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What can I do to forget the person I love?
What should I do to forget the person I love?
I love in a wrong person?
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If this is truly what you want, there is what the other advice giver said, cutting off all ties. Me, I take it literally. God gave me a vision at the time I knew I had to leave my ex but didnt quite know how financially yet.
The vision was something I have learned about since. I was shown the two of us with a long rope or cord running between us, each end attached to the lower portion of our torso, around sacral or solar plexus points. I was handed a large pair of scissors by an angel and told if I was really serious about this, I had to visually see myself using the cutting tool to snip and cut the connection to him.
Our minds are like computers and have lots a data stored in all sorts of places. Its always there for you to find later. Unless you have amnesia, where theres a total loss of recall including who you are, there isn't a way to erase memories and forget something or a person.
The reason though behind wanting to "forget" as people say is that we have emotions and emotions are attached to that person you want to forget, whether it is good happy memories and therefore a feeling of loss, or as in my case, memories of mistreatment at their hands and bad feelings attached to that which may be holding you back from moving on for fear of the same happening again, etc.
It still takes time for the feelings attached to the memories to fade so that IF you come across something that reminds you of the person, you no longer find bad or sad feelings rise to the surface. I know it works cus I've done it. And for our Thanksgiving Holiday, I and new husband spent time with my kids at their Dads house. There are no feelings of anger or sadness between us and certainly no longer any of the loving feellings for each other. It is possible. Of course, you must also have a healthy mind for this to work. If you have depression, anxiety, or tend to dwell on negative or distorted thinking, that all will hold you back from getting over the person and those things will need to be dealt with first. If thats the case for you, let us know here, I am sure we'd have advice for that as well.
If you try what we both have suggested here, then at some point you will successfully be able to not forget but think of them without the tugging on the heart strings of sadness or anger.
Blessings to you dear.
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Sadly, the heart usually wants what the heart wants...
But over time, you can help those feelings fade. You can remember or point out all their flaws. Usually that helps to realize that you want more or different things out of someone that you love or invest your time and emotions in. You can also get out there and meet new people and perhaps find someone new to get to know and develop a relationship with.
Also, cut off all ties of that person. Social media, phone number and [to an extent] avoid similar places you both go to. If they're at school or work you obviously cannot avoid them but you can focus your attention on other things other than that person. But yes, you might need to do some blocking via your technology.
Good luck!
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