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heyy am just 17 yrs and I was a virgin until I recently had sex and I didn't see blood until we had sex the second time,then I saw blood,this is the third time and am seeing blood stain agaln.please am worried
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The blood you are seeing s probably from when your Hyman was ruptured or torn from your vagina. Now the Hyman is not a solid piece of tissue blocking your vagina. It has one or more holes in it from which your menstrual blood flows out.
It is very possible the first time you had sex your partners penis slipped through one of these holes just like a Tampon might. The second time the position you had sex in, even if it was the missionary position, may have been just enough different that when he entered you instead of slipping through a hole in the Hymen he actually ruptured it.
Why after the third intercourse are you still seeing blood? Again nothing to worry about this is very normal especially if you did not give your vagina time to heal after the second intercourse. When the Hymen was ruptured or torn it was the same as if you cut yourself and the wound needs tome to heal. If you did not give yourself time to heal the friction of intercourse pulled of the scab and opened the wound just as it might if you pulled on a scab on your arm.
My suggestion is you wait 10 days giving yourself tome to heal before you let partner stick his penis or fingers in your vagina. If you bleed again then you should see your GYN. I still believe you have nothing to worry about it is probably the wound is such that it needs a doctors attention to be closed properly. This happens a lot.
As for your parents finding out your sexually active, the can't. By a Law called HYPA for anything to do with your Reproductive system you have had medical privacy since you were 14. This means you can make appointments to see a doctor be treated for or ask questions about anything to do with your reproductive system. Your parents cannot see these record or ask the doctor about any visit for these concerns. By law the doctor or his staff cannot release your records to anyone including your parents without your written consent. Your mother cannot be in an exam room with you without your consent if you are having a female exam. You could be pregnant and the doctor could not tell your parents and your parent would have no say in what you care to do about it. If you wanted an abortion they could not stop you or force you to have one.
Just so you know you parents cannot force you to have a female examination. Something some mothers think a doctor can do and tell them if you are still a virgin. No doctor can tell if you are a virgin or not only if our Hyman is still intact. Given the active teenager today in sports, gymnastics and other activities her Hyman can be dislodged without her vagina ever being penetrated by a finger or a penis.
While I have gone well beyond the scope of your question I hope I put you mind at ease for your question and what the answer might bring in further questions. By the way make sure your partner uses a condom. Never have sex without one as besides its protection from pregnancy it also protects against many of the STDS and the HIV virus. If the boy refused to wear a condom keep your panties on. Never trust a male who will not use a condom.
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