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is she gonna answer


Posted Monday May 18 2015, 1:47 pm

i work with this lady got her number on thursday tuesday is gonna be a week its gonna be that day that is she gonna pick up the phone so if she doest pick the phone should a wait a week to call back self-confidence.discipline.challenge is the key

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My parents won't accept my boyfriend.


Posted Monday May 18 2015, 9:43 am

20/f
I have recently met a guy who I am now dating. He is two years older than me. To me,he's the sweetest guy in the world,he loves me,he tries hard to make me happy,he treats me like a queen. But there is one problem,so to speak. His hearing is damaged so he wears hearing aid. I told my family today and their reactions are far from what I had expected. They reacted as if it were some dangerous contagious disease. He hasn't even been born like that,his ear got damaged later in life. My grandma even accused him of lying,even though he's been honest with me since day 1. My mom called him disabled. I don't even dare to tell my dad. I generally live in an environment where people are extremely judgmental. But I thought my family was bet...

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those girls everyone loves: is there hope for the rest of us?


Posted Sunday May 17 2015, 12:44 pm

so i recently lost 2 guys to them being into other girls. first this guy i was dating decided to get back togehter with his ex and then i found out this guy i was starting things with was also starting something w this other girl. in both cases the girls are those classic pretty girls that manipulate every guy into falling in love with them. i happen to know that both of them have 10 different guys wrapped around their fingers and have always been like that, i cant for the life of me figure out whats so special about them tho. i know theres always those girls that just make every boy love them and not that im entirely unable to get people interested in me but just cant match thier level. i was wondering if anyone has any words of wisdom as...

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boys opinion: does physical attraction mean they like you


Posted Sunday May 17 2015, 12:36 pm

so i had tension with this guy pretty much all year, and finally a few weeks ago he told me he was into me and asked me out and then we hooked up the next day at a party, he later decided we cant go out because hes dealing with a lot of stuff with his family and whatever so called it off at least for now and we kind of stopped speaking. then last night we were at a party and talking a lot about everything he was saying how much he liked me etc and kept trying to kiss me, i initially pushed him away a lot but ended up kissing for a bit. i just found out though that hes been speaking to this other girl a lot and apparently likes her too, shes in another country tho so forsure nothing physically happened. do you think in general him being phys...

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My confused sexuality...


Posted Sunday May 17 2015, 12:16 pm

So im a 13 year old girl and my best friend is a girl. She is bi. She has a huge crush on me but she is also always pointing out really cute girls. Lately I have been getting really jealous every time she does and I think I might have feelings for her but I also think I like this guy. So am I bi or am i just confusing friendship with love? What should I do?

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Its only been a month and I want out of my relationship, but I don't? ah


Posted Saturday May 16 2015, 1:09 pm

So I'm 17/f and im in a relationship with this incredible guy. He treats me better than any other guy has ever did. He tells me how much he loves me all the time and all the details as to why and hes always there to help and support me. Hes amazing. But ever since we got into a relationship a month ago, I feel trapped. Before we started going out I already felt as if we belonged to each other and we talked everyday and it felt great and everything. But now I feel like all I do is think about being with other guys.. and how sad it is that it didnt work out with other guys I really liked. Its absolutely awful and theres no reason for the way im feeling. I think it might be an immaturity thing? Or I have committment issues possibly? Im not sur...

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masturbation


Posted Friday May 15 2015, 9:29 pm

i started masturbating a few months ago i'm 13 male it feels really good i have started masturbating a lot more lately sometimes i get sexual urges i'm not ready for sex there's nothing wrong with masturbating a lot is there?

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We have swapped and now for me its more than just sex Did i cross the line?


Posted Thursday May 14 2015, 9:43 pm

Ok so me and my husband swap partners. but its my first time and his. but here's the twist It's his dad and stepmother were swapping with. Me and her are bisexuals and weve messed around too. But now I think ive got feelings for his dad. Plus we all just did the swap once so far but before that night was planned I had sex with his dad twice beforehand when I was drinking with them. but now me and his dad kiss each other secretly goodbye and makeout and tell each other I love you and I really mean it. And its almost like he's hypmotized me with his gorgeous brown eyes which my husband also does to me. So do I just go along with the swapping like nothing or tell my husband the truth and get divorced and stay out of his dad and stepmoms relat...

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I CAN'T TRUST MY GIRLFRIEND


Posted Thursday May 14 2015, 10:59 am

Hi..i'm from India M/32. I have a girlfriend.we are in a relation since 2010. She is beautiful lovely and very educated.we both wanted to marry.everything was right but 1year ago i came to know that she had an affair in her school days.i asked her and she agreed.she doesn't told me anything about it before i asked! Her ex bf's friend tell me that they had very intimate relation and had sex.when i asked my girl,she denied it and claimed that i am her first man whom she had sex 2times. But i can't trust because when we had sex she doesn't bleed. I can't trust her anymore.she hidden everything about her past.she told me that her past relation was very abusive,her ex tortured her so she breakup,she told me she wanted to tell me but she affaird ...

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obsession


Posted Wednesday May 13 2015, 12:23 am

so I broke up with my GF over 8 months ago, she's moved on, living with someone now. I only found this out 2 weeks ago. We all 3 happen to work at the same place, although we rarely if ever see one another. I'm finding myself becoming obsessed with them. What are they doing, are they together, where are they. I hate doing these things, but, like I said it's really becoming an obsession. HELP! How do I stop this unhealthy behavior?

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There would be relationship?!


Posted Tuesday May 12 2015, 11:56 pm

I have a friend and we went out together several times but he has not asked me for relationship yet and im confused!:( hes a quiet and shy boy but we are friends for 2 months now
Im not sure if i should expect a relationship or not.....
I didnt go out with any other boy this 2 months
Im not american. Im a 20-year old girl

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I don't think so


Posted Tuesday May 12 2015, 8:49 pm

So this lady in my apartment we talk sometime I've known her for a while now but haven't really talk to her but one day I had the guts to talk to her so lately we have been talking so one day I went up to her got her number 2days ago called her up at around 6 she didn't pick up her phone but about 20 minutes later she called 2 left a message 2 yesterday when she called back I was too busy to called back so today at around 7 called 1 but she didn't pick the phone my thinking was no big deal cause I see her around in the apartment but my question is was it too soon to call back or was it just rigth

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i dont know what to do about having sex with an older guy


Posted Tuesday May 12 2015, 5:01 pm

Hi i am 16 and i realized that i like older guys when i was 14.i have dated guys more than 5yrs older than me . I feel really bad about it but mostly only guys are attracted to me also. I am virgin still but i really want to havr sex with my now ex who is more than 7yrs older than me. We only broke up because his aunt told him to wait... i stay away from him since i dont want anything bad to happen because his aunt will take this matter to the police. I still feel sexually attracted to him and i cant move on. My 19yrs old friend i think likes me and i dont think i like him like that because i still like my ex. I am confused because my friend and i cant be together becausr of religious issues and i know fot a fact i l...

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I want to make out with a girl that I know!!


Posted Tuesday May 12 2015, 3:31 pm

I have a crush on a girl and I want to get close to her but i don't know how.I reckon that She indirectly show that she has feelings for me but i want to verify them.We hang out and play together.
In addition, I want to get close to her and indirectly verify if she has also some feelings for me too but I don't know how.Another problem is that I think a friend of mine has also some feelings for her too and i want to make out with her before he does.
Taking everything into consideration, i would like to give me some advice about my thorny issue.I appreciate any advice you give me.


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A Fork in the Road


Posted Tuesday May 12 2015, 1:02 am

I am an American citizen married to a Mexican citizen, and I live in Mexico City. I work as an English teacher and am very happy with my job and have great friends here. The problem is my marriage of 4 years. My husband is a serial cheater and liar. He has taken money from me, and has racked up so much debt that we have lost our house. He has physically threatened me, and has a Jeckyll and Hyde personality that I am always very careful of. We are currently in the process of divorce. I basically have 2 options right now. The first option would be to take off and bolt for the USA, leaving him to complete the divorce process on his own here in Mexico, and I could start a new life with my mom in Tucson, or go to San Diego with my daughters who ...

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was it a bad idea


Posted Monday May 11 2015, 4:50 pm

ok so my question was it a bad idea that i bought something yesterday i work with this lady yesterday was a mothers day in the restaurant its our busy day of the year ok so i know that when you guys are not official its a bad idea to get somebody with a gift it just puts you on a friend zone ohhh your a nice my thinking was ok its not gonna hurt to get her a small bottle of water that water cost me $1.45 my thinking i wanted her to think that i care lately she has been asking me to hangout with her i have never given her a direct answer yes lets go my strategies was i have all the time in the world to surely build attraction patient.discipline.selfcontrol is the key to lady heart do was it a bad idea that i got her a bottle my strategie...

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In love and can't get out of it.


Posted Monday May 11 2015, 3:55 pm

Alright, So there is this boy, he's super cute, athletic and funny. We have had a thing going on for a while now but he has a girlfriend and they just recently started dating. Her and I are 2 way different people and honestly I think he's doing to make me jealous. We still talk and he's always saying that he remebers the little dates we had and how great it was when we kissed. I am completely in love with this boy and I know he's not good for me so how do I tell him how I feel?

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Does long distance relationship last?


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 9:15 pm

Details:
We've been friends for two months before we got together
When we got together, we were separated after two weeks
We are now 5000 miles apart
We always talk and text
We get to see each other only once a year
We love each other so much

Do you think it'll last?

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Daddy issues.


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 12:42 pm

I need whoever is reading this to keep an opened mind about how im feeling and why im feeling this way. Ive had daddy issues growing up, my dad is emotionally shut and doesnt really talk to me, infact he doesnt really talk to anyone in the house. He doesnt even know how to give us a proper hug without it being awkward, he doesnt ever tell me he loves me or that he wants the best for me. Never taught me how to drive, never helped me much in life. Never pays for anything, I work and am completely dependent on myself. I realized this starting to become an issue when I started getting into relationships, at first I didnt want it to affect my life in such a terrible way. I thought to myself that its okay that I dont have a good relationship wit...

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Why do people do PDA?


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 12:32 pm

It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable ...

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