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Is he thinking something else towards me?


Posted Wednesday March 22 2017, 4:15 pm

Hi, I was only wondering and trying to figure out what does it mean when a guy says if you were my partner I would have taught you how to cook those dishes so that you could cook for me everyday. And I said how about a help that makes you lazy he replied no I'm a traditional boy and smiled. Well we both smiled. I said I would prefer a little help. At the moment we're chatting along about all the foreign dishes over our lunch break at college. He's a good lad easy going plus he says to me you're a special girl (mentions my name). So how does he sound to you? Appreciate all the answers.

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Was it sexual abuse


Posted Monday March 20 2017, 5:33 pm

I'm 23 yrs old male. I am from Indonesia. Something just triggered me to ask this now. When I was a child (8 or 10 maybe), my father tend to touch my genital and i get hard (not in a fondling manner but only a poke). He sometimes kisses my ears so i get an erection too. BUT it is not in a creepy, forced, sexual way. It's more of a playful thing. He sometimes wrestle me or tickles me then does that and we just laugh

Thing is, I kinda liked the sexual stimulation i got back then. I would sometimes intentionally stay beside him to 'play'. And i think it affected me now. I just want to confirm if it really was sexual abuse or im just overthinking (I dont know if its really abuse because i also see some people touch the genitals of other young boys to tease them in public here)

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Should I Meet Up with my Ex?


Posted Monday March 20 2017, 3:36 pm

I broke up with my boyfriend of two years this past beginning of summer though we were together my sophomore, junior, and senior year with a small breakup in between. When we broke up I handled it very maturely and nicely - more than I should have been but I wanted to leave it on good terms because I genuinely care about him as a person and I told him that and explained everything for why I felt as I did. The main reason I did this was because I didn't want to leave something out in this way or handle it with anger that would make me want to reach out and get "closure." I've already realized that's pointless and stupid. So we talked it through and he was hysterical and so upset but I still went through with it because I know he's ...

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Is he flirting?


Posted Sunday March 19 2017, 3:58 am

Hey,
I accidentally touched his thigh twice while we're in the car coz he was giving me a lift to town. I said sorry. we're kidding heaps but he pointed out saying, oh,you touched my thigh, you got a soft hand and soft pinky. He's a neighbour and a friend. We go to same university and we are quite frank to each other. He's just crazy, I reckon, jokes a lot. I feel like he's flirting with me or is he messing around? What do you reckon guys? Thanks a bunch!

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he asks do you reckon I'm handsome?


Posted Saturday March 18 2017, 6:19 pm

Hi ya,

Just curious, we're having a joke and out of nowhere he asks do you reckon I'm handsome. I said not handsome but fetching and charming and he said he's never been told like that and I was the first person not to think he's handsome with a laugh. We just laughed so much afterwards. Is he being insecure? However, I can't tell even though we know each other well. Is he asking for my approval? Cheers!

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What's he saying....


Posted Saturday March 18 2017, 5:45 pm

Hello there,

A boy says,'see, you're my darling and I will do anything for you' with a smile after helping me out with a project and I told him nope, not everything with the hint of smile and we both laughed. We go to same university and became good mates. Today, he was asking me if I have a Facebook and I said, 'why do you wanna know?' so that he could add me, he said. Now, I'm aware that he has a girlfriend and he's aware that I have a boyfriend. What's going on in his mind or should I not be thinking too much out if it? Thank you.

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Problems with In laws


Posted Friday March 17 2017, 5:00 pm

Hi there. I'm looking for more opinions, and advice on a current situation i'm experiencing. I've been with my partner for 5 years now, and his parents have had a hard time accepting me, or us together. Every time I am around them they pick fights with me, or there is always confrontation. I'm not someone who likes fighting or arguing, in fact I avoid it at all costs. In the past I haven't been able to make it to every event they invite me to, and recently they took it personally (I had to work three shifts in one day and couldn't make it to thanks giving.) They decided to not invite me to family Christmas, so I had to stay home while my significant other went. Now some time has passed and they've invited me to his mother's birthday. I'm to...

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Posted Friday March 17 2017, 1:54 pm

When a friend of mine texts and I won't reply in an hour, he rings but won't leave the voicemail which is alright as I'm ok and not pushy. I don't know but seems like he's just impatient and worried if I don't reply to him immediately. Our text is just about normal everyday stuff. Just 2 or 3 texts, that's all. I fancy him and I reckon he knows that but not entirely sure. Any thoughts? Thank you all.

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robotic process automation


Posted Friday March 17 2017, 6:53 am

How robotic process automation will improve the productivity?

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abusive relationship..


Posted Thursday March 16 2017, 7:43 am

Today my boyfriend hit me, and not just once, and not consecutively...but each blow came from a burst of anger Coming out alongside aggressive words. Right to my head. Now I will say he held back (he is much bigger and if he really wanted to do damage he could have done much more). We have a long history. We dated before. He is the first real romantic partner I had who I was head over heels for. I still am. I'm totally hopelessly in love with a maniac. So the first go around we broke up because we both did not communicate our feelings well and he was also very jealous and possessive and there were problems with substance abuse. He is also or was diagnoses with Being bi polar. I take this seriously, and unfortunately I'm very patient and ove...

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What should I do? :(


Posted Wednesday March 15 2017, 11:11 pm

There's this guy in my grade who I have been friends with for a few years. Me and him liked each other 4 years ago, but never dated. We became very close this year because him and his girlfriend broke up (she broke up with him).

He went thru depression because he "loves" her. Anyway, I was there for him to get over her and I basically went through hell. We had so many fights and we dented our friendship a lot.

They were broken up for about a month and few days. I started realizing I like him again and the day I realized that was the day his gf asked him for another chance.

Since then, our friendship has been extremely shaky. I got mad at him for getting back together
with her b...

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Is this normal or OK?


Posted Wednesday March 15 2017, 5:43 pm

Hello, this is kind of an awkward question. So me and my friend are in the 9th grade and we were doing homework in my room and she fell asleep on the bed. But her feet were sticking out, so her feet were on top of the desk and they happened to be right on my notebook. I didn't want to wake her up so I just kept working with her feet in my face lol, but her toes kept wiggling a lot so I got distracted and started playing around with them.

for example I pushed her toes a few times and they would start wiggling by themselves. Then I would hold her toes still to make them stop wiggling. so I did this whenever I wanted her toes to start wiggling lol. Then I turned on the radio to see what happens, and when I pushed her toes they ...

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My mom is killing me


Posted Wednesday March 15 2017, 8:55 am

Hi 18/F .. I am in Gr12 this year and I have a lot of stress. My mom is a single parent and I have a younger sister and my grandmother lives with us. We have financial issues but I feel like my mom is taking her stress and anger out on us. I don't know what to do because she's constantly yelling at us. I can't talk to het because then she will be really angry. I can't take any more stress. Please help me?

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Exams


Posted Wednesday March 15 2017, 6:13 am

Hello. I am going to give my maths exam in May and I am very stressed. When doing a practice paper I panic, my parents are supportive they tell it is fine if I get bad marks in the practice and that it will show my weak points. I am afraid to disappoint them, I'm scared that I will get bad marks in the real test and I start to panic and get scared. I don't know what to do. I want to make my parents proud. I revise but I forget easily and that's unlike me. I am so confused. Thinking about the real exam makes me want to puke. How can I improve my weak points in maths and how can I cope with my fear? Thank you for your time.

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I want to break up with my live in boyfriend... HELP


Posted Tuesday March 14 2017, 11:27 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years (the first two years were off and on). We recently moved in with each other in May of last year. So.. almost a year. I'm 26 and he's 23. We use to fight a lot last year because I have a stable and fiscally beneficial job whereas he does not and refuses to do anything to change it. At the beginning of the year he said he would make more of an effort to find a better job but has done nothing about it. I have stopped pressuring him about it because it gets us nowhere but into pretty heated arguments. However, I pay for pretty much everything and part of me is starting to resent him. Which is probably why we get into fights a lot. You know it's crazy because I look back at the first 3 years of o...

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He's winding me up?


Posted Tuesday March 14 2017, 5:55 pm

Hi, a good friend says,' I'm only winding you up' while we're talking. He looks at my eyes and says with smiles, 'Oh, look at those eyes' coz I reckon I look really grumpy when he winds me up. Says, 'I thought you knew me, you should have known me by now' and 'I reply to him, I do know you.' I feel like he likes me and I like him too in a tiny amount. He's bought me a lunch once while we're at the college break and we just sat in the canteen and had it. He offers me a biscuits or chewing gum or chocolate if he's brought one with him. We both can be moody at times but we always have a laugh in the end. So, what's going on with him? Is he just messing about or truly likes me?? Help!! Thank you

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selfishness vs needs


Posted Monday March 13 2017, 10:43 pm

Where is the line between being selfish and taking care of your own needs? Because I often feel like, in trying not to be selfish, my own needs get left behind. Like, to a point that isn't okay with me. Is that a thing? I don't even know what I'm asking, I'm just confused.

Like, I'm doing a group project, and there's a girl in my group who insists on doing a lot of things her way, and when I ask if we can do some things differently, she claims she can't because she has anxiety and she has to do things in her way. She has a point, and I know I need to respect her needs. However, at our last project meeting, I nearly had a panic attack because I couldn't deal with the way she was doing things, but I didn't want to cause problem...

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Possible to fall for another person while in relationship??


Posted Monday March 13 2017, 5:12 pm

Hello,
Just wondering is it actually possible to fall for another person while in a relationship for few years?? We're good mates but I can't stop thinking about her. It's crazy. I don't think it's normal! Any thoughts, guys? Cheers!

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Text with smiley face!


Posted Monday March 13 2017, 8:36 am

Hi,

what does it mean when a boy mate puts a smiley face at the end of the text? I like him and been mates for a few weeks and we get on well. We do kid around however I hardly put smiley emoticons unless if I have to but he always does. What should I be thinking, guys. Everytime I see him at college, I feel like I'm falling for him which is not good because I have a bf and he has a gf therefore I feel really bad. Guys, am I a bad person? Thanks

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About missed period


Posted Sunday March 12 2017, 10:49 am

Is there any chance of missing period due to heavy,deep and longtime kissing or any physical changes?

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