have serious crush on cousin brother friend,met him once
Question Posted Monday November 30 2015, 10:05 am
Hey...i am working girl 23 years old.recently my cousin brother got married,where I met his friend..whom I had met when I was too young like in class 3rd or 4rth. My cousin and dat guy are childhood friends.we were together only one day,surrounded by entire family. We two had vry little talks.but I caught him several times looking at me.many a times we had eye contact without any expression. No smile nothing. Now when m back to work,I tried hunting him and came to know we both are in same city. I just know his first name,tried searching him through internet but no result. What should I do to contact him. Coz I really don't want to lose him.pls help to show some bright light. Also m not sure if he has a girlfriend or not. He is like 5,6 years older to me. What possible step to take. Ur fast response would really help. Thanks a lot
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Monday November 30 2015, 8:07 pm: The obvious answer would be to ask your cousin how to get in contact with him but since you are asking, my guess is you don't want to go that way for some reason. Maybe it feels awkward or embarrassing and you don't have a plan on how to get the info in a way that doesnt seem too obvious.
Here's how then, you still need to talk to cousin. But first, you need to plan a party at your place to invite some people to, like your best friends and maybe their boyfriends, cousin and his wife and tell him honestly that this friend of his caught your eye at the wedding and it seemed at least to you that you caught his eye too. So first you're wondering if he's single and if so, you'd like to invite him to come to your party along with cousin and wife and some other friends to get to know him.
Since it's winter, it can be a 'help decorate my tree', caroling party, with hot buttered rums and hot spiced wine and potluck on snacks. Its very easy to do. If the guy is at all interested in you then he'll show. If he wasn't interested he won't come. This way you can obtain the info to contact him and invite him yourself but ask your cousin to ask him after you do, as well. It may be he made no move towards you because he wasn't sure of your cousins reaction if his friend were to date his girl cousin. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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