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Covid Follow Up.
I tried to delete my Covid-19 question but it didn't let me after it was posted. I noticed that it came across as me being entitled when it's the opposite and not the vibe I was trying to project. I know full well that there are tremendous risks for the other 4 people I live with. I'm not the only person who goes to Wal-Mart or does the shopping. All of them go at once despite the risks.
I'm not allowed to go anywhere but the variety store and around the block. We live a few streets away from all the restaurants and stores so my folks don't want me out walking. I don't bike either. I also assume every person on the street is stupid when it comes to Covid-19.
I'm relieved that masks are now mandatory here in all public spaces and walking on a sidewalk. You'll get a $1,000 fine provided an enforcement person sees you if your face isn't covered.
I'm also the kind of guy who will tell people to get out of my space if I feel they're too close in a store or walking too near. I also have sent back pizza and other food items that were not delivered contact less. If there's anyone paranoid about health and that of other people around me it's this guy.
The point I didn't make well in my first question of which I couldn't delete was that this isn't an issue of stir-crazy feelings everyone else has. I have a form of depression where I'm either happy or deeply depressed and it's either one or the other. I've been stable for 2 decades. Where I get in trouble is if it cycles from one to the other or stays in depression for considerable time.
Worse is the manic energy that just doesn't go away unless channeled into some activity or I'm constantly active at doing something anything.
To me being able to go out serves a purpose. I have filled my time as I said before with movies, concerts, theater, comedy clubs and attractions as an outlet to feel better. I don't have access right now to human interaction, support, or normal routine.
This is why I pointed out what's the difference between one place deemed safe versus another. Anyway, I'm occupying time with drawing and caring for a new animal friend. Maybe that will help.
I just wanted you to see that I am putting people first and have from the start but things haven't gone both ways but we know the reason why.
it's frustrating that nobody here believes anything the government says or does with rendering places safe. My family thinks Canada will turn into the U.S. with all the problems they have with Covid the second places open up.
We've opened up in 4 stages over a period of 5 months. It's frustrating. If you have any more advice that's great. It's fine by me to delete the previous question unless you think it's helping others.
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Hi there! See what you mean. Cycling between the manic-euphoric to manic-depressed states is tough, and tiring, physically and emotionally. And there are surely no shortage of triggers in a global pandemic. As you say, occupying your mind, especially in creative projects is always good, so keep on. In some ways the lock-downs have given many of us (health workers NOT included!) a time to stop and reflect. Assess our priorities. And in some cases engage in projects and pursuits we may have not found the time for. Or never even considered. I recall an article from one of the space station guys, comparing the lock-down to months on the station. We spend all our time with the same few faces. Conflicts have to be avoided, but addressed immediately if they occur. Never left brewing. Everything outside the capsule is a life threatening. Living in close proximity to death is crushing psychologically. He said we must know the risks, understand the risks and mitigate them where possible. Not blank them. But not obsess on them either. We occupy ourselves with the daily routines of living and the work we are there to do. He also stressed the importance of always having an agenda for the next day as you turn-in to bed. Something to get up and get motivated for. At best, try and have at least one thing you enjoy in that agenda. Or at least something that is meaningful and has a definite objective. I thought this man's (can't remember his name sadly!) observations were acute and so pertinent. Clearly this is impacting on you more than many, as you were not brilliantly placed before it started. It is going to amplify a known issue. Handling it is ok when things are normal, but now they're all over the map, eh? It's fair to say that so far in 2020 it's ok to not be ok, so don't beat yourself up. We're coping. Just about! In my opinion Canada is not that likely to follow the US. Firstly, the population-density is on your side. Remember, this virus cannot move under it's own power and human contact is it's primary transmission path. Handling items and street furniture will not infect you, even if a high load has been coughed onto it, providing you do not transfer it to your mouth, nose or eyes by touching your face until your hands have been thoroughly washed, or you have discarded gloves. It won't find it's own way into your body. It's a risk, but a risk we can control. What's the first law of everything? Control the control-ables! Secondly, there never seemed to be any central government strategy enforced. States in the US seemed free to choose their own levels of lock-down. Central policy, where it was visible, certainly seemed to be to play down the health significance, and to protect the economy. Keep America open for business. I think Trump's handling of it spoke more about Trump than the virus, don't you? He had to be out-front, centre-stage from day one. A business-man (and a successful one) heading-up the United States, but he's no great statesman! Best wishes to you and yours. Until a vaccine arrives we have to live with this virus as best we can. And your best has kept you good so far mate!
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What you're feeling right now is completely normal since everyone in this virus is completely nervous and going through depression.
If you're wanting to find activities I would suggest trying to find a nearby church- they could have virtual meet ups if you're interested in socializing with others or a meetup group- where they might have virtual groups as well.
meetup.com.
Also, you don't necessary have to live nearby in order to join a virtual group.
As far as delivery- I'm sure you could call up the place and tell them you want a no-contact delivery for pretty much any company.
I'm an American- so I do find that really interesting when you said your family thinks your country is turning into ours lol, but the thing is- it's everywhere- meaning everyone is HIGHLY effected by it. Countries like Italy, France, China and all over the UK are effected.
Don't worry about your post- people like me are on here trying to help answer your questions.
Honestly there isn't much we can do about the virus other than stay put and put our trust in God- God wants to help us.
Try to keep yourself busy by doing things you enjoy doing and stay safe by wearing a mask and washing your hands.
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