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My sister is heartless..
I'm 16 years old and my sister is about to turn 20. She got pregnant around last year in June. When I first found out I was devastated. We had planned so much for our future. We were going to open a hair salon together later and I just felt sad. I knew our lives would change I knew my parents would give her more attention, yes I was very selfish. I have to be honest, I was rude to her and I regret it with my heart and soul. After a while I got over it. We still fought alot during her pregnancy. She was so rude and snobby all the time she would rub it in my face that my parents didn't pay attention to me and just be mean and it would trigger me and we'd argue. In her 8th month she was on the verge of developing pre-eclampsia. She spent alot of time in the hospital and I spent it with her. I helped her do anything she needed help with. I babyd her alot. She had her baby 2 months ago and shortly developed post partum depression. Her depression has become more rage and violence towards my mother and I. She randomly picks fights, gives us attitude. We are very patient with her. Another thing I didn't mention is I got pregnant 3 months after her. I'm 35 weeks currently. I hid my pregnancy from them til I was 30 weeks. Ever since she found out she has treated me so bad. Anything I do she'll yell at me and call me names. I understand I did the same but I promise you it didn't last more than a few weeks and I don't understand why I've done everything to help her meanwhile I was pregnant but when she finds out about my pregnancy she all of a sudden doesn't appreciate my help.. I honestly feel like I can't take it anymore. She's so evil to me I want her to move out of my parents house because she doesn't deserve our help for treating us like we're animals. I don't know how to feel better..
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It sounds like an attention grabbing thing I mean she is pregnant getting all the attention then you come in and say oh I am pregnant too now she feels her attention will fade away and you might get the attention instead. After you both have the babies things will change.
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