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breast pains is what i feel for a week or two
Anytime my boyfriend sucks and romance my breast pains is what i feel for a week or two.
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Most women with something like breast cancer from what I have read, did not even know they had it til an exam as there wasn't any pain or discomfort, only lumps that were not the lumps of milk ducts in the breast. So it is highly unlikely that it is something serious.
Now you could have gained some kind of infection if the skin of the nipple was cracked or torn at any point and any germs present in his mouth at the time were tranfered to and entered the breast. I would say this would take needing a Dr. to check out and possibly meds to get rid of infection.
Most likely tho, is that he has been too rough. Think back when your breasts started growing and how tender and sore they felt if pressed up against the table or anything else bumped against them. The breasts are a sensitive area, even after done growing. Maybe not as sensitive but they can't handle rough behavior like constant hard squeezing. If your bf grabbed it hard once but never again, the soreness, like a bruise on your leg would go away in time. But if he continually handles you this way, it doesnt get a chance to recover and though you may not see a bruise on the skin on the outside, I can tell you there have been times when I still felt sore on the inside. Hard sucking will do the same.
My suggestion is that you start communicating with him about the fact that your breast feel sore. Do not ever accuse any lover of doing something wrong however because in making love, it is not so much a fact that someone is doing something wrong rather than not knowing what works right for you. Each person you'll ever be sexual with will be another totally different discovery. And what worked for a past lover doesn't necessarily work for the next one. So it is important to commmunicate well.
You might say, "Hey my breasts are sore. Not sure what from but for now could you skip playing with them and sucking them so I can see if it goes away?" Thats all you have to say. If the pain doesnt go away in the time it takes to recover from bruising, which depending on the individual and how severe the bruising can be days to even a few weeks. So in two more weeks of him not touching you there, if still sore, go see a Dr.
If the soreness goes away, then boyfriend was too rough. If this is the case, heres how you present it to him without hurting his feelings....
"I love when you play with my breasts. Its special to me. But since we took that break of touching them, the pain I had went away, go perhaps it was a bit too rough for me. I'd like to explore different ways we can do this without it hurting so we both can enjoy this. You try something and if I like it, I'll tell you so. If it hurts, I'll ask you to try something different instead."
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I can't think of any reason why a woman should feel pains in her breast after her lover has sucked at them. Now if he has squeezed them too hard or punched them in some, manner that might be different. I can understand your nipples being sore if he sucked to hard or for too long.
Lacking any other reason for pain other than plain sucking I would suggest you speak with your doctor and have a breast exam and maybe and MRI.
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