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my mom sometimes calls me fat.. but jokingly?
my mom will sometimes 'jokingly' say to me "ok chubs" or something like that. do you think she is kidding, or trying to hint that i need to lose some weight?
i've checked my bmi & i'm completely normal.. & my stomach or legs or anything aren't big either? i'm relatively the same size as my friends..?
i'm just not sure if she really thinks i'm fat or not, & i've always been really insecure about the way i look (mainly because of her i guess) & so these comments don't really help..
she always does, it's like she knows i'm all of a sudden getting confident & happy, & then makes these little remarks. but if she sees i'm upset, then she'll say oh i'm kidding. but who kids about that sort of thing?
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most of the time they do it so that they can just "drop a hint her and there" but what I suggest doing is just ask her for her honest opinion and say hey look you kinda make me feel bad and want to know the truth, am I fat or are you just saying that to be funny. If its the funny part say can you please stop and see what she says and if it is about your weight that's really up to you because your the one who is "in" your body. It really depends how you feel about yourself :)
hope I helped.
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