)
i just wanna kill her im so sad
i have tears in my eyes
we always hanged out and we were best friends like two days ago
im so sad
im crying i swear
please help
:,-(

she won't say why she's mad at you? think back, did you do or say ANYTHING, anything at all that could've offended her. then ask her if that's it and apologize... if she still won't forgive you and is being a bitch about it and you don't even know why she's mad at you, then just try to avoid her for a while. get new friends, hang out wiht them more. if she won't tell you, either you did something absolutely horrible or she's just a bitch.. honestly friends don't do that to each other. she can't do this to you.. avoid her for a while and see if she does anything about it. if not, then i'd try to forget about her. would you ever do that to your best friend? i wouldn't, and i'm sure most people probably wouldn't either. if she's like this to you, she may just keep on hurting you in the friendship if you continue. tell me how it goes k? hope thsi helps...=/ good luck!!!!!!

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ok. people are like "don't have sex before marriage. STDs will kill you blah blah blah." but aren't you still at risk of STDs after marriage?

well yeah..use a condom or something but you still could. but the reason people say that is because if you get pregnant, you know the guy will actually take care of it because well..he's your husband lol (there are exceptions tho). but if you and your husband both haven't had sex before,then there's a really really really small possiblity there could be a STD anyway. plus it's always kind of saying that you should lose your virginity to someone you're really sure about, and since you married this guy you're sure about him (i hope). yeah that's basically it.. hope this helps!! :]

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hello.me and my lesbian lover just had sex today...do u think this is right because we r only 13.
write back thanks
buh bye.

um well you can't get pregnant...and you could've gotten STDs if one of you has had an intercourse with a guy before?? 13 is younggggg..if it felt right to you then i guess it's alright but if it felt uncomfortable then i definitely wouldn't do it again and wait longer. it's not really right or wrong, probably more wrong than right because you're only 13 but whatever. hope this helps??

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hi.. okay well i was at work yesterday. i work at dunkin donuts. im 16. so this really hot guy comes in. and i get him his order. he goes gets a straw or something. then he put his hand over the counter and says here miss you dropped something so i take it look at it. and it says \" mike \" with his phone number haha.. then like 20 mins later he comes throough the drive through orders a large iced cofee. and was talking to me. and says hey call me sometime lol. so i get out of work. and i call him. and he seemed really nice.. buuuuuuut hes 24 :-x.. so i dont know.. he lives the street over from mine. im just conufsed i dont know wat to do.

hm that's a pretty big age difference you got there =/ it's kind of illegal for him to see you actually...if you have any sexual intercourse he could be arrested... does he know you're 16?? maybe you look older than your age and he thought you were like 21 or around that. if he does and is still like flirting with you, if you feel THAT uncomfortable, you should tell him that you feel kind of weird since there's an 8 year difference between you two. if you don't, and just want to try, you could but just know that there're consequences ok? he seems pretty cool except for his age difference, so maybe you two could just hang out a bit and be friends..but not really go out? you just need to talk to hiim about this. would you rather go out with him, but be a little uncomfortable and worried during that time, or not go out wiht him and feel a little regretful about it? both are kind of hard =/ it's up to you. i'd just try to hang out iwht him and stuff and see how it goes.. if you want that is. i don't know this guy. anyways hope this helps..IM me if you want. ♥

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hey just saying your a really good advice girl.
WEll happy halloween(almost)
lol

lol thankssss!!! :) happy early halloween too!! :]♥

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Ok im in the9th grade ... and spirit week is next week.. we have a hillbilly day and a 50,60,70 and so on day i have no clue what to sear .. i need this by the 9th sorry so short i rate a 5

ok well it's still the 8th lol :) for spirit week, isn't that like for your school? what's your school mascot? maybe wear something with the animal on it or something haha. or don't they give out like spirit week t-shirts?? they do at most schools...then just wear those with jeans or something. ask what your friends are wearing. as for hillbilly day, that sounds fun :] wear a cowboy hat and overalls haha and just make your hair kind of messy looking and all :D don't wear makeup hillbillys dont do that! and for 50,60, or 70 day.. your parents must've lived then!! ask them what most people in those days wore and wear those clothes. or just put together some clothes you already have and make them look 70ish. maybe your parents even have some old clothes you could borrow (ok but it's only 50, 60, 70 day..). i don't know too much about those days =/ search on the internet or look at the 70s show and house!!!!!! kk hope this helps :)

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