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I feel stuck, what should I do?
I work with this guy I like once a week and he seems to like me too. He's always teasing me about liking this other guy I talk to at work, poking me and looking at me. Even my boss pointed it out that he thinks he likes me. Long story short but he has a girlfriend that moved to the states and she called him today while he was at work and I felt stupid because we've been flirting a lot lately at work and I put a little effort into my appearance every Wednesday. Should I just give up? or should I just go with the flow and see what happens?
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Hello! To be honest I am not impressed with your situation! Guys have the inclination to do that! The obvious problem is that he has a girlfriend. With that being said, I would say clear things up! Tell him how you feel about him and how you feel as yourself! Confused, weird, awkard,the third wheel..anything! See how he responds and act! If he wants to stay with his girlfriend tell him calmly and politely to stop acting all flirty and stuff and move on! He's not the only one!And you never know. In the future you guys may end up together. Maybe it's just not the perfect time. You do what's best for YOU! Do you really want to devote your precious time to someone who is not willing to do the same? I don't think so. Clearing things up will be the best for both of you,realising where you are and where this is going. On the contrary, if he wants to be with you, then great, amazing! You guys can be together as long as he breaks up with his girlfriend. Being straight away is always a very good choice! Especially in your place which is tricky. You deserve someone you will want to be with you and ONLY YOU! If not,then byee! Hope this helped!-xoxo
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It's a tricky one.
I mean he shouldn't be leading you on when he has a girlfriend already. But also love starts in some tricky situations, if you both decide at zome stage that you want to give it a try then honestly as long as he is willing to face up to his current girlfriend and be honest with her. Then maybe there could be something. But if hes going to keep you a secret and still string along his current girlfriend then that's where you will need to put your foot down.
All in all, just go with the flow and be yourself.
Don't over dress to impress him (unless you really want to) but he should like you the way you are :)
Hope this helps in some way!
-DanSkittles13
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