So I'm 12 female. For as long as I can remember spirits seemed...drawn to me? Like I was always visited, I could tell my parents things that only them and that particular dead relative knew because he/she told me. Still do. I was never really creeped by it. I eventually found out no one else was seeing them, and kept to myself. I'm reluxtant to ask on here because I know people will think I'm crazy, but this IS an anonymous website. A day ago, I was having a very bad day when I was in my room and I felt someone hug me. It felt exactly like a living person hug but different. A 14-16 year old boy spirit who talked to me for a while then started singing till I went to sleep. This has never happened before. Can spirits hug?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Spirituality? Dragonflymagic answered Sunday May 1 2016, 12:20 am: Hi Hon. I think you are brave to even say anything on here cus those who can't see and hear in some way just are not going to believe. Although I can not see or hear with physical senses, I can pick up on things with my inner eyes and ears, and its something i've been doing since my late teens. Even so, I've had enough experiences that can't be explained away any other way. But I can tell you its real. Spirits let you know they are there by using your senses to either smell a perfume they used to wear, hear a part of a song that no one else can hear playing that was a tune they hummed or a favorite song, even sometimes leaving little objects behind or moved, and yes feeling a kind of warmth or a touch. I remember a time when my heart was broken by a boyfriend who left me, before I met my 2nd husband. I wasn't living near family then and had no close friends to talk to and was sitting one night feeling so hurt and alone when i felt a touch on my shoulder. Not as firm as a hand, but my skin felt and tingled from some energy that felt like a hand rubbing so I immediately asked, "Who are you" not aloud but mentally like telepathy, thats how I talk to God, my angels or any other spirit form. I heard that this soul was someone who loved me many lifetimes ago and was urged to come to me just this one time to encourage me and help me feel better, that someone does care what I am going through...and it did help and I have never heard of that spirit again. Then when I first saw my spirit guide, not believing it was a real possiblity and not looking for it, it was a shock when in my minds eye I clearly saw a man, complete with how his hair, eyes and clothing looked and when I asked, said he was my spirit guide. I wasn't going to accept anything that I hadn't got an okay from God on and I had many years experience of hearing from GOd so I asked and was told not to fear this guide. Still, I doubted that I had really experienced it so I said in my mind, directed to my guide, "Okay, I am still not sure about you so if you are real then I want you to prove it to me by tapping me on the head or on the shoulder when there is no one else around who could do it and you have anytime in the next 3 days to do it. I then promptly forgot as we were invited to stay a weekend at some friends place. While 3there one evening sitting in a chair, i felt 4 or 5 distinct taps on top of my head and i whipped around to peer over the high back of the chair thinking it was one of their kids playing pranks because it felt so real. No one was there and thats when I remembered the thing I had asked of my spirit guide. I know a girl I worked with who came back from a trip to her home country to tell us, she thinks her dead relatives were trying to let her know they were there because as she sat with family, she kept feeling what felt like a housefly landing on her leg or arm and she'd keep swatting without looking until family asked her what she was doing and then they said they had been watching for a while cus she'd been doing the swatting motion too often that it distracted them and they never saw a fly land on her ever in that time. She and I did not have nervouse tics in our body, involuntary movements of muscles...we know that, so all I can say is that some people are able to do this.
I see it as abilities our souls should all be able to do. If created in Gods image, these are the kinds of traits, ability to talk to and connect with others who aren't in front of you, able to heal others like jesus did, things some would call miracles or magick or mental problems simply because they have not experienced it themselves. Experience is the greatest way to believing sometimes. There are many who can tell a story of at least one strange incidence in their life that they can't explain, why they just somehow knew not to take the same road to work that day and avoided getting into a multi car collision because of it, or some such story.
WHEN you get older and become an adult at 18, I would suggest you seek out others who have the same abilities. Read all the literature you can on spiritual gifting like clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, and so on. THere are people who fake it to make a living. But there are good honest people who simply accept it as part of who they are, and something as natural as breathing or blinking ones eyes. Good luck dear. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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