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How do I deal with coworkers talking crap bout me everyday in spanish?


Posted Tuesday January 9 2018, 8:34 pm

I'm 24 and these ladies at work keep talking crap about me behind my back/when they think I’m not listening. These ladies are around my age and talk about me in Spanish. They also make racial comments like calling me a mayate. I understand every word. I want to avoid confrontation since I don't want to work in a hostile environment. All that would do is make them more hostile toward me and they’re really popular. I really doubt they would get fired since they've been there for years. I've only been there for 1. I should also mention that I don't do anything wrong. I’m nice, but quiet and will help with work if anyone asks. I work very hard and don't talk to them. I'm not mean or cold, I say hi and goodbye, but I never tell people abo...

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Boyfriend says you’re very raunchy!


Posted Monday January 8 2018, 8:46 pm

Hi my boyfriend of 4 months day, you’re very raunchy in bed and very loud in bed and I love it. What does he mean by that? Is that a good thing? I mean we do love each other and known for a year before we recently started to date also he talks dirty with a lot, says he’s trying to get me into positions that we’ve never tried before. Not me but he sends pictures and says do you like that I can do that for you to please you. He’s 29 and I’m 28. A very nice boy. So guys explain please what’s he saying. I mean we both love sex very much he loves it as much as I love it. Thank you all!

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Ordering snacks online!


Posted Monday January 8 2018, 7:12 pm

I play this game online where you get free stuff in the mail called very dice. You get tickets to reedeem items by watching videos and doing surveys. I was wondering if I would get snacks like Debbie cakes and chips and other things like that from this app would they still be fresh? It usually takes 2 days for the prizes to come. If anyone else would want to play please use my referral code 1479361.

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I'm so done with this guy!


Posted Monday January 8 2018, 1:24 pm

Me and this kid, lets call him Liam, have been friends since I moved to thia school. He had a girlfriend at the time, and me and her were good friends. Me and Liam often ride the bus home together since we have the same bus route. We were riding home one day and he got a boner. I understand, it happens sometimes, especially to teenagers, so I let it slide. After that he started telling me things that you only tell certain people, like his fetishs and personal stuff like that. I pretended like it was fine, but it really wasn't. I regret doing that. He really crossed the line when he started masturbating on the bus beside me, and then putting that hand on me. I pretended like it was okay again. I have a problem with being way too passive, and...

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Don't know what to wear to the beach?


Posted Monday January 8 2018, 1:10 pm

My school is going to Florida, and my teacher is taking us down to the beach. I can swim alright, but I feel really self conscious in a swimsuit. I'm on the heavier side, and I have stretch marks. What would be an apporpiate thing to wear on the beach that doesn't show much skin, and doesnt attract anyones attention?

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Animating question


Posted Sunday January 7 2018, 7:45 pm

So I've been thinking about getting into animation, perhaps doing it on youtube. If you want an idea of what kind of thing I'm looking at, google animatics. I've been practicing drawing characters, and I understand the basic idea of how these things work, but I don't know how you make it look like the characters you draw have emotions. I mean, how do you make the characters look sad, happy, angry, etc? I notice other creators can do it and it's deeper than just the shape of their mouth.

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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Troubles


Posted Sunday January 7 2018, 6:34 pm

hi,

I've been diagnosed with OCD since last year. There are many types of OCD (contamination, harm, reassurance, etc), and can generally be a shapeshifter when it comes to any of these types or their symptoms. Recently I just "graduated" from an outpatient ERP therapy, which took all of my physical symptoms away completely, but my mental attributes are still lingering, still shapeshifting, and getting worse a bit. I'm on medication, which helps, but right now I feel like my intrusive thoughts contribute more to my mental state then my actual thoughts, and it's draining, stressing. I feel deprived of my own mind, I can't look at a baby, hear any form of screams or see any form of violence in a movie or a tv show, I c...

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My feet hurt really bad when I have to stand/walk for a long time.


Posted Sunday January 7 2018, 11:01 am

Are there any special shoes or Inserts that I can wear? I have to walk/stand a lot at my job at a restaurant. It hurts so bad that I start limping and when I finally get to sit and stand back up I walk weird hunched over in pain. I have flat feet and my feet are really sore.

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Severe Acid Reflux/Gerd help


Posted Sunday January 7 2018, 7:57 am

My best friend has severe acid reflux. She has it as a result of an incident that happened about 5 or 6 years ago that I do not know all of the details for, but I think it resulted in holes starting to form in her stomach? I am not completely sure, regardless she has severe acid reflux as a result that started really affecting her close to 3 years ago.

It os bad enough that if she throws up and if she throws up it will burn any skin it touches and leave blisters that can last anywhere from a couple days to a couple weeks.
It also causes her severe daily pain. She broke her foot and walked on it for hours without shedding a single tear, but her GERD will have her in tears if she doesn't have her medicine in time.
...

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Major crush on this girl


Posted Sunday January 7 2018, 4:40 am

So, I do livestreams on my instagram quite a lot (like 3 or 4 times a week), and everything usually goes quite smoothly,until this girl joins. My heart starts beating really fast and I have to be very careful not to embarrass myself on the stream, but I'll either end up hesitating a lot or speaking really fast without taking a breath. A lot of the time when this girl joins, I move the camera to anywhere but my face, as I go red very easily and don't want people to see my redness on camera. For example, the other day I was streaming at 1AM, there was no people watching for a while and I read out a story I had made. However she joined, which caused me to point the camera at the story and not me. It was very shaky camera work however, and I d...

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How to avoid this annoying guy


Posted Sunday January 7 2018, 4:17 am

OK, so I'm in a few classes with this guy, but I sit near him in my history class, and whenever I'm trying to do my work, he tries starting a conversation with me, usually about personal matters, like how hungover I was. I probably should have expected questions like that because I regrettably posted pictures of my drinking on social media. I had a drink called Magners, and he mocked me for it saying "Why did you have to drink the CHEAP Strongbow?" We all have different tastes and personally I don't think Strongbow would taste nice. Plus I don't come from the richest family in the world, and they probably thought Strongbow was too expensive (this was at a new year party). A lot of people made little digs at the alcohol situation b...

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Crying nonstop and constant gloom


Posted Saturday January 6 2018, 8:09 pm

I'm a 14 year old female. Sometimes randomly when I'm waking up or going to bed I'll start thinking depressing thoughts about my life and start sobbing. This happens often, and several times a day I'll start sobbing for no apparent reason or something small will trigger my tears. My mood goes from extremely happy and excited to extremely depressed very quickly throughout the day without any real triggers and it just makes me feel very empty inside.

I can't shake this feeling that nobody cares about me and that everybody hates me. I really wish I could tell somebody how I feel but the words just won't come out of my mouth. Often times I have trouble identifying the feelings with myself. I feel so far away and so distanced from...

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Appendix surgery and menstruation


Posted Saturday January 6 2018, 5:35 am

I am from Lithuania.

I had appendicitis about ten days ago, but only it was but got surgery six ago since it was a rather complicated case. I am due on my period starting tomorrow, and don't know whether or not it could get affected. My period isn't very consistent, but it usually is early rather than late. I have not shown any symptoms yet, and that concerns me, since I usually have severe abdominal pain right before my period begins. I am afraid that it may begin and I might confuse that pain with something being wrong with my surgery, since my body has taken too well to be true to it so far. Can my period be messed up after I have appendix surgery?

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Alopecia


Posted Saturday January 6 2018, 1:24 am

I haven't gone to see a doctor yet, but I think I may have developed alopecia (areata). Has anyone had alopecia or knows anyone who's had it? Can it be cured?


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I’m I want to give my bf a boner without doing something crzy


Posted Saturday January 6 2018, 12:58 am

I am 14 and I want to give my boyfriend a boner. I’ve sat on his lap, made out with him and everything and I have never seen a boner. Help!

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What can I do?


Posted Friday January 5 2018, 9:34 pm

I'm a student, in my second year of university, and I'm starting to look at possible jobs for this summer. I'm just not sure what kind of job to look for, because I'm not sure what kind of job I'll be able to handle.

You see, the past two summers I've had the same job. For 8 weeks, I worked 6 (or less) hour days where I mostly just interacted with one or two other people, and the work was not overly stressful. At the end of every day, I would go home mentally and emotionally exhausted. I almost had a breakdown at work a few times because I was so tired. At the end of the summer I was completely done.

This summer, I need to find a job with more hours that lasts more like 14-16 weeks so I can afford to pay for sc...

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I’m finally ready for a relationship but?


Posted Wednesday January 3 2018, 2:35 pm

I say this a lot but I honestly think I’m finally ready to have a relationship (I’m 19 and still never been in one). The only problem is if you’ve seen my previous questions I’ve had serious anxiety around attractive guys. I’m introverted and socially awkward in general, no matter who you are whether we’ve been friends for a long time or not. If we talk I’m pro at giving awkward silences they’re not awkward for me but i can tell it’s awkward for the person talking to me cause they try to continue the convo but I don’t really have much to say (especially if I don’t know you). Sometimes I’ll have days where I just won’t talk if we’re in the car cause there’s nothing to say. I can talk to my family just fine (only...

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Having a relationship with my grandmother again


Posted Tuesday January 2 2018, 2:44 pm

This is probably jumbled and random. I'm a little upset, so I apologize. Thank you in advance.

When I was little, my maternal grandmother lived with us a lot. I had a very close relationship with her, as I do with my mother. Her whole life she's had a hard time with personal relationships, and she's moved around and met different men, none of which have been pleasant. Right now she lives with an old man with a farm, and he's a little off his rocker, and doesn't like to go out or be around people, and besides getting anxious sometimes, he isn't that bad of a guy. However, they have this idea that they just cannot leave the farm unless they need something because they might get sick, and of course, they can't afford that. I hav...

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I lied to my father about my marks and next week I have pta meeting


Posted Monday January 1 2018, 6:34 am

I lied to my father about my marks and next week I have pta meeting.I got 34/70 in physics.I don't want my father to come to pta meeting.I don't know what to do.please help me

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Housing plans fell through, what should I do next?


Posted Sunday December 31 2017, 12:42 pm

Long story short my friend who I had planned to have move in with me for months and take over half the rent decided last minute that she wanted to keep living at home. This is a problem for me because my current roommate already decided she's getting a place with her fiance and now I'm stuck with either a $1600 apartment that I don't have the means to afford by myself or finding a place alone, which I'm also not sure I have the means to afford.


I've been trying to find another roommate via online services, but nothing is working.

My issue is although I work I currently have other bills that are around $600 a month and that doesn't include groceries, gas, etc., so I'm limited on how much I can afford for...

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