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i am a competitive cheerleader and i love it. we do awesome at competitions and most of us work really hard all year for nationals.

Now we are going into nationals and something terrible happened! at practice last week my stunt group stumbled and fell. it was during a basket toss and my backspot got hurt bad.

She is usually the one that catches me the best and the one i completely trust to never let me fall. well no one caught me because she was hurt and on the ground. I fell out of a basket onto her leg (that was already hurt becuase of someone elses stupid mistake!!) and i feel so bad not to mention it hurt like heck!!!!! She is so not a whiner and so for her to bail out on practice means she was in a lot of pain!!!

but my question is.... she can not compete this weekend and im scared to compete without her because.... well i trust her and she wont be on the floor with me... what do i do? thanks!!

PS I REALLY REALLY LOVE MY WHOLE SQUAD BUT ESPECIALLY MY BACKSPOT!!! SHES THE BEST!

awh.. is this amy? well if it is. Brooklyn, the girl who is fillin in for me, will do a wonderful job! i have total faith in her! you dont need to worry! i may beable to compete this weekend.. but probably not.

if this isnt amy, im sure that you will be fine. your bases will step it up b/c they know that they cantrely on your back spot to do all that work! you will be perfectly fine! and good luck at comp.!

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ok well i have a boyfriend and i really liked him in the beginning and we ended up having sex..now i mean i still like him but i feel like all thats keeping me with him is that we had sex so i feel like i have to keep going out with him now.. and hes really into me and i dont know what to do because it was my first time and im not sure if i should stay or what

you shouldnt feel like you have to stay with him just because you ahd sex. if you dont like him anymore, leave him. your not a trap or a slut or anything for having sex and then leaving. if there's no chemestry then you shouldnt lead him on.
hope i helped!!

-emily

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ok so i like this guy , and im not really sure if he likes me or not ..... he always says he does but hes a real joker and i cant really figure him out ..... and he might have a girlfriend but then again im not really sure. Help Me!!!!!!

umm ask him? lol all you have to say is have you ever wanted to be more than freinds? and if yes, then do you still? and then wooo hoo you know what he thinks. and you should figure out weather he has a girlfriend or not before you ask him.

-emily

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i have this problem im an ugly person and no 1 likes me. should i just put a paper bag over my head or fuckin kill my self..... ive tryed sliting my wrist but its to painful so i dont do it any more. the only reason for living is because of food. i love food so much that i use my paycheck at golden corall and thats ussally my hang out on the weekends. the workers there dont like me either cause i eat all of the food but i cant help im just so fat. so should i just kill myself or try to find another ugly person to date of talk to? or keep tryn to hook with a hot person. Theres this other gender person that im really starting to like but the person thinks im the ugliest fucker ever should i force the person into liking me by coming to her house tieing the person to there bed and killing there pets in front of them until they go out with me? im so fat that i cant not see my penis any more.... so i have to get my mom to hold it for me. is it weird to put peanut butter on my dick and let my dog lick it off? i hope not..... well thanks for all ur help.

yes thats wierd. and you need to go to theropy. lol

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ok well sometimes during class theres this really hott girl in my class and i get a massive erection and sometime i wear basketball shorts....and sometimes when the teacher calls me up to there desk i still ahve the boner and i walk up there and since i dont have any pockets to put my hands down to keep my boner from showing it just kinda sticks out in plain sight..i tell people its just the way my pants are made but they dotn believe me and sumtimes the boner lasts all threw class and by the tim ei know it the bells rung so i have to go out in the hall with it...people look at me weird and sometimes they try and grab it and when lunch rolls around and i have to stand in the line the person in front of me keeps telling me to stop poking them and i say its not my fault...and on my way to my lunch table i turn around and knocked sum kids drink off his tray with it i mean i cant help if i have a huge massive erection that is just so big i cant handle it and one time i didnt know my fly in my pants were open and it popped out and i was walking around with my wang stickin outa my pants and people jsut stare at it....idk if this is normal for a boner to last all day but should i jsut tape it to my leg or something??? or maybe i could just stick it in your ass and walk behind you all day but idk if anyone would notice? so if you have any advice on why my boner lasts so long and what to do with it please tell me!!!!!

well i dont think this is a serious question.... but its deff. not normal.

what you need to do is get your self a girl. jackoff and dont fantasize about that hott girl.

-emily

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Me and my bf do it. but, i know he likes it and gets off, but i always feel like i will and never do. What is the matter and how do i fix this?

talk to him! tell him what YOU like. hell probably even get off on you enjoying yourself more than him ejoying himself.

change things up. try something new. something youve always wanted to do. the sky is the limit.

tell him what hes doing rught and guide him in the right direction. who knows what you like better than you ? most guys are clueless when it comes to what a women REALY wants in bed. so help him out!

hope i helped!
-emily

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would you ever have sex at this age?

no. and i dont plan to. im waiting ATLEAST until im 18. theres just no point right now. i need to enjoy being THIS age, and that dosnt include having sex.

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there is this guy in 9th grade that i think is really hott..and im only in the 7th. and we kno each other..and talk and stuff..but just not that well, and he knos i think he is hott..but, he said wen im in 9th grade he'll think about goin out wit me. which is okay..that doesnt bother me..but im really starting to like him and i have a b/f..and my b/f always asks me if i like anyone else, and we are truthful to each other so i tell him i like the 9th grader..and hes like wat? hes barley in high school..so he acts weird about it or w/e wen i tell him..and i fell like i can only tell the 9th grader stuff..and not any of my friends..because they might take it weird..so..idk..im just confused..is this normal or w/e??- -sry it sounds so retarted..i rate..please help!

wellll the reason you probably feel you cant talk to anyone else but the freshman is because no one in your grade SERIOUSLY likes anyone out of there school. they may think that high schoolers are hott. but they never start to like them. i dont think anything will happen between yall until you reach highschool. because no highschooler goes out with middle schoolers... for now just be his freind. talk to him about things that you cant talk to your freinds about. i wouldnt talk to your boy friend about it b/c he is just going to get jealous. but then again, dont hide things from you bf. if he asks something about this 9th grader answer him.

hope i helped
-emily

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i am masterbating more than 5 times a day is this wierd?(im a guy)

wellllllll. you may want to cut down a little bit. times a day is plenty. lol but maybe your just a horny guy, nothing bad about it. but cutting down little bit will help the times you do jack of feel better !

-emily

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uh...whats the best way for me to shave my balls?

well being a girl, and since ive never shaved a guys balls, i dont know.. lol sorry

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My best friend and I a drifting apart because he has lately been drinking, using steroids and having sex. I'm not really against these things but I don't drink as much or anything as he does. We still hang out once every other week or so but it's almost getting awkward. Should I let this friendship go or try to rekindle it? I dont want to lose him as a friend but I also don't like how I'm drunk at a party every night I'm with him. Help?

first try drinking less when your around him... set a limit!!!
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Tell him how you feel, tell him that you like him as a freind but when you are around him you drink more b/c he drinks more, and if he likes you and dosnt want to lose you, he wont get drunk when he is around you and he wont let your or make you feel like you have to get drunk. if he dosnt stop then take a break from your freindship. see what happens and how you manage w/o him. and then go from there.
sorry im having a bad advice day...

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ok. so i was haveing sex and this guy happend to cum in my eye...now i see these white things sometimes in my eye and i dotn want to tell my mom about it because then i will be in big trouble. What should i do? Should i tell my mom or see the sperms? please help me i might go blind. Also i have a problem with staring at my mom when she is in the shower... is that normal?

well there's no way that cun would stay in your eye... b/c your eye washes out everything that gets in it, so if there is white that your seeing... go to a doctor, and as for the mother in the shower thing, well i cant help you, but no tahts not normal..

-emily

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what do you think about drinking?

i think its fine as long as you dont over do it.. my family has had some bad drinking experiences, and thats just the way i feel about it. I think most every one has tried, will try, has or will get drunk at some point in thier life. Drinking is more of a personal opinion and how you were brought up to view it. So im my opinion, its a good stress releaver, way to relax and have some fun, but not if you over do it.

((sorry im having a bad advice day))

-emily

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i think that i have an eating disorder. everytime i eata major meal such as sunflower seeds i throw up. i have done this for at least 2 years and my weight has definately reduced. i dont think that anorexia is bad because it has gotten me to a better weight causing me to have a hott boyfriend and also for me to loose my virginity. i think anorexia is great and whom ever says it is bad is just jealous that they arent alowed to use their gag reflex correctly.

well im not sure what your question is, but i cant change your mind. You think what you think about eating disorders, and i cant change that you wont change until you realize and wnt to change what youa re doing to your self... trust me.. IVE been so tempted to just stop eating or just see what would happen if i purged after a meal, f i would look skinnier and if it would help be lose wieght, but i know how bad it is for your body, when your bulimic all the hydrocloric acid that comes back up your throat burns hole in your esophigous and you can never close them , your body looses nutrion and you wil die of starvation, but i dont need to tell you this beacuse im sure youve thought about the dammaging affects and what you re doing to your body, right?

so thats my opion on eating disorders, just incase you were wondering..
-emily

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What does an architect do particularily?


Gimmie some idea's

a person who disigns buildings, a person who designs and supervises the construction of buildings or other large structures and creates that plans for a building or construction project.

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I'm a virgin. I thought I would start out with that.

I am 15 years old and I masturbate sometimes. But the thing is, after I do it, I feel really guilty and stop and don't do it for about a month.

It feels good when it's happening but after, I feel sick to my stomach.

I have never had a boyfriend and I'm not sexually active at all besides masturbating.

People say it's normal but it's not really publically accepted for teenage girls.

I just want to know if it's normal how I feel.

i think every one feels that way, like if someone finds out they will think your a slut, you feel like its wrong? well its not its tottaly normal and its just accepetd more among guys than girls because guys are expected to. you just have to accpet that its ok and move on ! your not doing anything wong!!

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how old should you be before having sex.

i think ATLEAST 17, you knwo when you are ready but if you feel that tehre is any pressure into having sex then wait a while, you cant change your past, and you cant change things you may regret. im not trying to talk you out of it but you knwo the risks and all the opions all over the world about kids having sex, so mkae your choice and make sure that its the right choice for you
hope i helped!
much

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well i like this one girl and she says she likes me. we're going out and everything but i dont know if it will last much longer. im not trying to jinx it but i like her alot and i know she dumps guys pretty easy. do you think i should stick it out and hope she likes me like she says or take a safer way out?

deffinatley talk to her.. tell her how you feel, i know i know, every one says "tell her how you feel" but im serious, you have to let her know something is on your mind or else she will ahev no clue something is bothering you. Stcik it out, it dosnt sound like shes done anything wrong in your reltationship, dont judge her on her past, if she really likes you things will be diffent, and if things end up not working out then maybe shes just not ready to be in like a long term deal, i know because i dont really like going out with guys for a long period of time, but i know that if i ever got the chance to go out with the one guy that i REALLy liked i would deffinatly stay with him as long as i could..... so stick it out and dont be paranoyyed because a paranoyed boyfriond is deffiantley annoying!

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Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm a female. For some reason I think my ex is ignoring me. I dunno if he's mad at me or what for not talking to him when he IMed me one day. I was really upset that day especially when I saw him flirting with a bunch of different girls. Why do I always feel hurt by him everytime I see him with another girl? We only went out for a week over a year ago. What can I do to make this feeling go away?

i know what you mean, i think that we always want the boy when we cant have him.. even though it sucks, all you can do to stop feeling like that is get over him and try and find a new guy for your self! you shouldnt have to sit around and watch him with a bunch of girls, make him realize how much he misses you too..

hope i helped- sorry im having a bad advice day...
-emily

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I have really good pitch and I have good vocal technique, but I'm a horrible sightsinger! Can anyone here help me with rhythms? In particular, difficult rhythms with 32nd notes and 16th notes and be able to just look at it and sing it?

practice sight reading... i know it SUCKS.. but it helps alot!!! hope i helped!
much

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