24/f
Through working a lot of extra hours and having a new job that pays more than my old job, i've been able to save more money than I've ever had before. I currently have around 13k in my bank account. I told myself when I got to 10k that it would be enough for me to feel financially secure and that anything I made over that I would use just to pay bills and buy anything extra I need. My bills every month are around $1500 to give some perspective.
I currently have a new car, a home I love with my significant other, and really everything I need. I have a few things that could use upgrading, but they still work fine. For example, I have a three year old laptop. It works fine, but I would eventually like to upgrade to the newer model. The issue is a new one would be around 2k so I'm just going to wait because I feel like 2k is just a bit more than I want to spend right now, while my current one still works fine.
With that said though sometimes I wonder if maybe the 13k isn't enough because I still worry about spending 2k. Does that mean I should save more? Is 13k really enough?
My significant other has his own savings and a lucrative job (he makes far more than me actually) and he's always reminding me that money isn't an issue and is something I should never worry about because he could pay for anything that need be if I couldn't. However, I don't like to rely on his money so I'm not counting it.
Am I overthinking things? I really worry about something big happening that I'll need the money for, but I don't know if I'm just paranoid because in the past I've never really had more than 2k in my account.
Can we ever be totally financially secure? THat is a question you can spend hours discussing and still not be sure of an answer. THe rule of thumb has always been that three months earnings in the bank is what a person needs to guard against a financial disaster in an emergency.
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