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Can a doctor tell if you've been fingered?


Question Posted Friday December 19 2014, 9:52 pm

Can a octor tell if you've ben fingered?

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adviceman49 answered Saturday December 20 2014, 1:03 pm:
Doctors cannot tell if you have been fingered. If your Hymen is intact then they will believe you are a virgin as it is almost impossible to have sexual intercourse and have your Hyman remain intact. I say almost impossible as some women have Hymens that are elastic enough and have a hole large enough that an average sized penis may not tear them. This though is extremely rare.

Today many women end up tearing or detaching their Hymen when using Tampons. So today’s definition of a virgin is not so much a women with an intact Hymen But one whose vagina has never been penetrated by a penis.

While there are people who say a gynecologist can tell if a woman has had sexual intercourse. It is really not possible for this type of doctor to say for certain unless there happened to be semen in the vagina during a female examination.

NOTE: If you are 14 or over and you are being forced to have a female exam to see if you are sexually active you can refuse by law. You parents cannot force you to have this exam.

Under a Federal Law none as HIPPA anyone 14 or over has complete medical confidentiality over their reproductive system. What this means is parent cannot force anyone 14 or over to have an examination of this type. A parent cannot be in the exam room if your reproductive system is being examined and parents do not have the right to see your medical records or speak with your doctor concerning anything to do with the examination or treatment of your reproductive system.

Congress passed this law so young people with seek medical treatment when needed for questions or things they may be too embarrassed to go to a parent with. Your doctor or anyone in the doctors employ can be jailed for up to 5 years if they release any information without your expressed written permission to the doctor.

Should you be writing because you are being forced to go to the doctor for this type of exam? My advice is not to make a scene or fight with mom. There is a better way especially if you are sexually active in any way.

Go to the doctor, when you enter the exam room say to the nurse or doctor; "I invoke my rights under HIPPA I am ____" and state your age. The doctor or nurse will take it from there. If mom is with you she will be asked to leave the room. Then you can speak freely with the nurse and doctor about anything and everything related to your reproductive system, your sexual activity and request birth control if you want.

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday December 20 2014, 1:00 am:
No. They can tell if the hymen was stretched but not the method. They wouldn't be phased or care about this. They know it's normal with teens, older people etc as it's a form of masturbation. Nothing to be concerned about when seeing a doctor. It will never come up.

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alexus21 answered Friday December 19 2014, 11:49 pm:
Well..im not sure about fingering.but they do have doctors that specialize in women they are called Gynecologist and they can tell if you have been having sexual intercourse. (They can also noticed if you haven't.) But thats their job .they do these check ups usually around the age of 18 . They are gynecology and don't feel bad alot of women get this. It's to help keep you healthy

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