Well, it all started out back in high school when a girl in my class (who I had never had a conversation with) asked for my opinion on L, then she suggested I tag along with them at the weekend for a gathering. I found this hugely strange as I didn't even know her but I agreed. I chatted with everyone there, including L and we all had a great time. We had a few other gatherings when me and L became very close. What started as a friendship turned immediately into a hot, love. We had a bumpy relationship filled with moments of fate bringing us back together at the most random of times and situations. A round about a year after, we become official. I have never felt so deep about anyone. I was overly insecure, naggy, etc. He was no angel either though. So anyway, he up and let after nearly 2 years of our official relationship started. From the moment I met him, there was something there that I couldn't put my finger on but it's clear to me now that's he the one. I try and tell my friends and family, but they say "Oh, it's probably because you cared very much. Move on" but it's more than that. It's been a year since our break-up and he's still the first person on my mind after waking and the last on my mind before sleeping. We have had contact scattered out over the year and I feel he does still care deeply for me. There's things like dreams, too. I've had many dreams of him. The other week, I dreamt of him lay in bed really upset thinking about me. I mean, I don't know if this is me going mad and it's my subconscious but I know and feel it from deep within me, he is my future. My best friend never remembers her dreams and on 3 occasions, she's dreamt of me and L and it's quite shocking. Another episode is if something happens that really upsets me, I yearn for his comfort, I feel as though I just need a cuddle from him and then, I receive a text from him. I recently saw a psychic who told me that there's someone from the past that's coming back in but I need to change before letting him back, she also recalled him as "He's your twin flame" Has anyone experienced a twin flame relationship and can share with me their story? I can't turn to friends or family, as they don't understand me at all. Many thanks!
mY opinion based on personal experience is that a twin flame does not necessarily have to end up being a romantic couple relationship. For example, I met a gal at a new friends home, after talking all evening, I felt like crying when it was time to go home cus it felt like I had just met a long lost family member and didn't want to lose contact again so I traded phone numbers. I couldnt get over the feeling so I prayed to God and was given a waking vision, a little scene that played in my mind..I saw two twin girls and was told that was me and her. I saw her again and told her. She then started nodding. Turns out she is psychic and her spirit guides were telling her this was true. A week or so later she had been told more, that we have shared many past lives as twin sisters and the lives we arent twins, we end up meeting. Thats pretty special. And then you hear of people called soul mates, and I think that word is meant for a mate, and it doesnt necessarily mean it will be all roses and wonderful because the two may be on quite similar paths with similar astrological events coming up for both and if the two are mature enough to get past what peoples natural tendencies for the worst traits of their sun sign or whatever else their short comings are, then soul mates can be a wonderful thing this side of heaven. For many, they find its a relationship full of issues and struggles and not seeing eye to eye over and over but they love each other and get frustrated or upset and back to love. I can't say the lady heard right when she told you what she did. It may have been a soul mate thing instead or it may have meant someone other than this guy. All I can say is if he isn't wanting back in the relationship, then you trying to force things to get the two of you back together may not be the right thing. If two people are meant to meet, then both will be ready. I had to change alot to be able to believe in reincarnation for one thing before i could meet this gal i spoke of. I was a Christian for 30 yrs not believing in that so we couldn't meet until I was ready. I don't know if twin souls accidently meet before 1 is ready. If so, it cant be forced. It may be that if two people are not twin souls, then one or both will not recognize each other as having a special significance as happened to me. So if its not having too easy as my experience, then it just may not be this person. All you can do is wait and see what God brings at the right time. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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