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Not feeling so great
Posted Tuesday October 16 2018, 4:15 pm
First off, I want to thank anyone reading this and I apologize for any grammar mistakes. I used to work with this guy that I liked and we used to sit with each other everyday. I had a huge crush on him and he wanted to sit by me. We had a lot fun together- we flirted and got to know each other a little. For instance, our interests. At the time he was dating a girl and I was pretty bummed. A friend of mine noticed us and said why don't you just date each other? My guy friend didn't seem to be too happy to answer but he said he has a gf (at the time). My friend noticed this and said you don't seem to be too happy. Anyways this was in my younger 20's (24) when I met him. We sat with each other almost everyday at work and sometimes we hung out ...
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CRUSH
Posted Friday October 12 2018, 10:22 pm
I have a crush on two people, I don't know who to choose...
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I want to travel in the future... and he doesn't. What to do?
Posted Monday October 8 2018, 11:41 pm
So I have been dating this boy for almost 5 years now.I know that we really love eachother and we like spending time with one another but I just can’t seem to stop worrying about the future.I know that in the future I definitely want to travel and try new things but i’m worried he might not want to come along.We grew up in a small country town and he’s mentioned once that he can’t really see us leaving, which crushes me because my experiences in our town have been awful and I know that as soon as I leave for school i’m never coming back.So I guess my question is:Should I worry about this so much? And is there any way I convince him to live a life with me thats not traditional and involves vigorous travel?
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Any tips on how to change your appearance to look more attractive?
Posted Monday October 8 2018, 5:31 pm
I guess what I’m trying to say is I’ll be 20 in 2 months and I’m tired of looking like I’m 15. I’ve been told I look 15 by so many people and I think it might be the reason why I don’t attract guys my age. Also because I just have low self-esteem, being called ugly my whole life kind of just made me stop trying. However, now that I’m getting over I actually want to try with my appearance so any tips? Also if you have tips on how to talk to guys that would be nice too. Again being called ugly my whole life made me not even bother with guys I’d admire from afar but I developed anxiety when talking to guys because in high school guys would constantly call me ugly for no reason so I stopped bothering. But I feel like I can’t ...
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MEN WHY IS THIS????????????
Posted Sunday October 7 2018, 4:43 am
i took a random poll and asked men how long after dating a woman do you "expect" her to give you some? 98% said two weeks ...REALLY? that is so pathetic....are women really looked down upon as sex objects....men do wife those types of women, but do men really think after a few steaks and mcdonalds you're supposed to give him some...that is so sad, I think if women respected themselves and had some classes they wouldn't be looked at as sex objects and nutrags and men wont objective them...
aren't women worth more than being a sex toy...
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I still love him, and I don't know what to do about it!
Posted Saturday October 6 2018, 10:03 pm
I'm a 16 year old female. Two years ago, I started crushing hard on a friend of mine. About a year ago, I confessed to him, but was rejected. He was super sweet about it though. Really understanding, and we're still friends. But, even though its been a while since the rejection, I still love him. I tried avoiding him for a while, but I still thought about him. I tried dating someone else, but I couldn't bring myself to love them as much as I do him. I know this little crush has crossed the point from innocent to obsessive, but I don't know what to do about it.
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Relationship troubles or overthinking it? NSFW
Posted Friday October 5 2018, 4:17 am
I've been with my S.O. for about 4 months now and we recently moved in together. Everything's been going pretty well, but some things are bothering me and I just wanted some insight from other people on whether I'm just overthinking things or whether these are really issues.
My #1 issue is that I feel like I do a lot for him, but he doesn't see it. He's type one diabetic and so I go out of my way to make him low carb lunches every day during the week and dinners (from scratch) about half the week. I make the bed, feed our two cats in the morning, scoop the litter, grocery shop, run errands, take out the trash, and keep the house clean in general. I also take full time classes in premed and I work 4-7 hours a night (dependin...
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Is he still in love with me because he’s saying all this?
Posted Thursday October 4 2018, 7:53 am
“You’ll always be in my heart, don’t forget that” he said after we broke up. Is that a fancy way of saying, you’re my back up or something? Can anyone explain please? We’re in our 20’s.
Much appreciated
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I like my best friend
Posted Wednesday October 3 2018, 7:51 am
Recently I have developed my first crush. She is my best friend, and I know she liked me a while back, but I don’t know if she likes me now. I’m worried that if she rejects me I’ll lose her as a friend, and that would not be ideal. Give me advice please.
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I just need some advice
Posted Tuesday October 2 2018, 10:23 pm
So I have been friends with this person for a while, and hadn’t liked them. And I haven’t liked anyone ever for that matter. But I found out that they liked me a little while back, and now I like them now, but I don’t know if they still like me. I also think that if she rejects me It will be awkward around us, and she is my best friend. Just please tell me what to do.
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Does it mean anything if he called me pretty?
Posted Monday October 1 2018, 6:09 pm
I'm 18 and I work in a restaurant. There's this guy that works there as well. Hes 22. He's very sweet, very nice, and he's a really good person to talk to.
Any problem I ever had, I would go to him and he'd always help me out and give me advice. Once, I was supposed to talk to him about something at the end of work but someone kept talking to him and i had to go. He texted me later that night apologizing for not being able to talk to me, and he told me to text him what's wrong.
He's like my best friend at work, we always talk and joke. A few days ago, we were talking about something and he said "it's hard not to notice you" and I'm like "what's that supposed to mean??" And he was like "...
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Posted Monday October 1 2018, 5:05 am
Before we broke up my ex boyfriend said, you’ll always be in my heart! Don’t forget that! What did he mean? We broke because of few differences. I didn’t want to but he broke up with me, he also said, you’re a nice girl, I love you, I like you and sex is amazing but he had to break up with me. I’m feeling very blue. I feel like he wanted to say you’re my back up girl, I don’t know I could be wrong. We’re 26 and 28 years of age. Cheers all
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The girl I like has a boyfriend (I NEED ADVICE)
Posted Sunday September 30 2018, 6:20 pm
I met this girl and we instantly clicked. We relate to each other in many ways and we always have a good time with one another. Our conversations that we have are really deep and we are able to understand each other very well. Sometimes it feels like I am talking to the female version of myself. The problem is I asked her out and she told me she has a boyfriend of less than a month. She told that if she didn't have a boyfriend she would have gone out on a date with me. Fast forward a week later, she asks me to get lunch with her. We had a great time. Later that week, after work I found myself asking her to go to the park and hang out. She agrees and one of the first thing she asks me is about my past relationships and I tell her a little bi...
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My first time asking for advice. Hello, can you help me?
Posted Sunday September 30 2018, 11:01 am
Hello,i hope the person who'll read this is having a good day. I just picked this category because what I need advice for, I don't know what category it belongs in. I'm a 54 filipina, married my American husband last year of june. Unfortunately we have not filed for my petition because we are sadly currently broke. I've been with him for almost 4 years, we met online & because I have a U.S. visa, we both decided to be together. From the start our relationship has been tested. We do love each other but because of circumstances in his life things have been difficult. We are very much in love that's why we are still together. When I arrived & moved in with him, we were both so excited & happy to be together. After 2 weeks his son 2...
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i have a crush... he is engaged
Posted Wednesday September 26 2018, 6:17 pm
so i'm a 19 years old girl and i have a huge crush on this 27 year old guy. but we can never actually be together, he is engaged and way older then me, i'm religious he is an atheist and i just cant get over him.
i always try to tell myself that it's not ok but i just can't i need help to just stop thinking about him.
btw he is also kind of flirty with me and it makes it even harder.
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why she cant hug me
Posted Monday September 24 2018, 3:21 pm
Why doesn't she hug me in public and she hugs her classmates?
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Does he not care anymore?
Posted Sunday September 23 2018, 3:36 pm
Hello,
Both 27
I'm thinking of moving away from him because I'm still heartbroken as we split up about few months ago and i'm still hung up on him. (he initiated the split up). I miss him and cried the other evening. we're still on good terms and in contact. see each other once a week. I don't think I should stay anywhere near him because I love him still now, my question is, I asked him if I should move in a friendly term he said, what, No, (with surprising face) he replied like that the first time. I asked him again days later, he said it's up to you. I guess he don't want me to but since he's not saying much, why would he say 'it's up to you?' does he not care or is he just saying this? I have a headache thi...
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Feeling Second Best
Posted Sunday September 23 2018, 2:13 pm
I was dating a 30-year-old for 3 weeks. I found out that I was the side chick--Meaning he was dating someone else.
He wasn't with this person for a very long time, either, but when I found out, I couldn't help but be disappointed. I was told he was distancing himself from her and was planning on breaking up with her, so we could date, I couldn't help but still feel wrong about the whole thing.
I told him I was removing myself from the situation because it was just all very confusing. He told me he was removing himself, as well. He said he had her stuff ready to go to give it to her. From what it looked like, he really was going to break it off.
But then he texted me saying he couldn't, because sh...
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Am I asexual? I don’t want to be
Posted Friday September 14 2018, 2:20 am
I’m a 13 (14 in 3 days) year old girl and I’ve never really felt very attracted to anyone. I’ve had small crushes but never had the desire to act on them. Am I asexual? I don’t want to be. I want to fall in love with someone but I just don’t feel attracted to anyone in my school. Have my hormones just not kicked in yet? I’ve had my period and everything.
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Which one of us is right (or are we both in the wrong)?
Posted Thursday September 13 2018, 1:02 am
I moved in with my boyfriend about two weeks ago. When I did he told me I could decorate however I want.
Well this week I started redecorating. We went furniture shopping and bought all new bedroom furniture for us (splitting the cost). I bought bedding, everything for the kitchen, and for the living room. Everything went fine. Then I got to the two guest bedrooms and I threw out some of his bedding and bought new sets. The reason I did that was because his bedding was very old, junky looking, and smelled very musty. I thought he would be fine with it because I told him I was buying new bedding and expressed my distaste with the old sets. He told me that was fine and that he trusted I'd pick out something nice. Well I did. T...
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