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This guy and I switch on and off on going out. I really, really like him. I hav known him for a little more than a year, and i hav never stopped liking him. We just broke up bcuz he likes another girl. He told me that he wanted to go out again, just not right now. But im just sick of gettin heart broken. What should i do?
ok Hun I kno you like him, but normally when a guy tells you "he wants to go out later just not now" It means you guys most likely wont get bac together for awhile. And pluse he likes someone else. I kno you like him but come on, there are other guys. And that pretty low when someone dumps you for another girl or guy ok? Hes most likely not worth your time. and you need to realize that. And since ur past relationships hav been on and off if u go bac out with him its probably not going to last long. ok? And if ur tried of getting heart broken... so find someone else. Your a really special person dont let a guy like him bring you down. Try some other ppl, if its still not working for you, tell me ill help you. Cuz trust me I've been in ur place a bunch of times. >>Jennifer
Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.
Sincerely,
CameronLover1
just go ull have fun i bet. Just have a good time. You'll do fine.
ok so... a friend of min got arrested and is on probation. he also has to go to court. i keep on tellin him to tell his g/f but he won't tell her.
should i tell her cuz i'm scared that they will break up when she finds out from some1 else?
Well ask him since he wont tell her if u can tell her. i mean thats pretty serious so if u think its best i would tell her. ok but do wut ur heart tells u to just dont get ur friend mad at u. -Jennifer
i like this girl and im not sure if she likes me not to mention she has a boyfriend what should i do
Just tell her. Wuts it going to hurt. Okay... she has a boyfriend, just dont make it seem like u trying to get them to break up. and if she doesnt like u back its not the end of the world there are other girls. -Jennifer
idk what to do i lyke two different guys! one is sweet, quite, and sometimes is a jerk, and a year younger! the 2nd is a guy ive went owt w/ b4lyke 2 or3 tymes...he's sweet but i bounce on and off about datin him , he also has this g/f currently but im afraid that he will continue lykin her! i just am so confused
If he has a girlfriend dont try and break them up just so u can have him thats shows ur desperate, and all u care about is u having him. Who cares if the other guy is younger! If ur scared bcuz ppl are going to make fun of u and wut not it shouldnt matter as long as u like the guy. Do wut ur heart tells u too just dont try and break the one guy up with his grl and the other guy... just dont care wut ppl say or if he is quite. -Jennifer
wt ell see i lyke ur ex boyfriend-->jt! but idk what to do becuz he was bein really mean and stuff? should i keep goin at it or give up sad and broken hearted? please help me jen i need yo0!
Hmm ok well I understand why u like him lol. He can be mean though. I mean if he is totally mean that he is putting you down all the time dont like him he isnt worth ur time otherwise. But then again he could just be messin with u, you never kno. just talk to him about it tell Jt how you feel. He likes it better when ur honest with him. If he doesnt like you back thats his problem i bet ur a great person. But if he does then great. But hint hint i kno he has his eye on an older chick at the moment. But he is a great guy just if u go out with him... dont let him tell u, that u guys will be together forever. cuz it never happens he has done it with every grl he has been with so far. Dont worry just tell him. the truth,the full truth!
cuz he doesnt like when u lie lol.
good luck -Jennifer
My boyfriend wants to make out with me, and i dont know how. How do you make out?
Thnx!
theres really no specific way, just go for it, I did it was great. If he knos just follow his lead. im sure things will work out. -Jennifer
i have a a nice polite boy that is my age bac where i use to live and over the summer i been have ing dreams bout me and him. my main question is am i upsess with him?
I wouldnt say just bcuz ur havin dreams about him ur obessessing over him. maybe u just miss him or like him... its fine -Jennifer
there is this guy that i do cheerleading with. and i really like him..should i tell him i like him? and we flirt a lot but i dont know if he likes me. i want to hang out with him when we go to kings island. will it be really wierd if we hook up since we will see eachother like everyweek? and i really want him to kiss me but i dont know if he will even want to hang out with me. i am pretty sure he likes me because he told someone that he would dump his girlfriend and go out with me anyday. What should i do?
*confused*
Just tell him how u feel, i think it would be fine if u guys saw each other every week. Just go out with him... just let him kno u like him. im sure things will work out. -Jenn
I have to go get a physical soon. And I always freak out cuz they have to look everywhere and I am not comfortable with that....what should I do?
I understand it can be uncomfortable but, there doctors and there trained, they do this all the time. Its okay, they've seen everything before, plus they were ur age once as well. So im sure things will be ok theres nothing to worry about. IM me @ cutietumbler424 if u need anymore help.
-Jennifer
Hi, I like a girl that I have gone out with 2 times. She broke up with me last time, but we hang out and talk all the time. I still like her, but I dont know if she likes me too. I want to go out with her, but its embarrasing to get declined. What should I do, and if I should give hints or something, what would be a good hint. Thanks. Im in 7th grade and so is she.
Well ur a guy so im sry but i dont kno very many hints. Just tell her how u feel maybe do a flirting. Im sure if u dont act like a jerk or w/e she mite go out with u, Depending on wut happened last time she dumped u. So just try flirting with her, tell her u still like her. Im sure things will work out after awhile. -Jennifer
i like this guy but idk if he likes me. he's really punk and i'm preppy. all the guys that i've went out with before i changed my whole look & stuff for them, but they wound up liking me anyway. but the one i like now i dont wanna try and impress! how do i get him to notice me!?!
Just talk to him. Be urself, not something u arnt. He would probably like that better than a fake. -Jenn
Hey my friend is spending the night in a couple days and i was wondering what is some fun stuff we can do so we won't get bored fast??any movies or games u would reccomend?????help plz i rate!!!
Hmm... have u heard of Skip-Bo? its real big with all my friends. Its a card game go to like Target and get it, Um... if u still have like fireworks from the 4th of july. idk any games are fun pick something u and ur friend both agree on. -Jennifer
Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!!
You guys are way to young to be doing that, i dont really care if u want to thats terrible. Ok im guessing if ur 13 and u wanna do this u dont kno wut Ural Sex is... well its just like a blow job. Thats terrible. dont do it u can get STDs by giving a blow job as well. -Jennifer
a lot of my friends have bf and there around them all the time but i dont have one, ive nvr had one but i really want one cuz it makes me feel left out wut should i do?
You shouldnt feel left out, I mean if u like a guy throw out some hint to let him kno that. If u dont like anyone and enjoy being single stay that way, just because ur friends hav boyfriends doesnt me u should have one too. If u want a boyfriend that bad go for it, im sure u'll find someone. But heres a hint ((be careful with the guy u choose, some guys go out with girls for he wrong reason, and they will play u bad.Just be careful i dont want u getting hurt.)) -Jennifer
ok i have a friend and i just found out friday that his step, brother who was 16 died. and i felt really bad and i wanted to call him and just talk to him. and im not sure if its to early to call. like im not sure if i should wait atleast a week to call and see if hes ok. what should i do
Well if i were u i would call now. I mean if ur friend is upset i bet it would make them feel better Knowing that someone called bcuz they were worried and they cared. So i would call but its totally up to u follow ur heart im sure something will happen. -Jennifer
Ok lets start with this i have been dating my boy friend for a year and a half. But for some reason i want to hurt him. I dont know why though I write weird stuff about him then the next morning i dont even remember writeing that. Or being mad at him. When he asks me to call him i say no he asks why i say i dont know, When he asks for a kiss i push him away. Me and him have kids together and im ingaged to him. And im happy very happy with my choice but latley iv been wanting to be mad at him and wanting to hurt him. He is a very nice smart kind funny sweet guy and he wont do anything wrong to diserve it. But iv just wanted to. What triggers it most the time is when he is with his friends hanging out talking about other girls and stuff and he doesnt mention me. And that he will pick on my favorite bands and movies and stuff. But i also say that this other guy is cute to so it gives him rights to say that about other girls. If you can help me please please help!!
Maybe u guys need a break. Not like breaking up or anything, just take some time to be by urself away from him. Go and hang with just ur friends. C if anything happens. Tell him about ur relationship. If u dont like how he talks about other girls tell him. In relationships u should always be truthful to each other. communication is everything in a relationship. *Jennifer*
my crush is going out with my best friend i just found my dads gun. will god hate me if i kill my friend and if my crush doesnt like me, him to from *they had it coming*
Okay thats terrible. God never hates anyone but he will be extremly mad. Dont kill ur best friend just bcuz he is going out with ur crush!!! there are other ppl in the world. dont kill them. Bcuz im sure if u kill the person this girl is going out with they arnt going to like u bac. Killing ppl is not the way to solve things. Dont Kill Him... "oh and u need to get help...if u wanna kill someone"
if you dont want to tell someone something important but they really want you to tell it to them should you? lol
Well if u want to tell them, tell them. Who cares wut they think. It doesnt matter. Just tell them. Im sure things will be ok. *Jennifer*
hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend?
She needs to do it herself. Being on her period doesnt stop her from from anything. Yeah she may b in a lil pain but that doesnt mean u have to do everything for her. And u need to stand up to her and tell her. She isnt ur boss dont let her push u around.