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He cums while kissing and huggingh


Question Posted Thursday March 12 2015, 8:34 pm

I am 25 years old and dating a guy who is 35 years old. I love this guy I am dating for almost two years now and he loves me too. I feel like he is not very experienced but has been married for 8months and is now divorced so its not like he hasn't had any experience. I am a virgin and have never had sex yet I don't have any problem.
Every time we hug and Kiss( not french), I see a big large wet spot on his pants (a size of a subway cookie) LOL I am concerned because I want to know if this is an issue that I should be worried about. I just want him to be fine... I care for him a lot


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adviceman49 answered Friday March 13 2015, 9:48 am:
If this happens every time you guys are intimate, non sexual style, then I would guess, since we are not doctors, that your guy has a problem called premature ejaculation (PE).

While there are many theory's for PE there no real medical cause as to the cause for PE. There are a number of different treatments and exercises that can be done as well as creams desensitize his penis to prolong coitus. Some work some don't.

The fact that you care for him a lot is good. The fact that you are a virgin make's it hard to offer a suggestion as to how to help him as in general the exercises require a willing partner. My only suggestion then is to as carefully as possible as so not to embarrass him suggest he see a doctor. There are doctors that specialize in the treatment of PE. Usually these doctors are Urologists.

If you think you will lose your virginity to this man it would be in your best interest to help him with this problem. It would be best that he start by consulting a doctor.

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Dragonflymagic answered Thursday March 12 2015, 11:56 pm:
Yes, some guys can get erections and ejaculate in their pants while doing something they find erotic, like kissing. It happened once long ago to me while kissing a guy, where I had an orgasm.
Even now, being in our fifties, my husband gets a hard on easily just by kissing me or combing his fingers through my hair. Its not to be alarmed about and is quite natural though not all people do it. It tends to happen more with a couple who have a very close deep connection to each other.

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