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"You're so young" I'm almost 30.


Posted Thursday May 25 2017, 8:30 am

Hello. I'm 26 years old/female. I have a master's degree in education and working towards my second masters degree in school counseling. I am a full time elementary school teacher with experience in special education and ESL training. I have a second job teaching english to children in China online. I live on my own, have my own apartment and even help my mom. I receive no financial help from anyone. No one paid my way through school. Everything I have done has been on my own and I've had to work very hard to get to where I am today.

I'm 5 feet tall and have a petite stature. I have a young face simply because I have good genes. It also helps that I don't really drink or smoke. Due to my held religious beliefs, I don't reall...

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overcoming a mental illness without any help?


Posted Wednesday May 24 2017, 8:47 pm

So im not sure if i have avoidant personality disorder or social anxiety disorder but i do know my anxiety and mental health is starting to control my life and i want it to stop. My symptoms are.. not being able to take criticism or negative feedback, i always end up crying, any change of actions or change in peoples tones of voices make me feel uneasy as if the person is mad at me and again makes me cry. I dont like being the centre of attention, if something embarrassing happens to me in front of people i start panicking and my heart starts racing faster, i cant take rejection especially when its in front of people again it will make me cry, i cant deal with confrontation all it does is make me run away,and also to this day the confrontat...

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Help with a dream!


Posted Wednesday May 24 2017, 5:43 pm

I had a dream I came in my room and my boyfriend was going through my phone crying. What could this me ? It was weird my manager was in it as well.

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Jealousy after moving?


Posted Tuesday May 23 2017, 4:07 pm

So a couple months ago I moved to a new state. Me and a few of my old friends still keep in touch. Lately I've felt pretty jealous of my friends. When I call my best friend, all she talks about is what her and my other friends have been doing. I miss my old life so much. We don't talk as much anymore and it honestly really hurts, some don't even talk to me anymore. I don't blame them in any way, I know how hard long distance friendships can be. I really don't wanna talk to them about it, I've never been very good with that kind of stuff. Is there any way I can make these jealous feelings go away?

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Coworker troubles


Posted Tuesday May 23 2017, 8:51 am

A while back, I was friends with my coworkers and very close to them, until a new female employee started working and excluded me from my group of work friends. She is now dating one of the other coworkers. It is very obvious and others have been asking me if they're dating to which I answer yes. I was unaware that this was a secret. Our boss now knows. Also, the female employee texted my best friend saying that I am selfish and a bad person because I gossiped about them, rather than confronting me. P.S We are adults in a post graduate career. However, I honestly feel terrible, should I feel bad? Should I apologize? I just feel very uncomfortable at work and now get anxious about even going into work. I'm just not sure what to do about this...

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Just Complainging About a Players in my Tabletop RPG


Posted Monday May 22 2017, 6:22 pm

This is not really a question. I just want to have someone hear me bitch and talking to the people close to me could cause problems.

So I am GMing a tabletop RPG, and currently, I have one troublesome player, Lance. I have made the mistake of complaining about him to one or two of the other players. This is a bad thing to do because it makes the other players more aware of Lance's attitude and can turn the whole group against him. This is not what I want. I want everyone to have a good time, including Lance.

A little background info, we are playing Vampire the Requiem. I have made a few small chances to how exp is rewarded but other than that we are following the core rules. Before char creation I explained my ...

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My cat had kittens, but one is having trouble


Posted Sunday May 21 2017, 8:04 pm

My cat has a nasty habit of trying to escape out of the house. A few months ago when she returned from one of these events she ended up pregnant. Just this morning she went into labor and had five kittens. The fourth one was stillborn and the fifth is having trouble nursing and regulating it's body heat. It doesn't meow either, but moves around trying to find warmth. We've had the idea of placing a heating pad under then to see if it would do anything and trying to figure out how to feed the one with problems. Is there anything that I should know that might help the last kitten and bring it to a healthy, more active, state?

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my long distance relationship


Posted Sunday May 21 2017, 12:54 pm

I wrote about my problems with my LONG distance relationship and I received advice that really helped... I realised that i was the one worrying about it and everything is fine now... long distance relationship is really work and patience is required... how do I gain or achieve this patience until I see my bf

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Posted Sunday May 21 2017, 11:04 am

Hiya,
Long story, sorry. If a boy likes a girl but unfortunately (they both have a girlfriend and boyfriend) at the moment and there's no way of them breaking up but the boy wants to stay in touch with the girl forever as they are in the same class in the uni, does that mean he has a thing for her? Despite of him having a gf already and she has a bf too. Possible to like her in a romantic way??? He can't wait summer to be over because he won't see her. He acts like he likes her in a various kidding way. They've been friends since uni. She likes him too. Does he want to stay in touch because if something happens with gf in the future, he can confess or ask the uni friend out or is it just normal guy thing? They both get on and class i...

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Good two player games?


Posted Sunday May 21 2017, 8:02 am

So, I'm in a long distance relationship. Me and my boyfriend love playing games, but it's a little difficult to find games to play. We can play anything, whether it's online or needs to be downloaded. Any suggestions?

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Not sure how to move forward with my life.


Posted Sunday May 21 2017, 3:30 am

First off. Im 26 female. Full-time job. I have not had a significant other in 4 going on 5 years. My last guy left me very heartbroken. And kept reappearing in my life . which allowed him to fully move on but not me. Last august i started therapy for depression, loneyness, panic attacks and anxiety. On a good day, things are good and hopeful. On a bad day.. Im very unconfident. I feel like my friend's dont put any effort in to invite me to things, And i feel like i will always be alone.I am on 3 dating websites and it seems like no one wants me. Most of my friends are hooked up so they do not want to go out past 9pm or they dont want to go to events that i might meet people at.
I try to be strong. To be hopeful. But my some days m...

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Did this girl harrass me?


Posted Saturday May 20 2017, 8:50 pm

I was having a rough day yesterday because this girl kept saying I was talking *hit behind her back which was completely untrue, and she locked me in a classroom, and when I calmely told her I didnt have a problem with her and she was starting problems with me, she woulnt let me out. I finnaly got out, but did she harrass me? Can she get a ticket for that?


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Posted Saturday May 20 2017, 5:42 pm

Alright, he asked me for a drink if I could go with him after my lesson, I said OK. We went for a one drink and said bye with friendly hug. He wanted to have 1 more but I said may be some other time and I will pay that time. He's mentioned few times saying, oh, are you taking me for a pint? I'm feeling like, why did he ask for a drink coz this is the first time we went for a drink and it was decent. Is it because he's going away for a few weeks and we won't see each other for a while or what? I've known him for a quite a while now and we're like jokers when we see each other. I like him and I know he likes me but not entirely sure because he's got a gf. What do I think? Am I in the wrong? Thanks!

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How to give my male friend a random gift?


Posted Saturday May 20 2017, 8:53 am

So I bought a gift for a male friend of mine. Its kind of very expensive. I don't want him to think much of it or think that I want something in return because I don't. How do I give it to him? His birthday isn't even close!

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Its weird when my friends are nice to me?


Posted Saturday May 20 2017, 8:48 am

I don't know what's wrong with me tbh. My friends use to tease me A LOT in hurtful ways but that was like a year ago. I don't know what happened this year but they are much more nicer to me and it freaks me out!
I know I am suppose to be happy but It just feels so alien to me. When they are being nice I don't know how to respond or act, I get shy and nervous.
We fight sometimes and that's like the time I get to be myself.
I avoid hanging out with them because of this, I now usually hang out with another friend who teases and insults me a lot, I also insult back and feel a sense of PEACE and FREEDOM.
Oh and you must think I am some kind of bitch but I am not, I like giving and making people happy and I don't do it...

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The right way to say the time?


Posted Saturday May 20 2017, 7:29 am

Let's say its 7:45 can't I say its 45 minutes past 7 or when its 7:55 its 55 minutes past 7?? Instead of It's quarter to eight or It's 5 to 8.
People say its wrong when I say that so I was just wondering...
Sorry is this is a dumbass question but I need to clear the air!

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How can I eat and stay healthy on a low budget


Posted Saturday May 20 2017, 1:46 am

I have recently found out that I have failed 5/6 of my high school fitness tests meaning I have to take a 3rd year of p.e. due to a new law next year. My counseler said I am to sign a waiver when I turn 16 next year and I won't have to take it. Now I have come to realize that I am not flexible enough to touch my own toes without having your knees bent and can't even do a push up or sit up due to my lack of upper body stength. I have decided that since I am not going to take p.e. anymore I have to take matters of losing fat and gaining muscle into my own hands. Since I don't know how to drive and have no money the Gyms out. So I decided to workout at home with youtube videos that go through the the workouts. Now I have the workout part down ...

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What should I do with my new income?


Posted Friday May 19 2017, 2:48 am

Hello, I'm a college student so I wasn't able to have two jobs during the semester, but now it's summer and I recently started at a second job that earns 2000 a month on top of my first job where I make about $700. I have around $600 a month in bills and life expenses so you can see why before I wasn't able to save much.

Anyways, now that I have another paycheck coming in it's been hard for me to figure out what I should do with it. Especially considering I might have to quit my second job in three months when summer is over because it's not flexible and I don't know that I can manage it while taking a full load of classes too.

I owe money to three sources: a car I'm financing that has $9600 left on it, $1000 t...

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What does SEO mean?


Posted Friday May 19 2017, 2:08 am

What is SEO?

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I think I ruined a new friendship?


Posted Wednesday May 17 2017, 8:02 pm

So, I recently moved schools and I met this guy. He was the first to talk to me in my History class and I liked him from the start! As time passed he grew more distant. I asked him to join me and some of my other new friends on a trip but he declined both times. I stopped asking after that in fear he was getting annoyed. I have a really hard time talking to people so whenever he would talk to me there would be awkward moments if silence. If I get to know a person in definitely a lot more outgoing, it just takes time. Now he doesn't even talk to me or acknowledge me and I'm too scared to go up to him in fear of annoying him again. Its been a while now and I'm still upset about this. I have listened to a few of his conversations and we have a...

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