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Is it weid/creepy for a 19 year old to date a 17 year old?


Posted Saturday December 3 2016, 4:01 pm

Is it socially acceptable? What do you think?

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Should I approach him or is it all in my head?


Posted Friday December 2 2016, 9:52 am

So there's this guy in two of my lectures and one of my tutorials (smaller class with like 20 people) and he's in my major as well. Anyways long story short one day in class he sat like across from me and I noticed him always looking back in my direction, at first I thought he was looking at someone else or some pretty girl behind me but my friend called it out and said "that guy keeps looking at you" but I just shrugged it off. Then a couple days later the other lecture class he used to sit near the back away from my point of view now all of a sudden he sits in the front row which is 2-3 rows away from me (depends which row I sit in) and he's been sitting there for a month now and sometimes he would take glances at me when studen...

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Boring guy


Posted Thursday December 1 2016, 8:38 pm

Hello, I have a bit of a problem and was wondering if I can get some advice. So there is this guy, I'm F/20 and he is M/24 by the way, he’s completely fallen for me, wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and he has told me that he loves me many times. He lives 3 hours away from where I live so we only see each other once in a while. I’ve known this guy since I was 14 through our family. This guy is everything a woman could ever need. He is dependable, kind, intelligence, …etc.etc.. The problem is that I want to give him a chance but he is so damn boring. We have the most boring conversations ever. All we really do is say hello, how are you, how was your day,…etc.etc. My soul and mind crave for deep, rich, auth...

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being a fool for love please help


Posted Wednesday November 30 2016, 2:31 am

Hi I'm a 23years old lady with two kids a boy and a girl whit the same guy and give being wit him for over 9 to 10 years by this guy has never stopped mixing me wit other ladies i mean he always cheated on me n wen I find out I always go back home but he always come to get me back n one time went back home n i decided to just forget about him n move on II try to meet new people but I ended up being wit him again n he tosured me for being wit others n dat time he also had other people in his life n we got back together he tried to show love n keep on saying he loves me and I'm de woman he want to spend his life wit bcoz of the love I have for him I believed him. Not long after all dat he went back to Wat he is good at wish is cheating ...

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Need advice: I have been seeing a married/separated guy for 5 yr


Posted Tuesday November 29 2016, 6:09 am

I have been seeing a married/separated guy for 5 yr
I admitt this started before he separated from his wife. I know this wrong but i got hooked my problem and now i am starting to see this relationship differently plus he recently allowed a new female roommate to stay with him but he insists nothing is going on.bbut there are other issues we mostly hookup now when i see him he used to take me out but now he frequently says he broke and i end up paying for dates, or he asks for money which i stopped giving cuz once he did not pay it back. I am starting to pull away from this relationship and he starting to notice should i have a talk or chuck this up to bad judgement on my part my move on with my life. He was still contacting me but ...

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Posted Monday November 28 2016, 8:43 pm

Hi! I'm 17 almost 18 & ive been dating someone who I love for a year now. Lately I've been feeling I don't know, scared of the future maybe? He keeps talking about how we're going to be together forever, and that this relationship could never end. He also talks about getting married adventually, a long time from now of course. He really is a great guy. I also feel like he doesn't let me breathe, he sends paragraphs for love text about how great we are, I feel bad writing this but I've just been thinking do I want to stay with the same guy forever? Is that bad? Should I experience other things? Not just with guys but experience what it's like to be single I love him I do, maybe I'm just stressed I don't know I just need some advice.
Thanks for the help.

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insecure with how i look?


Posted Monday November 28 2016, 1:13 am

Growing up i wouldnt say i was the prettiest girl in the world, no boys had a crush on me except for one who quickly got over it when a girl who liked him and was my friend at the time said "ew you like her?" then after that he got over it. This was in the 6th grade. Grade 9 comes along and i remember on orientation day these girls were looking at girls for this guy one girl pointed at me and the other girl said "ew no omfg shes so ugly" it hurt my feelings but i shrugged it off because they didnt know me (that girl who called me ugly ended up being one of my friends until graduation). Anyways grade 10 comes along and a guy makes a joke about me to his friend so basically his friend liked my friend but she didnt like him...

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Head job


Posted Sunday November 27 2016, 10:36 pm

What is the difference between a head job and a blow job

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What can I do to forget the person I love?


Posted Sunday November 20 2016, 8:19 pm

What should I do to forget the person I love?
I love in a wrong person?

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Do i break up with him or stay? :/


Posted Saturday November 19 2016, 4:34 pm

So here's the deal..
My boyfriend of 7 months is one of the most caring and most loving guys i've met. He's thoughtful, constantly complimenting me and has told me that he loves me and im his dream girl. I feel completely comfortable around him, however we are long distance so we dont get to see eachother often. I had also recently had a long hospital stay and had to have a serious operation, he stuck by me through this. However.. i during this situation was trying to distance myself from him.. don't ask me why.. i dont know. This really upset him and worried him and i felt really guilty, but it was from this point that i found myself losing feelings. He would message/call me all the time to check on me. After being discharged, a mon...

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In a relationship, bi-curious? So scared


Posted Friday November 18 2016, 2:18 am

22/F So I've been in a relationship with my BF for 3 years now, and I love him very much. He's the only relationship I've ever had, and even now after living together we're both still virgins. We both agree we're not ready to bare the responsibilities that sex imposes. Of course it's hard but by now we're both used to it.

The issue that I find myself facing is... I never thought that me finding women attractive would be a problem. I could never picture a relationship with a woman, however I find them very attractive. And how can you not, women are beautiful creatures! But... what I now struggle with is I find that I no longer find my boyfriend attractive. It's like I don't want sex anymore. I've never had it and it feels like...

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Does he like me still?


Posted Tuesday November 15 2016, 4:25 pm

Im 17 yr old girl, in Sep met a boy in a group of mates I know at a festival. First day he kept looking/smiling at me, laughing&joking with me. Spent the day with him&2 others, we got on so well. That night my mates went to bed but I wasnt tired so went to his group&they said they loved me being there, mostly him. Walked me back to my tent&got close to me until another guy came with us. Rest of weekend paid most attention to me, would hug me&noone else, talk to me first&shout for me not my mates&felt like he liked me but chance never arose to get with him. The last day I went to say bye he chanted my name then hugged me so big&said ‘feel like ive known you forever’. At this point I like him more than a us...

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letting go


Posted Sunday November 13 2016, 8:55 pm

How can I forget the girl I love the most?

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EX.


Posted Friday November 11 2016, 7:01 am

Something really weird happend and i wouldnt say im overthinking it, cause i think anyone else in my position would think so much about this. Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago. We had a really nasty break up, he lied to me, so i broke up with him-- and when things calmed down after a while he told me to forget about him completely and i guess i hurt his ego. Anyway- its been months, hes blocked me off of everything and hasnt tried to ONCE unblock me to see what im up to. I see him every now and then because i am a custumor at his store and he acts like i dont even exist. Looks at me every now and then but nothing i try to pay attention to so that i dont think so much about it. So to me, im completely convinced that he hates me and im off h...

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This question is just for guys


Posted Thursday November 10 2016, 1:04 pm

I want to know from a guy's point of view is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out?

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Should I send him my picture?


Posted Saturday November 5 2016, 7:18 pm

So I made a profile on this dating profile and I'm kind of insecure of how I look so my profile picture is just a random sunset I've found online. I met this guy on there and he messaged me and said he doesn't normally message people first but he just had to message me because we had so much in common based on my profile and apparently we went to the same unverisity (turns out he's not my type but I think I'm his type) anyways we talked all night and then all throughout this morning and then he finally asked me to send a pic of me, so I asked for his Instagram so I could just send him the pic there and guess what? he did have an Instagram but he only had one follower, and was following 53 people, he had no profile picture or posts either. ...

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Single for 8 years help!!!!


Posted Friday November 4 2016, 12:45 am

I'm a 33 year old female, I'm 5'8 average built, and I think I'm a cute person. I don't have self esteem issues, I look in the mirror and think of myself as cute. But no guys ever approach me that I'm even remotely interested in. It's always guys old enough to be my father, which completely grosses me out. Don't get me wrong, there's lots of older attractive men out there... I for one rather not date someone in their 60's... Ten years older than me is my limit. And that's usually who approaches me, or weirdo looking guys, I wouldn't dare go out with. I keep my make up nice and simple, I'm kinda a perfectionist when it comes to beauty, so my hair is always neat... I'm a cocktail waitress, and writer... So I see guys on the regular, at work.....

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GREAT dates ... Why did I scare him off?


Posted Tuesday November 1 2016, 5:18 pm

I met a man online recently and had a lovely first date with him. I couldn't believe how intelligent and kind and respectful he was. Even though he isn't really my usual type, I found myself very drawn to him. He even waited with me while I got into a taxi, and I found myself thinking that I had somehow met a true gentleman.

Our second date, a few days later, was even better. We spent upwards of seven hours (!) together, eating, drinking and talking, and both commented on how unlike a second date it felt. He said we had waded into conversation that was "six month relationship" territory -- "in a good way!" -- and that he couldn't believe how comfortable he felt. I confessed that I hadn't been so charmed an...

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ex has a friend


Posted Monday October 31 2016, 6:08 pm

Hi i am 17 years and well my ex is 25 . We have now each other for almost 4 years. During that time we had broke up many times so we decided to just be friends but i think we still have feeling for each other. We never had sex but we exchanged pics etc. Lately he stopp3d talking to me because of an argument we had ...i tried talking to him but he seemed uninterested so i juat gave up. Then one night he msged me late and said that my profile pics were turning him on and we should have a little fun . I was really pissed as i felt used so i juat said that i am tired and gonna sleep. He was begging and stuff but i just went and slèep. The pojnt is although i feel like thia i believe that he i ahould be with him because he will change. For the...

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He relapsed and broke it off


Posted Monday October 31 2016, 1:36 am

Hi! 24/f

We went on a few dates, and got very serious, very quickly. He was very open and said he was in AA, sober for 3 years. He then texted me a few hours before a date and said he failed to share that he relapsed a couple of weeks ago and his sponsor highly recommends that he should not date for a few months to focus on himself & recovery. That makes total sense, but I have such strong feelings for him. Should I check in with him a month or so and just catch-up and hear about his progress or should I just stay away?

I've never dated someone in AA, so I'm not sure if that would be a distraction and really bad or good because it means I want to be friends, and I'm really wanting the best for him/ to hear...

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