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I'm in an abusive relationship


Posted Monday August 6 2018, 6:17 pm

I've come to realize it over the years. I won't get into too much detail because I don't see the point of describing all the abuse that has been endured. What I will say it that it has become very difficult to leave. I feel as though I cannot end things. The idea of ending the relationship makes me feel very anxious and afraid. Why is this? Why can I not leave, even though I have come to terms with the fact that I am being abused.

Advice and wisdom is appreciated.
27/f

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What does it mean when a person says you think the world owes you something


Posted Friday August 3 2018, 2:43 am

What does it mean when a person says “kids these days think that the world owes them something”? Is that rude?

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Living on my own/ how to do so as a young adult??????


Posted Thursday August 2 2018, 9:47 pm

So I’m 17 years old, I’ll be 18 in September, I am a senior in high school. I need advice on how to live on my own, what I will need, what I need to do and how to approach it all. My parents will not allow me to get a car, phone, or license as long as I live under their roof. I do not have a lot of money or anywhere near a lot. I have approximately 75$ in my checking acc and 60$ in my savings. I owe my step father 210$ for a military camp they sent me too. I do have a decent paying job but I am on edge with them due to my mom not liking driving me back and forth. I need to know what I will need, what I need to do, how to approach getting that stuff and finishing high school. I’m honestly lost and I hope someone can assist me and point me in the correct direction.

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why does everyone have to comment on this?


Posted Thursday August 2 2018, 8:06 pm

Every time I’m talking to someone if they’re blunt enough they’ll ask me “why does your voice sound like that?” Or “are you tired? Your voice sounds tired” or “why does your voice sound sad?” Other people would compare my voice to kourtney kardashian who has an extremely monotone voice. It’s gotten to the point where I’m so self-conscious I don’t even talk at all. I remember in grade 6 these two boys were making fun of my voice asking why I talked like that and ever since then I barely talked. I only talked when I had to. Then again in high school whenever I did talk different people would comment on my voice. Then it gotten to the point where apparently my face doesn’t have emotion either when I talk so according ...

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Singing voice


Posted Thursday August 2 2018, 12:32 pm

So I've been improving my singing voice lately, I definetly feel it, but I'm not sure what I need to do in order to take it a step further...

One thing I notice is that my singing voice changes based on the circumstances. So, if I'm in drama club or something and I'm singing a solo or in front of a lot of people I sing far better than by myself or even in a small group of people. I think perhaps I operate better under stress, or what.

Either way, I wish practicing a song at home would be a better indication of how I'll sound in front of other people. But I'm insecure singing around my family in particular for reasons I won't get into, and I'll often be telling myself to sing quieter.

In addition,...

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Posted Thursday August 2 2018, 3:51 am

How do I get access to Calculator in Firefox? Using Windows 7.

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HOME CARE HEALTH AIDE????


Posted Wednesday August 1 2018, 11:06 pm

I'M INTERESTED IN BECOMING A CALIFORNIA HOME CARE AIDE AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW CAN I WORK FOR TWO FAMILY MEMBERS ONCE I COMPLETE MY TRAINING ( I.E. GRANDMOTHER, AUNT)OR AM I ALLOWED TO HELP ONE FAMILY MEMBER ONLY I.E. AUNT? IM BEING PAID BY THE AGENCY






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I feel like I don’t belong anywhere?


Posted Wednesday August 1 2018, 12:23 am

Growing up I’ve always struggled with friend groups and keeping friends. So for years I’ve been searching for that friend group where I belong but no luck. Today I was hanging with a couple of my work friends and some of them are already best friends and consider themselves sisters. I was in the car with them and I almost started crying (obviously I didn’t) because it was so nice seeing a group of friends and it looked like a movie. I’ve never had a group of best friends like that and I just feel like I don’t belong anywhere what do I do?

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Is weird people attracting a trait?


Posted Tuesday July 31 2018, 7:34 am

So my entire family has this thing where we can attract weird people. It sounds weird but trust me it's a thing. It's like they know we see weirdos a ton so they come over for looooong chats and ask for a ride. There is one person in the neighborhood that walks from Walmart to his house (the neighborhood is really close) on a daily basis and he will only ask our family for a ride. Ten cars could be on the road and he would only flag our family over. At concerts we will bump into strangers that seem to know us and have 2-4 year old children that can name Themselves. I'm wondering if this is a trait PR some kind of super power I'm a male and I am a bit shorter than average I wear darker colors and basketball shorts or windbrealers. I ...

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My question is about the vagina and how to please yourself while trying to


Posted Sunday July 29 2018, 12:24 am

What happens if there is clear mucus stuff coming out your vagina all the time. Before you start your period and after. What is it i basicly mean to say. And it also smells like must what is it?

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What are a Patient Care Tech's Duties in a hospital?


Posted Saturday July 28 2018, 3:20 pm

I wanted to know what exactly does a PCT do in the hospital and what are thier duties in a long term care facility ? Also what are the starting pay rate ? Would you pict unit secretary over PCT for experience ?

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Does a Patient Care Technician get paid more than a CNA?


Posted Saturday July 28 2018, 12:30 am

Does being a PCT mean that you are able to actually DO MORE than a CNA??

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Is 10,000 BTU Window Air Conditioner good for a small bedroom?


Posted Friday July 27 2018, 2:22 am

Should I get 5,000 btu or 10,000. The lowest is $140 for 5,000 and $285 for 10,000. Which one is better?

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Losing best friend of 20 years


Posted Tuesday July 24 2018, 10:59 pm

I found out about this last month and it’s still killing me inside. I turn 20 next year. My cousin/ex-best friend just turned 20 last month. We are exactly 2 months and 10 days apart. We have pictures together when we were infants and have always been inseparable. We both have always had trust issues, but she is the only person I finally came to trust. We opened up how we both went through depression and were self harmers. We used each other as support to help us through this time and only trusted each other. We also drank together and snuck out when we were 16. I just finished my second year of college and I’m in SGA. I helped out with the school dance and went with my friend Ericka. My ex-best friend helped me get ready. My parents ar...

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What is the best brand SMART TV to buy for $300 or less? Is TCL Roku good?


Posted Tuesday July 24 2018, 4:06 pm

I’m just trying to spend $300or less.

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My younger friends are stressing me out over my spending habits


Posted Tuesday July 24 2018, 8:16 am

I just turned 26, and my two closest friends are only 2 years younger. I wish I could throw caution to the wind and spend all of my hard earned money the second it hits my bank account like they do, but I cant. I treat myself here and there but there's bigger things I want to do. Trips I want to take. A place of my own. I respect the fact that my friends can throw away money like it's nothing because they don't have any responsibilities but the ones to themselves and theres nothing wrong with that. The issue and question is why cant they accept the fact that I don't want to? I'm just tired of being picked at for not dropping hundreds (sometimes thousands) of dollars just because they want me to and because I can. What do I do?

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Posted Monday July 23 2018, 4:53 pm

I'm 16. I consider myself straight and had never done anything with another girl until this summer. My friend persuaded me to experiment and I found I really enjoy doing things with her. Part of it is because there's no worrying about getting pregnant. We can just have fun.

We've had a couple sleepovers this summer. We told her parents we were just gonna stay up late and watch movies and stuff. But after they'd gone to bed we would have sex.

I'm struggling with what all this means. Am I really not straight but gay? Or bi? Should I bother worrying about it? Or should I relax and just enjoy it?

I also worry about how her parents and mine will react if they ever find out. They're really conservative.

What do you think I should do?

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Confused


Posted Monday July 23 2018, 2:22 pm

Hey, I met this guy a week ago. He grabbed my attention once I met him.. he took me out twice. On the second day he asked if i ever gotten my feet’s licked and my butt. Lol that sounded weird. I told him if he is only looking for sex to let me k ow because am not trying to waste my time. He told me no that he finds me attractive etc. But after that day he havent written back to me. I don’t know if to hit him up or what . What do you think of this hun ? Thanks

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Falling too hard for my boyfriend of less than a month?


Posted Monday July 23 2018, 12:43 am

To start we're both in our mid 20's and young professionals. It's been a while since either of us have seriously dated anybody, but we get along so well and I really want things to work out long term. I've honestly never felt that way before about anybody and although I wouldn't say I'm "in love" with him yet, I do think he's absolutely amazing and I would be devastated if we broke up because I think we could go so far together.

Due to this I've been doing everything I can to make him happy. I don't complain about anything and I've been going out of my way to do sweet things for him.

I've honestly never thought so much of somebody before and I have a lot of respect for him.

I also real...

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gym anxiety


Posted Sunday July 22 2018, 11:17 am

I know that this sounds crazy. This "gym anxiety" isn't what you think. It's not as though I'm nervous to go because I think people are going to judge me or anything like that. I use to be a gym rat. I was there twice a day or once a day, but at least 2-3 hours. At this point, I was already diagnosed with an eating disorder and I was excessively thin.

Until one day, I had a really severe panic attack at the gym.

Recently, I started getting back into fitness. Not that crazy though. Not that intense. I started walking and eventually jogging for about an hour each day. I felt great. But, I live in Florida and it started to get super got outside as the summer months drew close, so I got a gym membership ...

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