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Did he genuinly like me or did he just want sex?
There's this guy from school who suddenly texted me out of nowhere saying hey! Big fan here. We started texting more late nights and I got attached. In the beginning he was very sweet to me and all. We would send heart emoticons to each other. After few days he confessed to me he likes me. But sometimes he would flirt with me saying I feel like giving you a hug from behind. In between we had a fight but then I sorted it out. After that he started telling me he is busy again and again but whenever we would text about about wwe or football because I like it. He tells me you are so awesome, Let's marry. Then tells me he is kidding. Then he asked me should he propose I told him I dont feel the same way. Recently he asked me If I am a virgin. I got mad at him confronted saying this was disrespectful he told me sorry and deleted the text and I blocked him on instagram. He whatsapped me saying thought you were mature enough and blocked me there. Now I've rekindled things with himm.. he texted me few days and even wished me on my bday but now he is avoiding me. Did he genuinly like me or did he just wanted sex?Should I block him again?
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Its difficult for me to say with any kind of certainty on if his feelings are genuine or of he is just after something.
First though, I would say your reaction to his question was very much justified - why would anyone ask someone if they are a virgin and why would it even matter?! Playing devil's advocate maybe he asked to see if you are or not to determine the kind of person you are (as an example if you said no or yes, he may assume that means it might be easier to get sex from you or he just wanted to check if you are as 'innocent' as you seem). However, this would be assuming a lot and if this is a guy from school he may not have thought about it in so much detail. Either way, it was rude to ask. Generally it's hard to be able to give you an answer and being certain as to what his intentions are so they best piece of advise I can give you is to go with your instincts and not rush anything at all. Most guys will just give up after a while when they realise working someone over just for sex was a lot more hard work than they realised.
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