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Currently engaged, and my ex came back in the picture...
Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 1:19 am
I am currently engaged to be married... Happily engaged, if I might add. We're in the middle of planning our wedding next year... While looking at wedding invitations online... My ex, who holds a soft spot to my heart... Calls me. Begging me to come back to him. The last time I heard from him was 8 months ago. He has tore my world apart for 2 years this past October. I'm confused, because although I love my fiance, my heart is being dragged towards my ex. What should I do? Who should I pick?
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Me And My Ex Still Like Each Other But.......
Posted Friday November 7 2014, 5:55 pm
So me and my ex still like each other but he says he doesn't want to go back out but then he also said we might be going back out next year and I'm so confused on whether I should continue to like him I should just move on to someone else because I feel he thinks im just there like a toy but I'm not and I don't want to say anything because he takes things that include love or anything like that VERY SERIOUS so please tell me what should I do?????!
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I'm in love with Neil Patrick Harris.
Posted Friday November 7 2014, 3:37 am
So I'm a twelve year old girl and I'm literally in love with Neil Patrick Harris. It's so wrong because he's 41, gay, married, and has two children but I just can't help it. He makes me happy and even though I may never meet him I still love him. Help me get rid of these feelings!
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Angry! Frustrated! What's wrong with me?
Posted Friday November 7 2014, 2:45 am
I'm really really pissed! This relationship is long distance.
The man I ''Love'' I have to use it loosely,seems to not want to talk to me,and also there's a few other things I just dont like!
First off,he never calls me,we dont talk much!
He spends time going out to party,watching movies,hanging out with friends,going here,going there. And he barely pays any attention to me.
Its breaking my heart more and more and more.I don't know how much longer I can do this baloney!
Second.He is always liking sexy photos of models and women on his Instagram! I'm pretty too.I take sexy shots also.I give him enough attention.
I try my best........I give him all that I can.Im doing the best that I can.But...
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My girlfriend is still friends with her deadbeat ex?
Posted Friday November 7 2014, 1:08 am
I've been with a girl for about 6 months and she has a daughter that's almost 2. She works a lot of overtime of provide for her (she's very low income), and has pointed out that the baby daddy never wanted her and didn't do anything to help support her when they were together. She left the baby daddy shortly after her daughter was born when she lived in his state and moved back here. He has not visited his daughter since or paid barely any child support. According to her, he has never even had a job, but has an associates degree. She says she is trying to sue him for child support. Is it wrong that she still is friends with him on Facebook then? She even responds and laughs at some posts he puts up to be funny. He asks how they are doing on...
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Nervous about kissing this guy..
Posted Wednesday November 5 2014, 4:01 pm
I'm 15/f. I have kissed 6 different people before over the course of many years. Um, there's this one guy that I really really like and he likes me a lot too and it's scary because we both went to a party and I got drunk and so did he and some people said we kissed but others said we didn't wnd I don't think we did.. So I'm really nervous for tomorrow because we are hanging out and he said he wanted to kiss me to make it a for sure thing. I'm nervous as hell and my anxiety has been crazy. I need ways to calm myself?
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Long distance relationship
Posted Tuesday November 4 2014, 12:17 am
I am a 19yo female from Australia. I have been in a relationships or two years with a guy in the US. We have never met (only Skype video calls and messaging). I want to go and see him, but he fears the fact of me having to leave and come home again.He believes it will ruin things between us. I have tried everything to get his head around the whole idea, but he won't have a piece of it. What should I do? Do I just surprise show up for a month, or do I just stay away? I'm going insane not having him around. Any advice would be amazing. Thank you so much x
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We're going our separate ways. Should we end it now?
Posted Monday November 3 2014, 11:19 pm
21/f, 28/m
I have been dating this guy for about 7 months. Last night, I asked him where he saw himself in 5 years and what about 10 years. I never really asked him that question because I was afraid of the answer but I knew that I would have to figure out what he wanted anyway.
He said in five years, he'd hopefully be married--not ready for kids yet, retired (go big or go home thought), having his own business, maybe living in another place such as Denver or Austin. He asked me the same question (where I see myself in five years), I didn't answer his question. I changed the subject because in five years, I would be around 26-27 years old.
I didn't tell him, but where I see myself in five years?...
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I need advice, I'm pregnant with a man who treats me horrible.
Posted Monday November 3 2014, 1:47 pm
I'm young, 18 to be exact, and I got pregnant with a guy who's in the oil field. We only new each other for a week or so which isn't like me at all.. But now I'm pregnant and it's been three months now and he treats me horrible. I moved with him because I felt that was the best to do because we're having a child. I can't afford to raise a child by myself. He has horrible anger issues too. He's said horrible things to me like "kill urself bitch", and has even put his hands around my throat once.. He wants this child and is really excited about the kid. But he's mean to me. He talks down to me. I clean his house, do his laundry, I moved three hours away from my home to be with him. I don't know what to do... I've never felt so alone...
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Fingering
Posted Sunday November 2 2014, 7:08 pm
My bf wants to finger me? I'm ready but idk what to do while he is? And where should we? And how do I keep my vagina from smelling? Help!
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Is he attracted to me?
Posted Sunday November 2 2014, 3:38 pm
Hi, so I'm in highschool and I have noticed this guy looking at me often. Like, very often. I talked to my sister about this and she said that he is a nice guy and we are acquaintanced. I catch his eyes literally following me everywhere and I am not sure if he finds me pretty or not. We were in class and I caught him staring at me and once I looked up to stare back he quickly averted his eyes. Another time, this week, he was paying for his lunch and he looked back as if searching for someone and he looked at me. That's not the first time he's done that. we talked while getting food. This week, he'd look at me frequently again. I was in the line to get food and he was in the line to pay and he looked as if he was searching for someone and he...
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Troubled
Posted Sunday November 2 2014, 6:47 am
I actually like 2 of classmates. Now, I think have a crush on one of them more but I think also a crush on the other guy because he said he like me jokingly but I treated it seriously. Both of the guys are awesome. What should I do?
Troubled
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i want to be raped or have sex at 11
Posted Friday October 31 2014, 5:32 pm
i want to have sex or be raped but i am only 11 and a girl!!
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Telling boyfriend you don't want to leave family?
Posted Friday October 31 2014, 1:45 am
I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for years, until his family moved to Alabama. I chose to stay behind to take care of my grandparents. They raised me, I feel I owe them. Now Nick's back and pushing me to choose him over family again.
How do I tell him that while I do love him, I would be unhappy living far away from my family?
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How to stop overthinking interacting with my crush
Posted Friday October 31 2014, 1:29 am
I'll be the first to admit, I am horrible talking to guys I'm interested. Its like I can't get out of my own head and over think every single interaction. It's terrible. But with this new guy I like, will call him *Eric,*I want to not think so much. He is in two of my classes, and I just recently started being interested because he did a presentation in my one of our class and I was oh wow your really cute. So here we are. We haven't spoken at all, he knows my name, because I had to do a presentation too. Um, but that's about it, we have no interaction at all. So, I really want to talk to him, but I don't even know what to say. Like I said, I over think everything, its huge fault of mine, I just really don't want to do that with Eric. Cause...
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I am very confused!
Posted Wednesday October 29 2014, 8:35 pm
About a year ago, a guy and myself (a girl) were partners in a class for an entire year and we got along really well. He is a really good friend of one of my best friends and is genuinely a nice sweet guy. He is or was dating a girl who absolutely hates me. This hatred started last year and still lasts now. We are still partners in the same class and today when I walked over to the computer to help him, he blushed and was more awkward then usual and his friends started messing with him. I also make sure he does good in the class because I understand it well. In addition to this, two of my friends and one of his friends think that I like him and he feels the same. Today, he said that he does not have a girl friend and today the girl was real...
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Depression and a relationship
Posted Wednesday October 29 2014, 1:25 pm
24/f
I have come to realize that I more than likely have depression. There are days where I just feel like there's a dark cloud over me. I will sleep for 12 hours and still feel exhausted and just be super negative and sad. Sometimes I will cry for a long time before bed for no reason and feel really hopeless even if I've had a good day. There seems to be no way to tell when it's coming or how long it will last. It doesn't appear to be caused by anything in my life- I have an amazing boyfriend of two years and am going to school for something I love. I did have a bad childhood (abusive family) but don't feel that's relevant anymore.
My boyfriend and I live together, and my "episodes" are becoming increasingly...
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How to forget someone I love?
Posted Wednesday October 29 2014, 3:50 am
I have loved this guy for 6 years now. I dated him for the first 3 of those.
So things ended a long time ago. They ended on a good note, but with good reasons.
We said we'd be friends, but we very seldom communicate.
We have moved on since then, but we aren't over each other. We recently talked about it, why are we not together?
And its true that we aren't compatible, we drive each other crazy.
I know being apart is for the best, but it still hurts.
How do I stop missing him?
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How to communicate with him
Posted Tuesday October 28 2014, 12:21 pm
21/f, 27/m
We've been dating for about 6 months but we don't see each other as often. I only see him once a week, there are four weeks within a month, so that means I've seen him at least 24 times (which is not a lot in my opinion).
I asked him last night if he feels like we've been improving and he told me that he's worried about my emotional well-being. I didn't understand at first but eventually he just told me that he's worried about my emotional well-being, that was the main thing he was worried about being with me.
I have depression and anxiety disorder. I didn't want to take medication for it, I tried going all natural (working out, doing things I feel like I can enjoy) to release the che...
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I am the "other woman" and I want to know if that's how it will always be.
Posted Monday October 27 2014, 8:33 pm
I'm 16 and I've had a thing with a guy that's 8 years older than me, since I was 14. He's had the same girlfriend since we started. They have two kids together. He tells her all the time that he doesn't want to be with her though and he tells everyone close to him, including her and his own mother, that he's leaving her when I turn 18, to be with me, since it's technically illegal with me still being a minor. I've known him my whole life, and he's stuck to the same thing since we started this crazy thing. Do you think he'll really leave her to be with me? And if it affects anything, the kids aren't really his, but he raises them.
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